Marlene Adler Marks' first column for this paper appeared in March 1987. It was titled "The Unwanted Visitor." It was about a rabbi who showed up to comfort Marlene as she waited in the hospital for her husband, Burton, to come out of surgery. "It hadn't been comforting to me," Marlene wrote, shortly before Burton died. "I couldn't handle it. There is a time when even a rabbi can do no good at all."