Dear Dr.L

By Dr. Limor Blockman
Published on May 30, 2013

Dear Dr. L

By Dr. Limor Blockman
Published on May 16, 2013

Dear Dr.L

By Dr. Limor Blockman
Published on May 9, 2013

ONLINE DATING DON’TS

By Ilana Angel
Published on May 4, 2013

Thermostat or Thermometer: How Do You Function?

By Samira Asemanfar
Published on August 21, 2012

Dealing with a boss who lies

By Marcia and Dr. Rick
Published on September 1, 2011

Job hunting woes

By Marcia and Dr. Rick
Published on August 9, 2011

Date Down or Slim Down

By Tamara Shayne Kagel
Published on June 14, 2011

A little AIPAC advice for Obama

By Rob Eshman
Published on May 20, 2011

I have some advice for President Barack Obama, who is going to be walking into the lion’s den when he speaks before the 10,000 AIPAC delegates at their national conference this Sunday. Here’s my advice. Don’t backpedal. Look the delegates in their 20,000 eyes and say, “Friends, it’s not about 1967, it’s about 2067.”

Words from the heart… but not too many

Published on May 10, 2011

Jeremy would be standing in front of 220 people the next day, including colleagues, friends, family and his bride. As he walked the streets, the groom-to-be mentally composed his wedding speech. The following evening, without missing a single beat, Jeremy had the audience in fits of laughter and bouts of tears as he delivered a sincere, witty and memorable speech.

Lisa B.

Published on May 3, 2011

Here are 13 things about Lisa she wants you to know:

ANALYSIS: Who advises McCain and Obama?

By Ron Kampeas
Published on October 28, 2008

It's easy to read too much into whom a candidate chooses to advise him before an election, but it is risky to avoid the tea leaves

Life lessons from the trenches of cancer survival

By Roberto Loiederman
Published on September 4, 2008

The medical facility where I received treatment is one of the most prestigious in the world, but some staff members had a lousy bedside manner. One resident -- I thought of him as Dr. Worst-Case-Scenario -- would always give me his gloomiest predictions.

Settle down

By Amy Klein
Published on May 1, 2008

Lori Gottlieb isn't advocating marrying a man who repulses you or puts you to sleep every time he answers the question, "How was your day, dear?"

Leave the house

By Teresa Strasser
Published on February 28, 2008

So, hopefully, despite the fact that I'm not suffocatingly lonely or in a relationship laced with toxic levels of resentment, I still have a fertile patch of pain from which insights can grow, like that brilliant one I had earlier about leaving the house. What a relief.

Eight ways to give a great toast

By Beth Levine
Published on February 7, 2008

Making a toast at an event is a touching way to let friends and family know how much you value them and wish them well. I still get misty-eyed when I think of the beautiful toast that my brother-in-law gave at my wedding welcoming me to the family. But public speaking doesn't come easily to everyone. We've all been to big affairs where the toasts were embarrassing and in bad taste, leaving a pall over the entire day -- and beyond.

Research and references are the key to selecting assisted living facility

By Dr. Rachelle Zukerman
Published on January 17, 2008

Many potential residents pin their hopes on assisted living and its menu of services as a means to keep them independent for as long as possible. Seniors who require help and support in managing their daily activities, but who don't need medical oversight or intense supervision, are the best candidates for assisted living. They may select from a range of possible services, including meals, laundry, cleaning, bathing, dressing, toileting and other personal care, albeit for additional fees.

Five ways to find your purpose after 50 or 60 or 70 or . . .

By David Corbett
Published on December 20, 2007

But how does one find a new mission at age 50 or 60 or 80? A growing array of books, courses, programs and now Web sites exist to provide suggestions, and many of them offer valuable detailed guidance, worksheets and resources. Working your way through them all can be a chore. Here are five tools.

Six-pointed plan for victory

By Rob Eshman
Published on December 13, 2007

Last week, Karl Rove, the architect of George W. Bush's election victories, offered Barack Obama free advice on how to defeat Hillary Clinton.

In that spirit, I'd like to offer you my six-pointed plan on how to win the Jewish vote in '08.

Dear Abby of Cyberspace

By Leda Siskind
Published on November 1, 2007

For a while this past year, several thousand girls between the ages of 10 and 14 read my words every day by logging on to Allykatzz.com, an Internet site for "'tween" girls that provides a safe alternative to MySpace and Facebook.

Raising pint-sized ‘People of the Book’

By Sharon Duke Estroff
Published on November 1, 2007

In celebration of Jewish Book Month, here are some suggestions for fostering critical literacy skills and igniting a lifelong love of reading in your child:

Flower choices can make your simcha a blooming success

By Jenny Stamos
Published on October 11, 2007

You may not wear white for your wedding or hold your ceremony in a synagogue, but chances are you'll incorporate flowers into your day somehow, whether it's with an extravagant bouquet or a simple hair accessory. Here's what to consider when choosing your blooms:

Listen, kids, and you shall hear—it ain’t gonna be easy

By Ted Roberts
Published on September 27, 2007

The purpose of this speech is to prepare you for your bar mitzvah. And to let you know -- as Noah thought when he received the blueprints from the Master Shipbuilder -- this ain't gonna be easy.

Brotherly Advice

By Adam Wills
Published on July 12, 2007

In the last year, my younger brother has been asking for and taking my dating advice on an almost daily basis. It's a fact that continues to astound me. This isn't to say I don't have anything worthwhile to say on the topic, despite the fact that I'm married now and raising two kids. It's more that I've simply never had this kind of relationship with him before.

Happiness—maybe it’s not ‘out there’

By Alisa Ruby
Published on June 14, 2007

I had been on more than 200 first dates in Los Angeles.

I'd learned exactly what I was not looking for.

Briefs: Peres elected President of Israel; Oprah criticized for pro-Israel stance

Published on June 14, 2007

Briefs

Note to new grads: it’s just the beginning!

By Danielle Berrin
Published on June 7, 2007

So graduates, from one contemporary to another, and in the spirit of sharing with my sister what I wish I believed then, I offer you some knowledge I acquired on my journey -- just consider it my master's degree in "life thus far."

Battle of the sexes along the Y-Divide

By Soriya Daniels
Published on May 17, 2007

"Ladies and gentlemen, Rabbi Aryeh Pamensky holds the secret to your incredible, unbelievable and unparalleled happiness," announces the emcee in a dimly lit nightspot where hundreds of Jews are gathered, each hoping to attain what half of Americans find unattainable: a happy marriage."

Create an emergency kit for The Big Day—just in case

By Shoshana Lewin-Fischer
Published on April 19, 2007

Bridal emergency kits are a great way to handle problems as they happen, especially at destination weddings where you can't exactly run out to the nearest drug store.

B’nai Mitzvah: Ten ways to slash the cost of a big party

By Gail Anthony Greenberg
Published on November 16, 2006

Do you have to spend a king's ransom to have a fabulous bar or bat mitzvah for your child? Absolutely not, but remember that not all money-saving tips are created equal. This one -- which I've read in several places -- wins my top prize as the silliest: Have your party on a Monday and you'll get a slightly better price from the caterer.

Let's confront, I mean, let's <I>talk</I>

By Amy Klein
Published on October 12, 2006

Men will do anything -- and I mean anything, from changing their phones, emails and even primary residences, to joining the army during wartime -- rather than confront a woman. By "confront," I mean, "talk directly to." They just don't like it.

R.E. Hard Crash? Soft Landing? Bursting Balloon? Leaking Balloon?

By Marc Ballon
Published on August 31, 2006

The Jewish Journal spoke to Cohen about the recent reversal in the local housing market.

Advice and Reality Face a Moment of Truth in Israel

By Susan Freudenheim
Published on July 13, 2006

My first instinct in any new city is to mingle. I like to walk the streets, stop into ordinary shops -- grocery stores and electronic shops, not just the Judaica stores or Dead Sea skin care outlets for tourists. I like to take public transportation.

Schools Give Prum-Hess High Marks

By Julie G Fax
Published on June 8, 2006

Miriam Prum-Hess, an experienced and admired Federation executive, took on a new role working on behalf of day schools last year, an effort to increase the level of professionalism and efficiency in all nonacademic areas. She has become the central address for day schools looking for expertise on operational issues -- fundraising strategies, legal advice, business decisions, purchasing, and human resources.

Runaway Bride Redux

By Shoshana Lewin-Fischer
Published on April 20, 2006

The notion of giving advice to runaway brides came about as Rendahl tried to think about the "loose ends that would be out there if you had the courage to run, even if you didn't realize you should until the very last moment."

Dating by Committee

By Carin Davis
Published on April 13, 2006

When it comes to relationships, girls are all about group think. We poll all our friends; we share all the evidence.

Could You Help Me Find My Uncle?

By Robert Stevens
Published on March 2, 2006

I really wanted to reach out to my uncle to wish him a happy birthday, but I didn't have his phone number or his address. If I did, I'd certainly call him or visit him, and certainly I would have mailed him a card. To be honest, I am embarrassed to admit this, but I actually don't know where he really is now, and perhaps you could help me find him.

Wandering Jew - Music to My Ears

By Hank Rosenfeld
Published on February 16, 2006

A voice expert known for coaching singers and nonsingers, and working with deaf and autistic students and contestants for TV shows like "Extreme Makeover" and "American Idol," Coury is unique and considered "revolutionary."

Boutique Teaches Brides Love Lessons

By Carin Davis
Published on February 9, 2006

The Love Boutique sells everything from massage oils to lingerie and romantic board games to self-help books. In keeping with the store's philosophy, these items are merely tools to help women feel elegant, sexy and self-confident.

A Line Drive Down Jewish History

By Sandee Brawarsky
Published on January 5, 2006

In an interview, Jeffrey Gurock, a New York City-area resident, says that this is a book he has been thinking about for almost his entire adult life and spent the last five years working on. His passion for the subject is clear.

The Hebrascope: Signs of the Jewdiac

Published on January 5, 2006

Written in the Jewish Stars

Published on December 29, 2005

We're not saying we believe any of this, mind you, but, yes, Jews, too, like to peek at horoscopes. But up until now, something's been missing -- that Jewish touch. Sure, you could count on Bubbe and Zayde to dispense career advice and to forecast general doom, but that hardly suffices. And, yes, there are always those well-meaning, pushy relatives to talk up eligible singles as the man or woman of your future.

Still Smarting

By Amy Klein
Published on November 3, 2005

Dowd's basic theory posits that "The Rules" -- that once-silly guidebook on how to entrap a man, which is now read nonironically, as in The Torah of dating -- was just the beginning.

Watch Out Ladies, Dad’s Dating Again

By Howard Leff
Published on November 3, 2005

Sure, I've dated a fair amount, but the over-70 age range is one even I haven't yet ventured into. Don't have a clue as to what those gals have on their mind. But judging from the women I do know, I'm guessing cats and jewelry wouldn't be too far off.

Clearing the Air About Allergies

By Beth Levine
Published on August 18, 2005

Though no one knows why allergies are skyrocketing, we do know what causes them. Allergies are an immunological "overreaction" to a substance that enters the body through airborne particles such as pollen, skin contact, or ingested foods.

Uncircumcised Blessings

By Rabbi Elazar Muskin
Published on July 14, 2005

While on a summer vacation on the East Coast, my family and I visited some spectacular sights in northwestern North Carolina, especially near Ashville, N.C. On our way to Ashville, we stopped and asked directions from a fine gentleman who turned out to be a Methodist minister.

L.A. Hosts Debate on Israel Economy

By Tom Tugend
Published on June 16, 2005

"It's the economy, stupid," was President Clinton's campaign mantra, and the same lesson was hammered home June 5-7 to 25 Israeli diplomats at a three-day conference at the Beverly Hilton.

Mama Said…

By Lori Gottlieb
Published on June 9, 2005

No disrespect to our mothers, but courtship rituals have changed since they were dating. So forget all their antiquated rules.

Winning the Great Sponge Cake Battle

By Judy Bart Kancigor
Published on April 21, 2005

It's that time again. With Pesach here, it's time for my annual wrestling match with my nemesis, the dreaded sponge cake.

Make Your Seder an Affair to Remember

By Felisa Billet
Published on April 21, 2005

By using your imagination and listening to the tried-and-true advice of the experts, you can create a stylish and sophisticated Passover seder that will have your guests wishing for another invitation next year.

The List

By Teresa Strasser
Published on March 17, 2005

The List has taken over. If you are male, you may not be aware of this, but if you are female, you probably already have one.

Torah Advice for Happily Ever After

By Gaby Wenig
Published on February 10, 2005

As most engaged couples know, the stress of preparing a wedding and pleasing two sets of in-laws is enough to take that blissful sheen off even the most romantic of occasions.

Listen Well

By Rabbi Elazar Muskin
Published on February 3, 2005

When the woman at the ice rink said to me, "Remember, listen well for when you do you really can achieve anything," she was, in effect, summarizing the message of Parshat Mishpatim: Listen to the words of Torah and you can achieve a just society.

From the Mouths of Babes

By Joan G Friedman
Published on November 11, 2004

Marital advice from the under 11's.

Works of Renewal and Celebration

By Sandee Brawarsky
Published on September 16, 2004

At present, the tradition or writing hanhagot continues. At the back are two neo-Chasidic hanhagot, by Hillel Zeitlin, a writer and martyr of the Warsaw Ghetto, and Arthur Green, a contemporary scholar and theologian, who is the author's mentor.

The Mickey Rule

By Sam Shmikler
Published on September 2, 2004

There seems to be an unwritten rule that states: "If you are going through a convulsive experience, you ought to be open to those with equally or more compelling issues." Whatever happened to: "Put your own mask on first, then, tighten the straps before you try to assist others"?

Is Tomato Sauce a Vegetable?

By Jane Ulman
Published on August 5, 2004

"You shall not eat anything abhorrent," the Torah (Deuteronomy 14:3) tells us. And while the Torah is referring to camels, rabbits, badgers and pigs, I would today include foods that that are high in fat and sugar and low in nutritional value. Foods that have been injected with hormones and antibiotics or treated with pesticides. Foods with a shelf life longer than the average life span.

Can’t ‘Handel’ the Heat?

By Naomi Pfefferman
Published on July 8, 2004

"'Fahrenheit 9/11,' what a piece of garbage," says radio host Bill Handel.

Love the Stranger

By Rabbi Zoë Klein
Published on April 29, 2004

The freeways were quiet and the city seemed peaceful at 4:30 a.m. as I drove to the hospital.

A Manual for the Auntie-to-Be

By Erika Dreifus
Published on April 8, 2004

It seemed that lots of people -- including total strangers -- had plenty of advice to offer my sister and my brother-in-law before the birth of their first child, an event the entire extended family anticipated for late summer 2003. And it wasn't just a matter of kindly (if ultimately incorrect) projections about the baby's gender or rueful warnings about all those sleepless nights to come.