"We were born in Austria, Budapest, the Bronx, Toronto and Oklahoma," she begins. "We grew up atheist, Reform kosher, socialist-Zionist. Two of us went to Orthodox yeshivas. Our average age is 49, and collectively we've been married for 75 years."
When the laughter dies down, Berger continues more seriously. "All five of us got our call to serve, and here we are," she said. "Our calling is to heal souls -- the souls of the Jewish people."
The candidates' teachers and mentors are then called up to stand behind their former students, who literally lean back into the arms of those who taught them, receiving ordination via hands-on transmission.
This very personal, emotion-filled ceremony on Jan. 7 -- the highlight of the annual Ohalah Convention, the professional association of Renewal rabbis -- is in keeping with the mission of Jewish Renewal.
It's an egalitarian, neo-Chasidic Jewish practice that is reaching for greater internal consistency and standardization of its rabbinic training.
Often derided or acclaimed as "New Age Judaism," Renewal focuses on environmentalism and direct spiritual connection to the Divine. It's part of the burgeoning world of transdenominational Judaism -- the growing number of synagogues, rabbis and prayer groups that eschew affiliation with a Jewish stream.
Renewal is "not a denomination" but an attempt to revitalize Jewish practice by emphasizing its spiritual depths, said Rabbi Marcia Prager, dean of the rabbinic program for Aleph: Alliance for Jewish Renewal. The approach was developed four decades ago by Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, a former Chabad-Lubavitch rabbi who is still the movement's spiritual head.
Renewal today claims 40 affiliated congregations. Since 1974, 112 Renewal spiritual leaders have been ordained -- 98 rabbis, three cantors and 11 rabbinic pastors. Sixty are graduates of the Aleph rabbinic program, created in the late 1990s to bring greater consistency to the course of study and relieve the pressure on Schachter-Shalomi, who had been personally overseeing each student's progress.
The Aleph program differs from other seminaries in that it is completely off site. Each student has an individualized program developed and overseen by a mentoring committee. That can include classes at other seminaries, synagogues and universities, independent reading and traditional hevruta, or Torah study in pairs, as well as teleconference courses led by Aleph teachers.
In addition to Hebrew, Jewish text, history and philosophy and professional development courses, Renewal students study Chasidic literature and philosophy, meditation and prayer. They are each assigned a mashpia, or mentor, who guides their personal religious journey. The mashpia system is a staple in the Chasidic world.
Whereas other seminaries have carefully structured five-year rabbinic programs -- six if a preparatory year is required -- an Aleph course can take from two to 10 years or more. Few students are full time. Most are older and cannot leave family and career behind to attend a traditional seminary.
Daniel Siegel, the first Renewal rabbi ordained by Schachter-Shalomi in 1974 and now an Aleph teacher, said each seminary has its strengths. Aleph's focus is pastoral care.
"We're trying to train people who are drawn to the service of other people," he said.
Leaders of other seminaries raise concerns about Aleph, not for the quality or sincerity of its students or faculty, but for its lack of standardization.
Rabbi Dan Ehrenkrantz, president of the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College, noted that Aleph has not sought accreditation, and he questioned its reliance on distance learning.
"Our program is five or six years for a reason," Ehrenkrantz said. "We want people to have certain socialization experiences that are crucial in the development of a rabbinic identity."
In fact, when prospective students approach Aleph, if their goal is to become a pulpit rabbi, they are encouraged to enter another seminary to increase their job opportunities. Many have done so, ending up with double ordination.
Rabbi Alicia Magal was already well along in her Aleph studies when she decided to seek concurrent ordination from the Academy of Jewish Religion, a nondenominational seminary founded in New York in 1956. A Los Angeles branch was established in 2000, but two years later, the Academy for Jewish Religion, California, now located at the Yitzhak Rabin Hillel Center for Jewish Life at UCLA, separated from New York, although the academies maintain common philosophies on pluralism and spirituality.
Magal said she missed "rubbing elbows with other students."
Part of the lack of standardization is intentional.
"The key to Renewal is autonomy," Schachter-Shalomi told the Ohalah gathering. "We bring heart to the situation. We bring compassion."
But it's also something Aleph's leadership is working hard to change. The establishment of the school in 1995 was itself an attempt to bring greater consistency to the preparation of Renewal rabbis, a process that continues. There's an extensive application process, course work is continually evaluated and two years ago a stable curriculum was created with courses that rotate.
The creation of Ohalah was a second step in the same direction, said Aleph board member Rabbi Pam Frydman Baugh, immediate past president of Ohalah.
"In the early days, a person who was ordained was out on their own," she said. "Now we have Ohalah to provide things rabbis need as they move forward in their profession."
But she acknowledged that Renewal is still fighting for acceptance. That's nothing new. When Reconstructionism emerged in the early 20th century, the other denominations looked askance.
"Then Renewal came around, and Reconstructionism became part of the establishment," Baugh said.
One day, Renewal, too, could be supplanted. But for now, she admitted, "we have that chip on our shoulder that comes from being the new kid on the block."