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June 2, 2009 | 9:31 am
Posted by Brad A. Greenberg
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If you’re anything like me, you’d never heard of Jon and Kate—and don’t forget the eight—until rumors began running wild that the married stars of a popular reality show chronicling their seemingly blissful marriage and the challenges of raising twins plus sextuplets were locked in sordid affairs. With the evangelical values Jon and Kate Gosselin espouse on their show, their troubles have been sopped up as ready-made schadenfreude.
Difficult as it has been for evangelicals to come to terms with Jon and Kate’s downfall, Julie Vermeer Elliott writes in an excellent article for Christianity Today that there’s a lesson to be learned here. An lengthy excerpt that takes the Gosselins back to happier days:
Of all the viewers who followed the Gosselins, evangelicals were among the most faithful. Jon and Kate’s refusal to resort to “selective reduction” when they found themselves pregnant with sextuplets, their membership in an Assemblies of God church, and their Isaiah 40:31 T-shirts all helped to make them icons of evangelical piety. Churches from across the country clamored to be added to their speaking tours. In the last two years the vast majority of Jon and Kate’s presentations took place at Christian conferences or at evangelical churches, most often Baptist, nondenominational or charismatic.
Zondervan, one of the foremost evangelical presses, published two books with the Gosselins, both of which hit the New York Times bestseller list. The popular tongue-in-cheek blog Stuff Christians Like listed “Watching Jon and Kate Plus 8” on its list of favored Christian products or activities. Evangelicals dependably tuned in to the television show as the family received free trips to posh resorts, when the couple underwent plastic surgery, and when they moved from a comfortable house in the suburbs to a sprawling estate in the country. If they noticed that Jon and Kate’s family and friends—most notably Aunt Jodi and Beth—were, one by one, being estranged from the family (reportedly over financial disputes), it did not stop believers from looking to this couple for inspiration on how to be a good Christian family.
Then everything changed. Reports surfaced that Jon was out partying with co-eds and getting too friendly with a 23-year-old teacher. Shortly thereafter the tabloids claimed that Kate was having an affair with her bodyguard and that she had given Jon the go-ahead to see other women, as long as he showed up for filming. The truthfulness of all of these claims has yet to be established. But one thing is clear—the marriage is crumbling. In fact, on the season five premiere, which aired on Memorial Day, the couple expressed no love for one another and made no promises about being together in the future. Both appeared ready to file for divorce.
Viewers, and especially evangelical viewers, are aghast. How could such a loving, Christian family disintegrate so quickly? Is the failure of their marriage due to the stress of parenting multiples? Can it be attributed to Kate’s love of celebrity versus Jon’s desire to retreat from the limelight? Might it be the result of living under constant (albeit self-imposed) surveillance? I suspect that each of these theories tell part of the story. But the story that has not been told is the one that sees in Jon and Kate the shortcomings of evangelical piety itself.
If your interest is piqued—mine was captivated—you can read the rest here. Money quote in the penultimate paragraph:
“As such, the breakdown of Jon and Kate’s marriage is but a symptom of the larger weaknesses of ethics in the evangelical community. We are easily seduced by wealth and fame. We are easily contented by the shallow rhetoric of hot-button issues. In short, we are easily deceived by cultural values painted in Christian veneers (or clothed in Isaiah 40:31 T-shirts).”
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Nice angle for this one…..bash the evangelical christians.
For the record, I am Roman Catholic. I believe Jesus was a Jew and died to save me as well as any of his tribal bretheren.
This show could just as easily be “Sol & Ruth Plus the Group”. The point is people who lose sight of who they really are because of the lust of money have no religious boundries. Bernard Madoff could just as easily be Billy Smith. I think you get the point.
At the end of the day, let’s cut this class warfare stuff out already. Piety is something that all men and women should try and display; REGARDLESS OF RELIGIOUS DEMONINATION.
For the record, Robert, I am an evangelical Christian, as is the author of this article, which was published by the leading evangelical magazine.
Brad:
Great to hear about your religion. Point is it shouldn’t matter.
Oh, I think it’s of utmost relevance that Jon and Kate profess to be evangelical Christians and have targeted similar audiences with their books and speaking engagements. Christians MUST think more critically about who is worthy of their admiration as Christian role models and why. Jon and Kate never modeled my conservative conception of Christian marriage and family life, but apparently others viewed them as godly spouses and parents. It’s all about discernment, and I am glad this issue is finally being addressed.
It doesn’t matter what religion they are overall. They claim to be evangelical Christians and this was originally in an evangelical Christian magazine. One could say the leading evangelical magazine even. It’s important because along with the TV show, they have together and individually done speaking engagements soley to make money off the multiple births and their religious connection. Books have been published in their name to trade on the kids and their religious connection. This article needed to be written to show their main group of supporters exactly who they are funding and to be smart consumers and quit being duped by any jerk or conman who shows up proclaiming some shallow Christian message.
Robert, the article is not a bash on anyone. It was the work of an evangelical author, published in an evangelical magazine, cautioning evangelicals to be discerning in what examples they choose to honor and follow. That’s not a bash, and it’s certainly not class warfare.
I think this whole debacle goes to show we are all vulnerable to societal pressures, to be wealthy, to be glamourous. Maybe they set out with a good purpose in mind and never realized what the ultimate outcome would be. Obviously they ditched their God centered values for more worldly goods at the expense of their family and marriage. The kids are the ones who will ultimately pay the price, as usual. If Jon and Kate have any sense whatsoever they will ditch TLC and work on saving their family. The media and all who are voyeurs into their lives are also to blame, myself included.
it’s not piety, imo, it’s false piety. we take too much pride in shallow Ned Flanders do-goodery, but it’s just a cover. what people like that are really about is reveling in how much better they are than their neighbor.
ironic that the tabloids gave them exactly what they wanted, gossip and dirt.
It must be quite amusing for the Jewish readers of this blog to watch Christians argue over the deeds and misdeeds of a purportedly Christian “family”.
When will people realize that religion is the most wasteful invention of the human kind?