Jewish Journal

Takeaways: The MANschly approach

By Orit Arfa

January 4, 2010 | 6:55 pm

I’m trying something new: audio blogs.

Instead of writing, I’ll simply discuss over an audio recording topics that deal with dating and relationships. I’ll make them short and to the... read on

  • Luke Ford Interviews Me at His Hovel

    By Orit Arfa

    December 30, 2009 | 3:47 pm

    Blogger Luke Ford is blogging about our interview like crazy following our video chat in his “hovel” in the Pico/Robertson area. So it wasn’t as glamorous as Oprah, but he was as gracious and menschadik a host as the charming hovel permits, asking me challenging questions about love,... read on

  • The Courage to Ask a Woman Out on a Date

    By Orit Arfa

    December 29, 2009 | 12:26 am

    There is an act that seems to require more courage from men than asking a boss for a raise, than changing a career path, or even than fighting in a war. It is the simple task of ASKING A GIRL OUT ON A DATE.

    So what does asking a girl out on a “date” mean?

    In this day and age,... read on

  • Sherlock Holmes is a MAN but not a MANsch

    By Orit Arfa

    December 23, 2009 | 3:56 am

    Just went to a screening of the Sherlock Holmes movie and there were moments in the movie when I wanted Robert Downey, Jr. He did a great job mixing his acting genius with his drug-addict past to give the character a nice mixture of being troubled and brilliant. Oh, and the part... read on

  • Five Magic Words to a Woman

    By Orit Arfa

    December 22, 2009 | 7:00 pm

    There are five words that are music to a woman’s ears. They are not I-WANT-TO-MARRY-YOU. They are not I’M-IN-LOVE-WITH-YOU. They are not YOU-ARE-SO-VERY-BEAUTIFUL.

    They are: I-KNOW-A-GREAT-PLACE.

    How I love it when a guy asks me out on a first or second date and says,... read on

  • Women’s Tests and God-Garden of Peace Part II

    By Orit Arfa

    December 22, 2009 | 12:04 am

    In my eBook, Survival of the Shittest,  I discuss the various ways that women test men, from the pick-up stage up through marriage—and even during divorce. It’s based on the crude term “Shit Test”, a popular term in the pick-up artist community which refers to the ways women... read on

  • Neil Strauss on MANsches

    By Orit Arfa

    December 21, 2009 | 5:29 pm

    Okay…So Neil Strauss, author of The Game, the life-changing pick-up guide for men around the world, does not know what MANsch means. I don’t think he visited my site: www.mansch.net which offers a definition of MANsch. But Strauss’ blog actually provides a good description of MANsch... read on

  • How to pick up your wife: Garden of Peace-Part I

    By Orit Arfa

    December 20, 2009 | 10:13 pm

    Some people think when they get married they don’t have to try anymore, especially the man. He’s already proven to the woman that she’s number one in his life—why else would he give up his freedom and take the leap so many men dread? They think it’s payback time: now... read on

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