Writer-producer David Brandes offers this eulogy for his friend and mentor, Rabbi Levi Meier.
Rabbi Weil, Marci and family, friends:
It's hard to believe it's been 30 days. Like any significant event, it feels like yesterday and an eternity all at the same time.
I showed up late at the main sanctuary of Beth Jacob during the Torah reading of Parshat Vayerah. It must have been two years ago. I ran into Levi by chance at the back of the shul during the reading of the Akeidah [binding of Issac]. Levi was moving quickly, as he always did, and he was full of excitement.
"David," he said to me. "You've come at the perfect moment: The knife is drawn and he is about to strike."
Infected by Levi's enthusiasm, I hurried to my seat to catch the end of the story.
This small moment tells a lot about the man.
For one, Levi was the master of Hakarat Hatov... He was always able to see the good in people and convey it to them. There was no criticism that I had come late ... to Levi I truly had come "at the perfect moment."
That small moment also tells of Levi's unbinding love, understanding and passion for Judaism.
Later, when we were sitting together, he shared an insight into the character of Abraham.
I remember asking him, after the Torah reading was over, to what extent he identified with Avraham in the story.
"You don't understand," he said. "I don't just identify with Avraham, I live with him and I live with Yitzchak and Yaakov, as well."
And that's what Levi conveyed to all that knew him.
Levi was one of the most wonderfully complicated people I ever met. He was a Torah scholar and original thinker, a gifted writer, a lover of music and poetry, a man who loved Marci and his family dearly and was a great friend.
During the eight years he taught the Avi Chai Torah study group for Hollywood writers, I, and many of the faces you see sitting in this room, were truly fortunate to have Levi as our teacher. It was rare that anyone missed the class unless, of course, for business reasons. It was the highlight of our month.
Levi was a truly gifted teacher whose insights into the Torah were original and at times provocative. That unusual blend of Rashi, Jung and Rilke made Levi's Torah intellectually challenging, poetic and alive with relevance for our personal lives. I always remember walking away from his shiurim feeling comforted and wanting to be a better person.... Life seemed somehow more understandable and sweeter. He had that great ability to make you understand that we are all on journeys. Spiritual and existential. Alone and together. That at different times we all suffer. And that Hashem is there to guide and to help.
I spent some time at Cedars-Sinai visiting patients, sometimes with Levi and sometimes alone. I remember coming in one afternoon and Levi was sitting at this desk in an unusually serious mood. He explained that he had to visit a patient who had had a terrible reversal in life. Several weeks earlier this patient was assured that he had beaten his disease and was healthy ... and now he was told that the end was near and that he should put his affairs in order immediately. As we walked to the patient's room I felt inadequate and overwhelmed. I didn't want to be there, I had no idea what to say... I asked Levi what he intended to say to the man?
"I don't know," Levi answered "But I'm sure Hashem will help me out."
And he did.
Levi opened himself to that poor man and assured him that even in the greatest depths there is still reason for hope. God had not abandoned him. Levi wasn't being Pollyannaish, not for a moment. Through his love and sincerity he was able to make personal contact with the man so that he felt less alone. There was a long silence. Levi, speaking very quietly but with great empathy assured the man that regardless what happens, he, Levi, will stay with him through to the end. He promised not abandon him, ever. The man was able to hear him. That moment was stunning in its simplicity and beautiful in its humanity.
Like that poor man, many, many people from all walks of life and backgrounds met Levi when they were at their most vulnerable. He was always respectful of the intimacy, the vulnerability and the trust. Levi was a pillar of love, hope and comfort to a community.
And, finally, I feel truly privileged to have spent time with him. When I think of Levi I remember Rav Kook's statement about his friend Rav Aryeh Levine: "He was my great friend because he never lied to me, he never flattered me and he never asked for favors unless they were for others."
Levi has enriched my life and the life of my family. At times he was a mentor and at times he was a brother. I loved him dearly and I will miss him forever.
May his memory be a blessing for all of us.
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