Gary Wexler ("Left-Leaning Jewish Groups Out-of-Touch Now," Aug. 4) ought not to be surprised by the wrath of his former compatriots in last week's Letters to the Editor. It is the standard fury against an apostate.
Instead, he is to be commended for doing what too few of us are ready to do: bravely changing his views as a result of new facts. What Wexler's new critics miss is what is obvious to the vast majority of Israel's supporters: Those who attack the Jewish state are not doing it for land or to redress some grievance. Rather, they simply wish to destroy Israel and all of its inhabitants.
If the Jewish left in this country chooses to continue to live in a fantasy world, insisting that it knows better than the Israeli public and its elected leaders on how to respond to its foes, it will simply remain of no interest to the rest of us.
Although I appreciate and value Gary Wexler's commitment to Israel, I was astounded by his lack of understanding of the situation, especially his comments on the left and the supposed lack of dialogue partners.
I have no fantasies about the horrors of suicide bombers and real terrorists on the Palestinian and Arab side. But I am also harboring no illusions about our part in the scenario.
Again, sadly, and with a few exceptions, there has been a true lack of leadership and vision of the future on all fronts. History has shown that a guerilla war cannot be won.
I can see no good at all coming out of the current situation. Perhaps the problem of the left is not their vision but rather that they have not spoken loud enough for us to hear.
Who Is a Jew?
We mourn Michael Levin ("Who Is a Jew?" Aug. 11), an American Jew who understood like thousands of volunteers before him that Jews will no longer go quietly to the gas chambers and the crematoria or the other places of extinction which the terrorists have planned for us.
I was 19 on June 6, 1967. And I instantly understood that if Israel lost that war, there could be another Holocaust. So I volunteered. But not for myself -- for the 6 million who could not and for the Jewish children not yet born. And so I consider the sacrifice of Michael Levin. And I contrast it with those Jews who blindly protect every last civil liberty of our enemies (Skokie, Guantanamo, NSA phone eavesdropping, etc.). And it makes me wonder if they have forgotten the 6 million and the suffering.
Michael I. Brooks
My son, David Landau, is about to join Nativ 26. He and four other former Far West Region United Synagogue Youth Regional Board members will join the almost 100 USYers nationally for the largest group from Far West in the history of this College Leadership Program in Israel. Thanks to J.J. Jonah who is our USY Israel shaliach this and next year!
I told my children since they were young that as Ms. Frizzle said on the "Magic School Bus": "take chances and make mistakes." Going to Israel is always a chance but so is flying on an airplane as we have been reminded last week.
A victory to terrorists is to live in fear. A victory for us who love freedom and Israel is to choose to travel, live and learn in Israel, is to participate on programs. I look forward to the drive to the airport with tears of joy sending my son David off with his friends and exclaiming a n'siah tovah, a wonderful and safe trip and year in Israel. And also maybe l'shana habaa B'Yerushalayim.
We all regress. We all have regions inside of us, ugly, sometimes barely repressed aspects of us that contain the worst kinds of thinking, some taught to us from our environment, some we teach ourselves. Those ugly regions, however, do not define who we are. When they come up, they are not our "true self." (Hush Falls Over Jewish Hollywood Post-'Mad Mel," Aug. 4)
We are defined, rather, in how we struggle against those destructive aspects of the self. No person lives without brokenness and the shadow self, but not every person gives in to that abyss and lives according to it.
The good people among us are ashamed of ourselves when it erupts. The true self --religiously speaking, the self most aware of the soul and the Divine within us -- works hard to contain those destructive aspects, to neutralize them, to sublimate them.
I know that when people drink, when they are angry, when they are frightened and ashamed, they regress. Spouses, when they argue viciously, do this. Basically good people who learned hateful things, or teach themselves hateful things about others, say things that do not define who they are but rather tell us about destructive parts of the self they are trying to control.
Mel Gibson has apologized for his remarks and says he did not mean them. I take that to mean that the conscious man conducting his life does not operate according to those prejudices that erupted from a deep and disturbing region of his being. They are buried deep within, and in an atavistic, regressive, drunken and frightened moment, they burst out.
He should introspect and apologize, as he has done, but he should not be reviled or banned. Jewish ethics teach us that he should be helped to repent and repair. As a great Jew once taught, the one who has never sinned, let him throw the first stone. Another great Jew said what you don't want done to you don't do other others.
Imagine your worst, most regressive moment caught on tape, posted on the Internet. Would you want that moment to define who you are? I would think not. You would want the help of others in finding a way to repentance and repair. Mel Gibson deserves the same.
Rabbi Mordecai Finley
Bush and Israel
Bravo to Rabbi Steven Z. Leder for his superb and courageous letter of thanks to President Bush ("Mr. President, Thank You for Standing by Israel," Aug. 11). Superb, because Rabbi Leder acknowledges the president's supportive stance toward Israel and places it knowingly within the context of Jewish history, and courageous because he commended the president eloquently in a public forum, despite the fact that the majority of Jews identify as liberal Democrats, and many of them bear tremendous animosity toward Bush.
Rising above partisan politics, Rabbi Leder has the clarity of vision to recognize support for Israel where it exists and the good will, despite disagreements with the president on other issues, to render thanks where they are critically due. My thanks, in turn, go to Rabbi Leder for his shining example of righteous gratitude and moral strength.
Carvel Ice Cream
Your article about kosher Carvel ice cream ("Carvel Ice Cream Sprinkling More Outlets in Southland," Aug. 11) is certainly welcome during these hot summer days. Thanks for the information and keeping it accurate is very important. The photo caption states that the new Carvel store is "certified glatt kosher."
This statement is, in and of itself, ludicrous, since the term glatt is a reference to the smoothness (i.e., free of lesions) of a cow's lung, not applicable to anything other than beef products.
Even if the term was meant in is colloquial and erroneous usage, as meeting the highest standards of kosher, it is still wrong, since, as stated in the article, the ice cream is not chalav Yisrael. It may be kosher, even acceptably kosher by many, but it is not strictly kosher.
And by the way, chalav Yisrael does not mean coming from kosher cows, as all cows are kosher. It does mean, as stated further in the article, as having a mashgiach (supervisor) at the milking process.
Nitpicking? Perhaps. But for those who take their words and their kashrut seriously, the angel is in the details.
Beth Levine offers some sound tips on throwing an affordable bar mitzvah party, while teaching good values like tikkun olam (heal the world) and tzedakah (charitable giving. ("Personal Touch Can Tame Parties, Trim Expenses," Aug. 11).
I'm not familiar with the study preparation software she borrowed from a friend, but it might be worth checking its license. Most software is limited to a single user, so "borrowing" it might actually be computer piracy. Tikkun olam is a lofty goal but not at the expense of the Eighth Commandment.
Playa del Rey
Tisha B'Av Dilemma
I'm writing to express my disappointment with Jane Ulman's article about Tisha B'Av observance ("Tisha B'Av Dilemma: Day of Solemnity or Celebration?" July 20).
Ulman suggests that Reform Jews don't celebrate Tisha B'Av, relating an anecdote about a synagogue in Cincinnati, that held a rummage sale last year on the fast day. Her only source for the story is an unnamed "spokesperson" for the temple's sisterhood.
The story serves little purpose to the article. Who cares if she can find some congregation somewhere (in this case, suburban Cincinnati) which doesn't celebrate TishaB'Av? It is inappropriate that she infers generalizations about Reform Jews from this one example.
Furthermore, I challenge the factual accuracy of her assertion that Tisha B'Av is "a nonevent in some, usually Reform, congregations."
What evidence does the author have to support such a claim? Has Ulman done a statistical survey of holiday practice at synagogues in America?
Since she failed to cite such research, I gather that her statement was based on her own assumption, a reflection of popular stereotypes about Reform Jews. What is the value of a newspaper article in which the author simply shares her own assumptions, reinforcing stereotypes?
It is particularly strange that Ulman reported on last year's activities in Cincinnati, instead of reporting on Tisha B'Av observances at local Reform congregations. For example, Temple Judea in Tarzana planned an event titled, "Lunch Without Lunch -- Does Tisha B'Av Have Meaning for Us Today?"
I wonder why Ulman chose to discuss a congregation thousands of miles away that didn't commemorate the holiday, when a congregation right on her doorstep did indeed mark the occasion.
Later in the article, Ulman writes, "Some Reform Jews, as did 19th century Rabbi David Einhorn, actually see the holiday as celebratory." While the author's understanding of Jewish history is not incorrect, her inference that modern Reform Jews celebrate on Tisha B'Av is ridiculous.
She mentions "some Reform Jews" who "actually see" (present tense), but then fails to cite any examples or quote anyone born after 1809. As an active Reform Jew, I can say that I've never met anyone who celebrated on Tisha B'Av, and I would challenge Ulman to find a normative Reform Jew who does.
Einhorn, it should be noted, believed a lot of things that today's Reform Jews would find ridiculous. Citing Einhorn in a discussion of modern practice is like a political writer reporting that "some members of the Democratic Party, as did 18th century President Thomas Jefferson, actually believe in owning slaves." Like Ulman's mention of Einhorn, such a statement is an oversimplification of Jefferson's complex views and, more importantly, has nothing to do with today's Democratic Party.
Unlike Einhorn, today's Reform movement is outwardly Zionist, chants "Kol Nidrei" on Yom Kippur and believes that the Jewish textual tradition is important. And many of us commemorate Tisha B'Av. Ulman's attempt to discuss Reform practice in historical context is sloppy at best and inflammatory at worst.
Ulman's reporting was irresponsible, inflammatory and contrary to norms of journalistic standards. In the future, I urge you to give her writing the much closer editorial supervision it deserves.
I am passionately angry over your cover headline, "Israel May Come to Regret 'A Quagmire of Its Qwn Making'" (Aug. 4). I didn't need to look further. For some reason, The Jewish Journal seems to feel that Hezbollah should be free to continue to come into Israel and kidnap and murder as they wish. If that's not what the article says, I'm sorry that you felt the headline on the front page should join the world in berating Israel.
I'm truly sorry that Jack Miles holds the views he does regarding Israel's incursion into Lebanon, and I'm truly thrilled that you are not part of Israel's current leadership ("Is Lebanon Israel's Iraq?" Aug. 4).
Israel pulled out of Lebanon six years ago. The U.N. passed a resolution two years ago, asking the Lebanese army to take over the southern part of the country. By its inaction over these many years, whether because of weakness or collusion with Hezbollah, the Lebanese government has forfeited it's right to complain about the results.
As you can readily see, Hezbollah has dug itself in very well in south Lebanon, created bunkers and supply depots, accumulated thousands of missiles supplied by Iran and Syria and has created it's own ministate. It has become the forward phalanx of an Iranian and Syrian initiative to attack Israel's northern areas with the aim of eventually attacking Israel as a whole.
Hezbollah's killing of the soldiers and the kidnapping of two of them needed an incredibly strong response, not a weak "let's negotiate" answer. This is exactly the time for Israel to do it's best to weaken Hezbollah and by extension, Syria and Iran.
In this era, unlike World War II, with GPS, laser, high-speed data transmission, unmanned aerial vehicles and high-resolution aircraft photo reconnaissance, in addition to radio, communications are better than ever, and the tragic incidents of civilian dead in Lebanon are not due to inaccurate Israeli weapons, carelessness or malice but to the genocidal Hezbollah freely engaging in the war crimes of firing and concealing their weapons among civilians.
It is quite clear in international law that Israel is entitled to attack the rocket-firing and storage areas, even if in civilian locations. Some of your correspondents show no recognition of these considerations.
If the Israelis really wanted to cause civilian deaths, with more than 1,000 artillery and 14 fighter squadrons, they have the capability to do so on a massive scale comparable to World War II, where Hamburg saw 45,000 dead in one week from July 22 1943. Israel clearly does not do so.
In addition to this issue of discriminate force, the issue of proportionality has been mentioned by many people. Even if you use the much higher recent Lebanese government claim of 925 dead in Lebanon, quoted on Sky News, which gives no breakdown whatever for the Hezbollah element, which must be a significant part of any such total, that still equals: one dead for every 9.3 Israeli air force sorties, one dead for every five targets hit and one dead for every 14 Hezbollah-held Iranian-Syrian rockets.
Is that either in discriminate or disproportionate?
I find it astounding, yet unfortunately predictable, that tiny Israel is for not the first time in a battle that bigger, more powerful nations should be fighting right along with her.
How can we not judge the European countries (with the exception of England) in this current conflict as an international performance rated right around dismal? How can the citizens of these European countries, who stand to gain so much if and when Hezbollah, Hamas and Islamic extremists are crushed, not feel belittled and shamed seeing their countries stand by, watching the small army of Israel fight and die in what's supposed to be the global war on terror.
What makes matters worse is the French and several other European nations take every opportunity to want Israel to cease fighting Hezbollah, forgetting, apparently, that this is a terrorist organization and destroying them is exactly the idea of a war on terror.
The French military should be launching attacks against Hezbollah right alongside the Israelis, as well as the Italians, the Spanish and, for that matter, the former East Bloc countries, as well - they're supposed to be against terrorists groups and supposed to be allies of America and Israel.
You would be very hard pressed to actually believe the European countries truly are allies and with us in this war on terror, when it seems if they aren't outright siding with terrorists groups like Hamas and Hezbollah, then they are standing by letting tiny Israel fight their battles for them.
Playa del Rey
I strongly doubt you will post this suggestion, but if we Jews were intellectually honest, we would support Israel by supporting George W. Bush, the best friend Israel has ever had. Beyond that, vote for Republicans who far and away more strongly support Israel than do the Democrats.
Bobbi Leigh Zito
Steve Greenberg's political cartoon from the Aug. 4 Journal portrays a woman asking, "So why can't Israel and Hezbollah just have an immediate cease-fire and go back to how things were before all this fighting?" and shows how things were before all this fighting to be clandestine warriors climbing over a border wall with a barrage of missiles overhead flying in the same direction.
We know that the fighters are coming from Lebanon and into Israel because we see the flags of the two countries on opposing sides of the border.
I only wish that "Greenberg's View" had been the real one, but unfortunately there were no Lebanese flags visible on the border with Israel when I visited -- only yellow Hezbollah flags flying boldly and brazenly.
Jacob A. Hall
Red Crescent Ad
I was shocked to see the ad inviting Jews to donate to Palestine Red Crescent Society (Aug. 11).
Just to remind you that their ambulances carried terrorists and arms with the intention of killing Israelis.
As for the Lebanese Red Cross, let Hezbollah, who is responsible for their suffering, take care of them.
Israel is in dire need for money. Donate to your family (the Jews in Israel), to Magen David Adom or other nonprofit organizations whose volunteers are risking their lives to help the people in the shelters.
With all the destruction of lives and property in Israel and all the money needed to rebuild Israeli lives and cities, there are still soft-headed Jews who spend money on an ad in The Jewish Journal urging its readers to donate to the people who have vowed to destroy us.
I'm ready to send a check to the Palestinian Red Crescent as soon as one of the ad signers can show me an ad in an Arab/Muslim newspaper urging its readers to donate to an Israeli relief organization.
It seems to be that every time Diaspora Jewry wants to comprise a list of ways to help Israel, they manage to skirt the one thing which would be the most impacting and the most helpful: making aliyah.
This is something that I did 11 years ago, and countless Israelis, especially the soldiers that I served with, were very grateful and felt supported to a great degree. Perhaps it isn't mentioned, because you may feel that it is unrealistic to ask that of comfy and cozy L.A. Jewry, but it is not a dream if you would but will it, and Judaism at its core asks always to overextend in your service of God and man.
Who knows, maybe if we say it enough as an ideal, then people will take it more seriously. But if we don't mention it at all, then surely, Diaspora Jewry will never actualize this great and ancient Jewish dream.
Bat Ayin, Israel
Liberal Jewish Left
I applaud Gary Wexler's ability to see the reality of today's liberal left and to have the courage to admit that he was wrong (Left-Leaning Jewish Groups Out of Touch Now," Aug. 4). It is time for American Jews to look at today's liberal movement and today's Democratic Party and to be clear about what their vote supports.
A recent Los Angeles Times Poll on Israel found not surprising but very troubling partisan differences, considering most Jews vote Democrat. The poll results suggested a growing partisan divide over Israel and its relationship with the United States.
Republicans generally expressed stronger support for Israel, while Democrats tended to believe the United States should play a more neutral role in the region.
"Overall, 50 percent of the survey's respondents said the United States should continue to align with Israel, compared with 44 percent who backed a more neutral posture. But the partisan gap was clear: Democrats supported neutrality over alignment, 54 percent to 39 percent, while Republicans supported alignment with the Jewish state 64 percent to 29 percent."
Jews need to open their eyes and stop this irrational blind faith in a party that long ago left them and our Jewish values.
We live in an age of stupidity, where moral relativism has rendered so many incapable of making moral judgments of good vs. evil (just take a look at our colleges, and that includes the professors). This is even true when it is as clear as Hezbollah initiating the attack on Israel and openly pledged to Israel's destruction vs. Israel fighting in self-defense for its existence.
This is not a cycle of violence and never has been. If Hezbollah and the Arabs stopped their aggression against Israel tomorrow, there would be peace. If Israel stopped defending itself, the Arab attacks would continue, and Israel would cease to exist.
President Bush has had the strength of character, integrity and courage to stand firmly on Israel's side. Thank God that President Bush does not have a broken moral compass as so many of our politicians, in particular Democrats, do.
Dr. Sabi Israel
Mel Gibson Fiasco
I'm not a Jewish Hollywood mogul, a political writer, religious leader, etc. I'm a disgusted human being who happens to be Jewish, and I have what I feel is a very simple solution when it comes to Mel Gibson: Forget about him. He doesn't like us, so be it.
Let's just rip our lapels, and then he will no longer exist in our world. We don't talk about him, write about him, acknowledge him like in the old days. He's dead to us, and those who run after him for interviews, repentance, speaking engagements, etc., should be dead to us also.
We owe him nothing, especially acknowledgement of his existence.
Batiya Anna Kugler
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