January 4, 2010 | 6:55 pm

Takeaways: The MANschly approach

Posted by Orit Arfa

I’m trying something new: audio blogs.

Instead of writing, I’ll simply discuss over an audio recording topics that deal with dating and relationships. I’ll make them short and to the point.

This blog discusses the phenomenon pick-up artists call “takeaway”, and it’s when a guy pulls back from giving affection or attention to a girl.

I discuss the MANschly ways to use takeaways, because it can be an effective tool in making sure the woman doesn’t take the guy for granted. But it can also be a hurtful tool, creating in a woman a lot of unnecessary insecurity. In general: always communicate like an adult where you stand in a relationship, rather then chuck out.

Click here to go to the yourlisten.com page, and click on the player to listen.

Visit Orit’s website on the art of dating and seduction, and check out her new eBook on the subtle, subconscious ways women test men.

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