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December 6, 2013

One Israeli creation for the weekend

In Israel, there’s no Broadway, and the staged Musicals are considered a small, uncommon genre. That is, until Hanukkah. Once a year, for about a month around the time of Hanukkah, the Israeli public rushes to the theaters for the most musical time of the year. Every year, the curtain rises over new musicals for children or for the entire family, from adaptations of well-known fairy tales to local performers aiming for the younger generation putting on a special act.


Between the changing varieties of musicals, one show stands out as an Israeli Hanukkah tradition: The Festigal.  It is a singing contest, where the most famous stars take the stage and perform an original song, within a storyline that bundles all of the acts together. At the end of the spectacular show, the audience can vote for their favorite performance and a winner is announced at the end of the show’s yearly run.


The first Festigal took place in Haifa in 1981and since then it developed to become the biggest even of Hannukah. Nowadays it is travelling throughout the country, reaching all children of Israel with different storylines and stars every year.

 

Official clip of Festigal 2013

 

Kmo Robin Hood (Like Robin Hood). Performed by Ran Dnaker in the 2004 Festigal

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A National Movement Towards Inclusion

There’s a movement happening and it’s happening now.

Like the early pioneers who settled the land of Israel, individuals with special needs and their families are creating change for the future and crossing unknown lands towards acceptance, appreciation and inclusion. They are inspiring service providers,teachers, family and friends. And this week, they inspired 25 leaders in the Jewish disability community who gathered at the Pearlstone Retreat center in rural Maryland (well it may just be 25 minutes outside of Baltimore but for this native Angeleno, it sure felt pretty rural!) to learn about Disability and Inclusion in the Jewish community.

Along with Adynna Swarz from the Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles and Elaine Hall from The Miracle Project Judaica and consultant at Vista Del Mar, I was fortunate to be invited to attend the first Jewish Leadership Institute on Disabilities and Inclusion. presented by The National Leadership Consortium on Disability and Inclusion, a program of the University of Delaware’s Department of Human Development and Family Studies.

(For more information, visit here or search for our hashtag #JInclusion13 on Twitter and Facebook).

Thanks to the generous funding of The Ruderman Family Foundation and support from The Harry and Jeanette Weinberg Foundation, educators, community professionals, family members and self-advocates from across North America came together to grow, learn and see what best practices we can bring home to our communities to create change.

From all different areas in the disability community, we came together and learned about housing initiatives, educational programs, employment possibilities, how to work with funders and boards and welcoming children and adults with special needs, and their families, into all aspects of Jewish communal life.

An underlying theme throughout the week was creating person-centered programming and always including the person with special needs in decision making and choices. As Joshua Erenmark, a teenager with Autism, reminded us on the Jewish Federation Special Needs Study Mission to Israel: “Nothing about us without us” (read more about it on this blog by clicking here).

As with any change, we know it is not easy and will require hard work. We came from different social service and community agencies, educational,housing and vocational programs but over delicious, organic meals and long walks around Pearlstone, we found that we have much to learn from each other. A colleague in Atlanta working with adults can help someone planning educational programs for children at a school in Baltimore. I can call colleagues in Detroit and get guidance about creating programs for teens with special needs here in LA. The amazing staff of the Leadership Institute pushed us to question the status quo and dream big for the future. As Rabbi Lynne Landsberg, senior advisor on disability issues to the URJ Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism, said so beautifully, “We must change attitudes from pity to possibility.”

Attitudes in the Jewish community are changing, at their own pace, and we are ready to help facilitate that change. The week we spent at Pearlstone fell during the last four nights of Chanukah. On Wednesday, as we lit the candles for the 8th night of Chanukah and danced around a beautiful fireplace, we experienced the miracles that Chanukah describes.

During Chanukah, we celebrate the miracle of oil lasting for eight days instead of just one and that a small group of Jews was able to defeat the mighty Greek army. We, like the families and individuals that we help and support, are overcoming the army of injustice and exclusion and fighting for a world of inclusion and possibility for those with disabilities and special needs. Our work will continue as we return to our homes, in Los Angeles, Boston, Toronto and beyond, but we are forever changed from this week of leadership, learning and growth. Nes Gadol Haya Po. A great miracle has surely happened here.


Sarah Blitzstein, MSW, MAJCS is the Director of Hamercaz and Special Needs Programs at Jewish Family Service of Los Angeles. She works with children and adults with special needs and can be reached at SBlitzstein@jfsla.org

For more information on Hamercaz (one-stop special needs resource for birth to 22), go here and to learn more about Chaverim, social/recreational programs for Jewish adults with special needs, click here.

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When Mandela and Sharansky met in LA


My only encounter with Nelson Mandela was on June 29, 1990 at the Biltmore Hotel, and the initial impression was more comical than awe-inspiring.

The reserved, soft-spoken Mandela, released only four months earlier after 27 years in South African prisons, stood next to the bouncy Sharansky, towering over the former refusenik by a good foot, while a battery of photographers tried to get the two men’s faces into the same closeup frame.

It wasn’t certain, until the last minute, that the meeting would come off. Mandela had less that 24 hours in Los Angeles, part of a 10-day

tour of the United States, and everybody wanted a piece of the international celebrity.
In addition, though he was allied with many South African Jews throughout his struggle, Mandela had shown little sympathy for the Jewish state in recent statements.

One of the first international visitors to embrace Mandela after his prison release was Yasser Arafat, another short guy and head of the Palestine Liberation Organization,

On this and earlier occasions, Mandela compared the struggle of his African National Congress (ANC) to the Palestinian fight for self-determination against the Israeli occupiers.

To emphasize the point, Mandela had also praised Libya’s Moammar Gadhafi and Cuba’s Fidel Castro as “comrades in arms.”
However, the Jewish community and Israeli diplomats hoped that a meeting between Mandela and Sharansky, both ex-prisoners of conscience, might mellow the South African leader’s attitude.

After prolonged negotiations, spearheaded the Anti-Defamation League, Mandela consented. Sharansky, who is now chairman of the Jewish Agency for Israel, caught a plane from New York to Los Angeles.

The meeting between the two men was closed to the press, but Sharansky let it be known that his arguments, including a reminder that Israel had been among the first nations to denounce apartheid, had not changed Mandela’s basic position.

I was covering the press conference for a now defunct Jewish weekly, Heritage, but couldn’t find a copy of the story I filed at the time. Fortunately, an article on the event by the Jewish Telegraphic Agency refreshed my recollections.

At a City Hall reception earlier in the day, Mandela had chatted with Rabbi Harvey Fields in his capacity as chairman of the Black-Jewish Clergy Alliance of Los Angeles.

When Fields noted that the Reform movement’s rabbinical arm had just reaffirmed its support of the ANC and of Mandela personally, the latter responded, “Your support means a great deal, more than you can possibly imagine.”

During the brief photo session, Mandela jokingly apologized for having to look down on his short friend. Sharansky responded that thanks to his diminutive stature, he was able to wrap the oversized prison clothes around his body during the cold Russian winters.

“Where I was, it was very hot,” was Mandela’s comeback.

Mandela left right after the photo session to prepare for an early evening rally at the Coliseum, with 70,000 admirers.

Sharansky stayed on for a short while, then looked at his watch. “I have to leave,” he said. “Shabbat starts in 20 minutes and I don’t want to go by foot for two hours.”
  

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December 6, 2013

The US

Headline: Obama defends Iran deal at Hanukkah celebration

To Read: George F. Will believes that a nuclear Iran is basically a done deal, and that containment is better than war as far as the US is concerned-

The agreement will not stop Iran from acquiring nuclear weapons; only a highly unlikely Iranian choice can do that. The agreement may, however, prevent a war to prevent Iran from acquiring such weapons. If Pollack is right, and he certainly is persuasive, we have two choices, war or containment. Those who prefer the former have an obligation to clearly say why its consequences would be more predictable and less dire than those in the disastrous war with Iraq.  

Quote: “He no longer belongs to us. He belongs to the ages”, President Obama paying tribute to Nelson Mandela.

Number: 1928, US income inequality is at its highest since 1928, according to Pew.

 

Israel

Headline: Kerry, Seeking to Nudge Along Peace Talks, Offers Netanyahu Ideas on Security

To Read: Steve Linde writes about Nelson Mandela's ambivalent attitude toward Israel-

Mandela resented Israel's military relationship with apartheid South Africa, and passionately supported the PLO, which he saw as a liberation movement similar to his own ANC.

He supported Israel's right to exist as a democratic Jewish state, yet felt closer to its enemies: the PLO's Yasser Arafat, Libya's Muammar Gaddafi, Cuba’s Fidel Castro, Iran¹s Mohammed Khatami and Syria's Hafez Assad. Nevertheless, he praised his Israeli hosts for their warm reception and peace-making efforts. Mandela received a red-carpet welcome at the King David Hotel, where South African chief rabbi Cyril Harris, together with leaders of the South African Jewish Board of Deputies and Israel's ambassador to South Africa, Uri Oren, greeted him.

Quote:  “Wonder Woman is arguably one of the most powerful female characters of all time and a fan favorite in the DC Universe. Not only is Gal an amazing actress, but she also has that magical quality that makes her perfect for the role.” Film director Zack Snyder in a statement about Gal Gadot, the Israeli actress chosen to play Wonder woman.

Number:  250, the number of Christian Arab-Israelis who participated in an IDF recruitment event earlier this month.

 

The Middle East

Headline: Activists: Assad used poison gas again

To Read: Egyptian journalist Mohannad Sabry writes about the emergence of al-Qaeda in Egypt-

Despite claims by several Islamists that Egypt's militant groups have no organizational ties to al-Qaeda, the surge in militant attacks suggests otherwise. Within five months, six explosive trucks targeted military and security facilities and convoys including that of the minister of interior in eastern Cairo, in addition to dozens of roadside bombs that hit military and police vehicles in the northern Sinai Peninsula.

Quote: “Following our victories in domestic and foreign policy, now people have got their eyes on the economy,” Iran's Minister of the Economy, Ali Tayyebnia commenting on the sanctions relief which is already beginning to be felt by Iranians.

Number: 1, Egypt's General Sisi ranked number 1 in Time Magazine's 'person of the year' reader poll.

 

The Jewish World

Headline: South African Jews Mourn Nelson Mandela, 'Mensch' of the Nation

To Read:  Conservative Rabbi David Lerner takes a look at the bright side of the Conservative Movement's progress-

 When we look beyond numbers to big ideas, the movement’s success has been remarkable.  Its focus on Hebrew and traditional rituals has been picked up by Reform and other liberal movements. Its halakhic egalitarianism is being emulated by modern Orthodoxy today. It continues the support of Israel that has been a hallmark since the movement’s founding; Reform and Orthodoxy now emulate that position. Its focus on academic excellence and intellectual honesty has been picked up by hundreds of Judaic studies departments around the country. Its approaches have bred institutions founded by graduates of Jewish Theological Seminary, its premier educational institution.  Although not officially part of the movement Congregation B’nai Jeshurun, Kehillat/Mechon Hadar and IKAR are among its products.

Quote: “I don’t give a shit about asylum seekers, but the journalists are to be blamed. They should be hanged; they are like the Jews”, an Austrian mayor saying some terrible things.

Number: $1m, the LA Kabbalah Center is being sued by former followers for $1m.

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Rosner’s Torah-Talk: Parashat Vayigash with Rabbi Naamah Kelman

Our guest this week is Rabbi Naamah Kelman, Dean of the Hebrew Union College in Jerusalem.  A descendent of 10 generations of rabbis, Rabbi Kelman became the first woman to be ordained by the Hebrew Union College in Jerusalem in 1992.

Born and raised in New York, she has lived in Israel since 1976; where she has worked in community organizing, Jewish education, and the promotion and establishment of Progressive and Pluralistic Judaism for Israelis. Kelman has been intensely involved in the emerging education system of the Israeli Movement for Progressive (Reform) Judaism. Among the founders of the first Progressive Day school, she has overseen the development of curricular materials, teacher training programs, and family education. She has been involved in teacher training and enrichment, the professional development of the Israeli Rabbinic students, and the establishment of “Mazorim” Spiritual Care/Israeli Chaplaincy. She was the Director of the Year in Israel Program for HUC's North American students. She is a board member of Rabbis for Human Rights, MELITZ, and the Tali Education Fund. Naamah Kelman is deeply engaged in inter-faith dialogue and feminist causes.

This week's Torah portion- Parashat Vayigash (Genesis 44:18-47:27)- features the dramatic scene in which Joseph reveals his real identity to his brothers in Egypt and describes the reconciliation between them. Our discussion focuses on the role of Judah in this beautiful story and on the reasons why we are all the sons and daughters of Judah.

 

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Sibling Rivalry

This Shabbat, Jews all over the world are reading Vayigash – a Torah portion that continues the saga of Joseph and his brothers, and the story of sibling rivalry that spiraled way, way out of control. Just to recap: Joseph is the young and favored son of our patriarch Jacob, and no, Jacob did not even try to hide his preference for Joseph. Jacob crafts the famous coat of many colors for his beloved son, and lets Joseph remain by his side while the other sons tend the flocks in neighboring towns. Nor is Joseph blameless in the rivalry among the siblings; he brings bad reports about his brothers to Jacob (today we call it being a tattletale) and regales his brothers with accounts of dreams in which Joseph emerges triumphant and glorified. It's not a great setup; and during the past weeks, the story has unfolded further: Joseph's jealous brothers throw him in a pit and sell him into Egyptian slavery, then dip his coat of many colors in animal blood and present it to their father as evidence that Joseph has been killed by a beast. But of course Joseph is not so easily disposed of; after his own trials in Egypt, he becomes second-in-command to Pharaoh – and comes to hold the power of life and death over his brothers when famine brings them to Egypt in desperate search of food.

The story reaches its climax in this week's Torah portion, as Joseph reveals himself to and forgives his brothers, and the Book of Genesis will end on a seemingly high note next week with our ancestors settled safely in Egypt. The Joseph saga might, in fact, lead us to believe sibling rivalry is really no big deal – Joseph and his brothers did reconcile, and all's well that ends well. Except, of course, that it doesn't end so well. We know what will soon happen to the Israelites who thought they were settled safely in Egypt – slavery and suffering and the slaughter of male children. And our ancient sages were quick to point out that the seeds of these horrors began with Jacob's favoritism of Joseph, and the rivalry that bloomed among the brothers.

While our own kids are (hopefully) not throwing each other into pits or selling one another into slavery, and while (hopefully) the effects of their rivalry won't end in the enslavement of an entire people, we parents still have a front-row seat to witness the damage that sibling rivalry can bring. Sometimes our kids hurt each other physically; sometimes they wreak emotional harm by exploiting their closeness to one another (only a brother or sister knows exactly what your weakest points are, and how to use them against you most effectively). And while a bit of fighting and arguing is all part of having a sibling, sometimes the rivalry becomes toxic, and threatens the essential and enduring bond between brothers and sisters.

Is there anything we as parents can do to ease the rivalry between siblings, and to ensure it doesn't spiral out of control? I think so:

Begin early. We've all been taught how to ease our firstborn's anger/sadness/disappointment when his/her baby sibling arrives – by making the older brother/sister feel special, right? We should offer a gift to our firstborn, ostensibly from the baby, and take special time to connect with our older child away from the new arrival. These are important and worthwhile steps; however, we also need to be sure we don't go overboard. While it's okay for our older children to express anger or sadness about the new baby, we should not nod unquestioningly or simply validate their emotions when they say really mean or cruel things about their new sibling. We can honor their feelings but still demonstrate our expectations for how they will treat one another: “I understand you feel really angry about baby Ava right now. A lot of kids feel that way when a new brother or sister comes, and it's okay. But I love you both very much, and it's not okay for you to say that you hate Ava or to tell me to give her away.” You can also verbalize when you're balancing the needs of both your kids by telling the baby in a sweet, soothing voice: “Oh, Ava, I hear you crying because you want me to pick you up. I'll pick you up soon, but right now you have to wait because I'm getting Alex a snack. Taking care of Alex is just as important to me as taking care of you.” All your baby will understand is your calming voice – but your older child will understand the words, and the sentiments behind them.

Intervene when necessary. The dictum about “letting them work it out” is fine as long as the kids are evenly matched. But when a stronger kid is beating up a weaker one, or one is not merely teasing but saying truly hurtful things to another, you need to act. If you're not 100 percent positive who started it, don't worry about assigning blame; just defuse the situation and calmly state your family rules: “Kicking your brother is not allowed. Please go play outside for awhile and work off some of your energy.” “Making comments about your sister's face is not allowed. Please take some private time in your room.”

Make time. With our crazy schedules and busy lives, it's an unfortunate truth that our kids may spend time together only when they're exhausted and cranky from a long day. Make family time a priority, and carve out hours to spend together when everyone's at their best. If unstructured time tends to devolve into fights, organize a project in which everyone can participate – making sandwiches to be donated to a homeless shelter, for example, or wrapping gifts for needy families – or plan an outing that allows for bonding and togetherness without keeping your kids on top of each other – a trip to a children's museum or the movies, for example, or dinner at a fondue or hibachi restaurant.

Foster support. Encourage your kids to see each other's victories and happy occasions as positive developments in their lives as well. Avoid comparing them to one another, and celebrate with equal enthusiasm the achievements that are significant to each of them. You may be more impressed with a science fair ribbon than a winning goal – but never let your kids know. If your kids feel valued for who they are, they'll come to value siblings for their unique qualities as well – and if your kids know you love them equally, they won't feel threatened by your love for the other.

Brilliant birthday idea. This is the single best idea for defusing sibling rivalry I have ever seen, and it came from my mom. I can personally attest to how much it meant to me, and how much it helped my brother and me forge a close relationship when we were small. You know how jealous one sibling gets when it's the other's birthday, and how hard it is for little kids to remember back to four months ago when they were the birthday child and the center of attention? On my brother's birthday, my mom and dad would take us both shopping – he picked out two gifts, and I picked out one. On my birthday, he would pick out one, and I would get two. My parents would also take us out to lunch or dinner, and really make a day of it. I cannot tell you how much fun this was, and how it helped us look forward to and be excited about each other's birthdays. It sounds so simple, but just try it – you will be amazed.

Wishing you and ALL your children a Shabbat of joy and peace!

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Meningitis Outbreaks Strike Two Campuses

Those of us who believe in the unvarying beneficence of Mother Nature have yet to contemplate Neisseria meningitidis. N. meningitidis is a bacterium that can live harmlessly in the throats of healthy people. But about 500 times a year in the US it causes bacterial meningitis, a life-threatening infection in which the membranes lining the brain and spinal cord become inflamed. Bacterial meningitis is treatable with antibiotics but even with treatment patients sometime suffer hearing loss or brain damage. And despite prompt treatment infection is sometimes fatal. When N. meningitidis gets into the blood stream it can cause loss of circulation to the extremities and loss of limbs.

On the first day of medical school I met a classmate who would become a dear friend. She was walking with a cane. During her summer vacation she had lost a couple of toes due to a blood stream infection with N. meningitidis. It would only be later when we studied microbiology that we understood how close to death she came.

N. meningitidis is transmitted between people living in very close quarters. Outbreaks can occur in facilities like prisons, military barracks, and college dormitories. For that reason, most college students are vaccinated against most strains of N. meningitidis prior to attending.

This year two US campuses have had outbreaks of meningitis due to N. meningitidis. Princeton has had seven cases. The first was in March and the most recent in late November. And in the last month four students developed meningitis at University of California, Santa Barbara (UCSB). One of the UCSB students suffered a blood stream infection and had both of his feet amputated. The two campus outbreaks appear to be unrelated, but both are caused by a strain of N. meningitidis that is not covered by the US vaccine. Health officials have been working to obtain doses of the European vaccine for students in both campuses. Meanwhile hundreds of students who have come into contact with the sickened patients are receiving preventive antibiotics, and crowded gatherings like fraternity parties have been canceled. This is especially sad since it’s my understanding that fraternity parties are the only reason people attend UCSB.

I’m sure the students and parents of both campuses are quite anxious. I hope that both outbreaks are extinguished promptly and that no one else falls ill. And to the student who lost both feet I wish determination and strength and high-tech prosthetics to make the most of what I hope will now be a healthy and long life.

While the public health officials continue their difficult work we are left to retreat to our delusions that nature is benevolent. So we will shop for our organic free-range arugula and our locally-sourced fair-trade hemp sweater vests. And we will do our best to forget that left to her own devices Mother Nature is usually trying to kill us.

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Kerry urges Israel, Palestinians to make peace like Mandela

U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry closed another Middle East troubleshooting mission on Friday by urging Israel and the Palestinians to follow Nelson Mandela's lead and make peace.

The death on Thursday of Mandela, who fought apartheid in South Africa and became its first black president, was mourned across the globe, including by Israelis and Palestinians – the latter calling him an inspiration for their statehood struggle.

Kerry wants to coax the two sides towards a negotiated accord, and set a nine-month deadline when talks were launched in July. But both sides have indicated they are pessimistic about the outcome.

Before departing from Tel Aviv after a two-day visit to Israel and the Palestinian territories, Kerry quoted Mandela as having said, in the face of challenges, that “it always seems impossible until it is done”.

“That example of Nelson Mandela is an example we all need to take to heart as we try to reach a two-state solution,” Kerry told reporters, referring to the international vision of Palestinian sovereignty in the West Bank.

One of those areas, the West Bank and adjoining East Jerusalem, has been extensively settled by Israel, leaving Palestinians worried too little space will be left for them.

The other area, Gaza, was quit by Israel in 2005 and is now ruled by armed Hamas Islamists who spurn coexistence with the Jewish state. Many Israelis question whether U.S.-backed Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas could commit his Hamas rivals to peacemaking.

SECURITY PROPOSALS

On Thursday, Kerry said he presented Israel with “some thoughts” about improving its security under any eventual accord. Neither side detailed these, but Israel has long said it would want to keep a military presence between the West Bank and Jordan, as well as swathes of Jewish settlements.

Abbas's administration opposes major Israeli annexations, deeming the settlements illegal – as do most world powers.

The Palestinians rejected Kerry's security proposals after he raised them with Abbas on Thursday, a Palestinian official told Reuters on condition of anonymity. The Palestinian peace negotiator, Saeb Erekat, denied that account but did not say what Kerry and Abbas had discussed.

After the meeting, Kerry commended Abbas for “his steadfast commitment to stay at the peace negotiations, despite the difficulties that he and the Palestinians have perceived in the process”. Kerry said he might return to the region next week.

On Friday, he sounded more upbeat, saying: “I believe we are closer than we have been in years in bringing about the peace and prosperity and security that all the people in this region deserve and have been yearning for.”

Kerry's peace mediation was overshadowed, in Israeli eyes, by his role in a Nov. 24 international deal easing sanctions on Iran in return for some curbs on its disputed nuclear programme.

An irate Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu blasted the agreement clinched in Geneva as a “historic mistake” that helped Tehran's limping economy while leaving it with the means to make a nuclear bomb – though the Iranians deny having such designs.

In their three meetings this week, Kerry and Netanyahu took pains to reaffirm their friendship and said Israel and the United States would confer closely on keeping core sanctions against Iran in place while a final nuclear deal is crafted.

Kerry said on Friday that, thanks to the Geneva agreement, “I am personally convinced beyond any reasonable doubt that Israel is safer today … We have stopped their (Iran's nuclear) programme where it is.”

Writing by Dan Williams; Editing by Mark Trevelyan

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Ideas Don’t Die Unless We Let Them

By Rabbi Mark Borovitz

Last night, as we were getting ready to go to the White House for our first time and celebrate Hanukkah, we watched the news and found out that Nelson Mandela had died. It was/is a somber moment and, yet, not unexpected. Then this morning, on Facebook, I read a post by a friend (who I actually know!!) that appeared in the New York Times Opinionator, about a man who stole an extra day with his Dad. Death seems to be calling to me and yet, I was honored to attend the White House Hanukkah Party as the guest of Harriet Rossetto and see the miracles and talks of change that are possible! Very confusing…Maybe not.

As I think of how young I was and feeling cheated by my father's death at such an early age, I realized how he is still with me and guiding me. I am just returning home from a trip that started in Florida where I saw my almost 102 year old Mother-in-Law and helped her with doctor’s appointments etc. I realized how much my wife, Harriet, appreciates her mother's presence. This past September, my family gathered to celebrate my niece's wedding, we brought along all those who have passed to the next world as well.

Nelson Mandela does not die, unless we kill his ideas and ideals. Nelson Mandela has to be an influence in our daily actions, otherwise he is meaningless to us. So too, do all of our ancestors and heroes have to be the influence that moves us to change; be it JFK, MLK Jr., RFK, David Ben-Gurion, Yitzhak Rabin, Judah Maccabee, Sgt. York, my father, my mother who has lived a life of decency and goodness, my brothers and sister, your parents, siblings, teachers, etc. 

We all will mourn and give great oratory to the lives of great leaders and people we know or read about, yet I ask, “So What?” President Obama, fix the system! Not by rhetoric, by getting your hands dirty, that's what Mandela and all heroes do. Mr. Beohner, fix the system through compromise and the spirit of cooperation, that's what Ronald Reagan did!

To myself and the rest of us, we must fix our lives through fighting for what we believe in and never becoming what we are fighting against. Let our ideals lead us and let our heroes lead us. Let Nelson Mandela and our ancestors, who were all immigrants, remind us that divide and conquer, while good in a war, only diminishes us in peace and in being able to live together. Let Judah Maccabee carry the torch that says all is possible as long as God-Image and Taking care of the poor the widow, the stranger and the orphan are carried out by us in God's name. Let all of us, Re-Hanukkah (rededicate) ourselves and our communities to these principles: Justice, Truth, Love, Compassion and Welcoming. I was welcomed at the White House last night, me: an ex-con, recovering alcoholic so I have to welcome everyone who is committed to God's world and committed to living their authentic life and those that aren't here yet, I have to welcome them and help them.

No one can do this alone, not even God! That's why Humans are a Divine Need, as I understand Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel. I ask for your help for Beit T’Shuvah to continue to welcome all regardless of money, I ask your help to get Republicans and Democrats to work together, I ask your help to care for the widow, poor, orphan and stranger in your neighborhood and inside your family and inside of you. God Bless the soul of Nelson Mandela, the souls of all our departed and the souls of all of us through our deeds.

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