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Loved your blog!!  I couldn’t have said it better myself!! Well-written and well-documented!

I am so sick of this obnoxious woman already and would hope that a lot of people could see through this self-absorbed pig!  Unfortunately, this is why we have such a downgrade in our society…very low standards…

Comment by Wendy on 7/16/10 at 8:47 am

Hmmmm…I guess you could just not watch the show.  Problem solved.

Comment by M on 7/16/10 at 8:49 am

I dont think Betheny is trying to prove she is not like everyone else its more like she is very human in raw form. People are genuinely happy for her and want to see happy endings which is why they like her.  No relationship is perfect and noone can judge but the ones involved.  Her life became complete in an instant and we wanted to watch someone that worked hard get the whole package. Being pregnant does make you complain more than usual and dealing with career and a wedding is all the more stressful.  She has a right to complain just like you do and its only temporary so live and let live. And maybe be careful about talking of peoples’ mothers’.

Comment by Priscilla Bill on 7/16/10 at 8:57 am

I don’t find Bethenny mortifying. I like her and if you don’t why write an blog. Life happens; I mean I’ve seen worse than peeing in a bucket. She is smart, full if wit and makes for entertaining tv. Hence, keyword tv. I’m looking forward to seeing more of Bethenny. It’s apparent that your views of her are biased. Do I smell a friendship with Jill Zarin? Just sayin.

Comment by Viewer on 7/16/10 at 8:57 am

1. Who is the reader who told you that Jason has already moved out of the house, TweetMaxine? EVERYONE with a brain know she’s full of it. She’s just a troll who gets her kicks spreading rumors to the bitter & gullible. Don’t you people double-source anymore?

2. Actually, her mother HAS talked smack about Bethenny, to the media, for money. But her step-father has confirmed that what Bethenny has said (about her childhood) is true.

3. Are you seriously saying that having a stray animal wander into your room and poop on the floor is the same thing as your child?

4. Funny you condemn Bethenny with a weird claim that she makes everything about her, when you make her show (and life) all about you. Her show IS called ‘Bethenny Getting Married’, so yes, it is about Bethenny. You column is called ‘Keeping the Faith’, and it’s hard to see how you’re doing that when every column I read is just a warped, bitter rant.

It seems you are just jealous of Bethenny’s success. Maybe you need to work on that.

Comment by Icefan13 on 7/16/10 at 8:59 am

My favorite line - Jason ‘do you think we should buy some baby books?’

Do you think???

Comment by LC on 7/16/10 at 8:59 am

I thought the show was funny, understated and just what a reality show should be. No one got hurt, plus Bethenny did not trash anyone unlike a certain JZ. Judging from your blog, it is obvious you are getting paid to write these things about the show. There are many shows on thursday night and you had to watch an HOUR of Bethenny Getting Married? to write this? Does not make sense to me.

It is one thing to have an opinion it is another to be judgemental. No matter what you write, JZ will never get to the level that Bethenny because she worked hard. Many people love her for her honest personality and we want more of her. I also think that Jason is a wonderful husband and the photos are gorgeous and appreciate pregnancy.

DO yourself a favor and stop watching something that makes you sick and switch the channel.

Comment by Mika on 7/16/10 at 9:07 am

I think you jumped way off the deep end on this one. I don’t think it’s a good idea to put hearsay about Bethennys marriage to Jason on here. What proof do you have that he has moved out on Bethenny? And hearsay about people who know her from childhood, this is too much. None of us were there while she was brought up and I’m glad she is seeing a therapist so she can bring all these things up. I had almost the same kind of upbringing as Bethenny and let me tell you it wasn’t fun. No one should judge Bethenny by that. When your a child you see things totally different growing up. These are her feelings, we weren’t there so we shouldn’t judge her.
I do hope that she finds forgiveness in her heart and starts a relationship with her mother again. I can see how her relationship with her father ended and she really wanted one with him and he wasn’t mature enough to let it go. But at least Bethenny tried and has now put it behind her. So her and Jason contadict themselves a bit, who cares. If I were on vacation and my place had a private swimming pool, I would have jumped in naked too. She’s proud of her body and Jason is proud of her. I love how he loves her, couls Bethenny be a little more respectful to Jason, of course she could but none of us are perfect. I have the same kind of husband. He loves me so much, and always tells me that he works hard so that he could give me everything because he just wants to make sure I’m happy everyday. He takes me good and bad and I’m far from perfect. Jason is the same kind of guy. Give their relationship a chance, it’s all new to both of them. But some of the comments you made were irresponsible!

Comment by @twilighttwitti on 7/16/10 at 9:08 am

You are definitely in the minority with this blog and your feelings regarding Bethenny.  And you really do not even know what you’re talking about.  Bethenny’s mom hasnt come forward?  Wait till next week when Star magazine comes out.  Jealous much?

Comment by Buffalo Loves Bethenny on 7/16/10 at 9:15 am

I like her she works hard she is building a brand, not prefect true but at least she is a productive member of society not like those bimbos that they live from the divorce settlement. Too bad for u people really really like her

Comment by Alex on 7/16/10 at 9:18 am

If you hate her so much it is your right to turn the channel. There is so much hate and judgement in this world especially from woman about woman.

Comment by CAROL on 7/16/10 at 9:26 am

Your blog is boring. Unlike Bethenny’s show which is hilarious.

Comment by dee on 7/16/10 at 9:34 am

You’re pathetic. As someone who grew up with a horrifically abusive mother, you have no clue what you are talking about. My “mother” appeared like a saint to anyone who knew here, but behind closed doors, she was a monster. This is what made that relationship even more so destructive in my mind. Not only could I see that she could behave like the most charming person in the world to everyone other than me and my sister but NO ONE and I mean NO ONE would have believed me if I had come forward. She was/is extraordinarily manipulative and would have been able to turn everything around on me (something she routinely did in other situations) so that I would have been left looking like a crazy person who everyone would have written off as being a “bad seed” and “such a shame to my incredible mother”. Puh-lease. You clearly have no concept what it means to grow up in an abusive household. How very fortunate for you. Many of us are not so lucky and you would be wise to show some more compassion. You cannot imagine what a childhood of abuse does to shape someone and how they see the world around them. Perhaps you should turn off the TV if that show makes you so sick and go volunteer in a shelter for abused children. Either way, get off your high horse. You obviously have no clue how to be a compassionate human being and you certainly don’t seem to want to even try.

Comment by SL_Bard on 7/16/10 at 9:50 am

I like Bethenny’s show. She’s funny, she’s not fake. She works hard, pays her bills and is not nasty and back stabbing towards her friends. I think the writer of this blog my be an acquaintance of JZ holding an old grudge.

Comment by Boston1 on 7/16/10 at 9:52 am

Seriously! If you don’t like the show then don’t watch. Easy as that.. to comment you don’t like bethenny is kind of outrageous when Im sure you have never met her, She turned her life around, thats pretty hard for many individuals to do, take a long look at your life, here you are probably spending a good hour on this site trying to bring down her show when you could be doing something positive for mankind, get off your butt and make a difference, stop hating others!

Comment by LG on 7/16/10 at 9:52 am

WOW YOU ARE SICK. I MEAN REALLY YOUR ARGUMENTS ARE RIDICULOUS… AND YOU SEEM TO CARRY SO MUCH HATE. If you don’t like her or the show… then flip the channel idiot. what makes you so freaking perfect?!? COME OFF IT. I really like her and the show… maybe you didn’t get the show. Maybe you didn’t get that she was 7 months pregnant, had a book coming out, was planning a wedding and honeymooon, and falling in love all at the same time. I think anyone would be stressed out if they had that much going on. Why are you so judging… i find it really sad. GOOD BYE.

Comment by jenna on 7/16/10 at 9:59 am

Way too much naked Bethenny in the show - especially naked with Jason in the pool hugging each other. If I want to see that there are other channels I could watch. I agree with you, it makes no sense when Jason didn’t want Max to see her naked but the production crew and all the other Bravo editors etc. watch this whole scene unedited? It’s fine if they want to swim naked in the pool but why let the cameras film it? And if you have to use the bathroom in the bucket, do what you have to do, but why let the cameras film it? If there had been a bathroom in the room the cameras wouldn’t have gone in the stall with her? And if you have to take a pregnancy test on camera - at least just shut the door while you’re ACTUALLY doing it and then open the door back up to wait for the results. I suppose we should be flattered that she shares so much of her private life with us but it doesn’t make sense that she BERATES Jill on the reunion and in the press for telling the public that she reached out to Bethenny and sent flowers and tried to make-up but seems to have no limit to what she is willing to let the public see. It seems like Bethenny makes all the rules for what is right and wrong and everybody else just has to follow them (and guess what they are until she decides to inform them of what they are).  You get the feeling that all these people she complains about in her life probably can’t win for losing with her.

Comment by KY on 7/16/10 at 10:02 am

I never “got it” about Bethany.  I don’t understand the die hard loyalty.  I admire that she’s worked hard, been focused and dedicated to make a life for herself.  She’s also pretty darn funny, albeit very caustic.  What’s not clear to me is why it’s okay (and defended by some) that her acerbic and rancorous hate filled comments are excused.  Her defenders mollify and justify her behavior because “she’s been hurt”.  Who hasn’t?  It doesn’t give any of use license to be nasty to each other.  Well, in some cases it does, but perhaps a dose of the Countess’ manners could help?  In the three part reunion of Housewives someone messaged in with a comment that asked Bethany why she “uses an AK 47 to go after flies?” to which Bethany owned her behavior and agreed that she should dial it down.  Is this posturing?  A lack of self discipline?  Not sure, but this side of personality starts to diminish and devalue the other parts of her that are admirable.

For me, personally: when I saw the commercial for her wedding day where she was attempting to relieve herself in a waste paper basket, I knew this wasn’t anything I’d watch. 

However, I love the blogs - keep up the good work, Ilana!

Comment by bella on 7/16/10 at 10:11 am

@ Wendy - We’re the minority!

@ M - I love reality television

@ Pricilla - The only person talking smack about her mother, is Bethenny

@ Viewer -  I don’t know Jill and my views are based on what I see, not what I hear

@ Icefan -  You are really angry.  I get a lot of emails from people claiming to know Bethenny, and her mother, calling the whole thing crap.  Everyone has an opinion, and this blog is just mine.

@ LC - Right? LOL

@ Mika - I’ll stop watching when you stop reading my blog

@ Twilight - It’s my blog and this is America and I get to say whatever I like.  That’s how it works.  Just like Bethenny can pee in front of me, I can say it’s gross.  You are a loyal reader and I love it that you comment, but come on.  When I write something you agree with you, you are lovely, and when it’s something you don’t like, the claws come out.  Pot, meet kettle.

@ Buffalo - I will read Star and let’s chat afterwards.  I’ve been waiting for her mom to speak.  Will be interesting to see what she says.

@ Alex - there are just as many people who are annoyed by, that like her

@ Carol - If Bethenny does not want people to have opinions about her, being on television is probably not a good idea.

@ Dee - You read my boring blog, and even commented on it.  Nice.

Thanks for reading and writing everyone.

Ilana

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 10:17 am

My husband had no clue how I was going to decorate our baby’s room and I bet yours didn’t either if you have children. Once more, who else is B suppose to talk to her therapist about? Your logic escapes me. I feel sorry for you. Why? Because you seem to be so uptight and a prude. Since you dislike her so much why are you watching? I think what you’ve written in here is highly speculative with nothing to back it up. Who told you Jason moved out already? Jill? lmao!

Comment by Sunnii on 7/16/10 at 10:18 am

Ilana…I sincerely hope things are okay for you. Maybe it was a hard week and your looking at things from a harsh perspective. Everything you said could be true if one wanted to bash on another, I just choose not to do that. Bethenny is who she is and that person is very different from me, you and probably every other person watching her program.  She is very interesting because she is different, driven, smart, difficult, demanding, but also I love her because she has flaws and goes on in spite of them to be successful.  It gives me hope for myself, I am not perfect either. I pray that she, Jason and the baby are doing well.  Also, that you are too!!!  I’m totally keeping the faith that you will receive understanding as well as a great weekend!  DK

Comment by Debra Kimball on 7/16/10 at 10:21 am

And another thing, she said her Mom called her when she was in the hospital having the baby and she couldn’t talk to her because she couldn’t deal with her at the time but yet now Bethenny’s saying in the press that her Mother has expressed no interest in seeing the baby. Isn’t calling while the baby is being born expressing interest in the baby?  That alone would tell me that someone at least cares and is making an effort. Maybe they’ve talk since and the conversation didn’t go well but it seems like the lady is at least TRYING. Again, you get the feeling that it’s Bethenny’s rules only and once you get on her bad side that no effort is ever BIG enough or RIGHT enough to satisfy her.  It’s just frustrating to watch her get to do and say anything she wants to and these other people either don’t have the platform to speak or just get backlash if they do. Believe it or not I like Bethenny but It’s just not fair and I want to speak out about these things that bother me because I don’t want to start NOT liking her.

Comment by KY on 7/16/10 at 10:25 am

My, you’re a nasty piece of work yourself.

I figured Jill’s buddies here would win out sooner or later. Talk about petty and grating, you have cornered the market. And the gossip you posted better be right, or you should be sued.

I’ll be avoiding this site and losing my links to it as fast as I can hit delete.

Comment by RealitySophie on 7/16/10 at 10:27 am

@ SL - You are so angry.  That’s an exhausting way to live.  Sorry.

@ Boston - I get that a lot.  LOL.  No Jill connection I’m afraid.

@ LG - You crack me up.  I write about reality television.  Hello?

@ Jenna - Thanks for reading.  Good bye!

@ KY - Agreed.  Thank you.

@ Bella.  Agreed.  Thank you!

@ Sunnii - Do you read my blog?  I’m anything but prude sweetie.  My husband helped me decorate our son’s room.  He wanted to be involved and so he was.  Maybe your husband didn’t care about decorating.  The thing is, Jason did, we all knew it because Bethenny told us, then she cut him out.  That’s bitchy and selfish, plain and simple.

@ Debra - I think that is just about the best comment this blog has ever received.  Thank you for sharing your opinion, being fair, and not getting nasty.  I appreciate your tone and your good wishes.

Thanks for reading everyone.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 10:34 am

You are Jewish and it shows!
All I know is that Jewish people have each other’s back because they know and love to HATE. You don’t happen to be on Jill’s payroll, are you?

Comment by h on 7/16/10 at 10:43 am

@ KY - I think you are spot on.  It’s fascinating to me that Bethenny can say whatever she wants, whenever she wants, any way she wants, but her fans don’t like it when anyone else does.  Something is not kosher in the Bethenny Frankel kitchen.  I think perhaps her Skinny Girl margarita has got some Kool-aid in it.

@ RealitySophie - Take care.  Thanks for stopping by.

Thanks for reading and writing!

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 10:46 am

now girl…
i don’t think asking you to try more ‘decaf’, ‘sugar-free’ or ‘non alcoholic’ drinks might help how you truly feel about bethenny frankle.
but i have to admit, why, you of all people, why would you take pleasure out of a ‘rumor’ that jason hoppy moved out.
whenever you have let it be known that your own husband left you when your own son was just a wee tiny baby over 13 years ago.
why, i mean really, why would that give you such pleasure to write about it.
ilana, i love reading your thoughts, posts and/or blogs on different subjects but honey, really…think about it first, who’s it going to hurt, help and benefit to “keep the faith”.
i’m just sayin’
(o.m.g.)
honey, honey, honey—-
calm down and don’t get pissed at me for pointing this out to you by slamming your fist down, yelling and then telling me NOT to read, write or bother with you again.
you are too sweet, your smile is too warm and i just know, your heart is too lovin’ for you not to understand what i am trying to explain to you.
please play nice…

Comment by zero milligrams (0.m.g.) on 7/16/10 at 10:51 am

H,

What a horrible thing to say.
This has nothing to do with being Jewish.
You should be ashamed of yourself. 
I am no longer posting your comments.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 10:53 am

Ms Ilana Angel

I didn’t turn the channel during the BGM reality tv show because I DID WANT to stay tuned. 

Sorry that you felt you did so only because of your job.  Sounds like you need another job because your job as a critic is way off.  You truly expressed your personal feelings but shouldn’t a critic be unbiased….your past BGM articles have never been favorable,  except maybe once when you were pleased with one episode.  Come on every episode can’t be eligible for an Emmy Award.  BGM is to expose the life of a couple of lovers—to entertain the tv population that are interested it seeing this particular program. 

I just wish you could see it as entertainment rather than something that should be repulsive, ugly and demeaning.  We love Bethenny and new hubby and are curious how her life has changed since leaving the toxic atmosphere while on RHONY.  This show is a joy and warms my heart to see entertainment that does not leave us anxious or terrified.

I thank you for allowing me to express my feelings as you expressed yours.

Respectfullly signed: 

Disagree with your opinion

Comment by Disagree with your opinion on 7/16/10 at 10:57 am

I don’t think that Ilana is hateful, and she’s certainly not making the big bucks by writing this blog. She could make a lot more money by pissing in a bucket on tv. 

I don’t like Bethenny, and I never did, right from the moment that she told Jill that she was going to put a skewer in her eye if she asked another question about the birthday gift she received from Jason #1—the look on everyone’s faces… What a psycho, a total borderline, like Angelina Jolie’s character in “Girl, Interrupted.”  I could totally see her driving someone to suicide, if not just by the sound of her voice.

BTW, whatever happened to Jason #1?

Comment by Viewer on 7/16/10 at 11:02 am

Zero -  Really?  I took no “pleasure” in writing that he moved out.  i was simply sharing what was told to me.  To be clear, I have never written that my husband left me.  I left my marriage when my child was a baby because it was not a healthy or safe environment for me or my child.  I’ve been honest and open about my life so no need to throw that in my face, and if you are going to, you are certainly welcome to, and your comments will be posted, but let’s get the fact straight.

I’m not pissed at you, and certainly don’t need to calm down.  Question:  is my not sharing what a writer wrote, the same as Bethenny calling out Jill for sending her kid to “fat camp”.  She was sharing what someone told her, and so am I.  Bethenny Frankel does not a different set of rules than the rest of us.  She can say whatever she wants, and so can I.  Take it or leave, read it or don’t.  Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

Now, I ain’t mad at ya sister!  I love it that you read, and always have something to say.  I hope my comment does not offend you.  We see things differently sometimes, and you’ve stuck with the blog and let me know when you like what I write, and let me know when you don’t.  That’s a beautiful thing.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 11:05 am

umm, she is pregnant u idiot! people like you are typical and surprising. If you dont like someone, why take your time writing about them?? She is a successful woman and is living the life who wished you would come close to having. If you can’t stand her, don;t watch the show and do something better with your life.

I don’t mean to sound like a BITCH, although I am already doing so. But females like you are just low lives who just want to get attention. She is successful and confidant. You’re making all these complaints about her WHILE SHE IS PREGNANT! DUHH she’s gonna be moody, bitchy and emotional. YOU are going to be the same way, and watch all those who love you tell you the same thing

take a look in the mirror before taking BS

Comment by Maribel on 7/16/10 at 11:10 am

Incredible article! You think exactly like I do. Thank you for saying it. Didn’t it feel like that show dragged on for hours?

Comment by Ronit on 7/16/10 at 11:10 am

I think you did Bethenny a favor here. A lot of her real fans are begging her to take-back some of her private life to save her & her family from the hate that the media seems to bring.
They say that the media helps set them up, and then tears them down.
Maybe Bethenny is smart enough and knows herself well enough to avoid it?
That little snark about Jason moving out, well I hope we see you post a big fat correction to that.

Comment by HWFAN on 7/16/10 at 11:24 am

ilana, i wish you love, such beautiful love…
i wish i could have put my thoughts and words together as well as debra kimball did. it’s time to walk away for a while to breath, raise your hands and breath…
know one thing for sure ‘i wish you love’.
i’m just sayin’
(o.m.g.)
h made me cry for you, me and the world…

Comment by zero milligrams (o.m.g.) on 7/16/10 at 11:27 am

@ Disagree:  To be clear, i’m not a critic.  I write a blog about my life, and my life includes a love or reality television, so I write about it.  I’m only sharing my opinion, not a review.  I do watch the show for entertainment, it’s just not that entertaining to me.  Just as Bethenny is free to say what she wants, so am I, and so are you.  i appreciate your input, and thank you for being respectful in the way you disagree.

@ Viewer -  Thanks for having my back.  Whatever did happen to Jason #1 or her first husband for that matter?

@ Maribel - You don’t want to sound like a bitch?  You missed that mark sweetie.

@ Ronit - Thank you.

@ HWFan - The comment is posted on a previous blog as a comment by another reader.  They are not my words, but those off another.  i never said it was something I knew for fact, just that it was shared with me. 

@Zero - It breaks my heart that just because I wrote something that someone did not like, it’s because I’m Jewish.  I think I’m done for today.  Thanks for your note.

Thanks everyone.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 11:43 am

Some people are just bitter, hateful and jealous of others success! You could have changed the chanel but if you got paid to write what you did shame on you! You need to give ALL the $ back! But that is my opinion of which I have the right to say. I admire Bethany I just wish we were sisters, she is funny, beautiful and entertaining. And if you think Jason will ever leave her
you need to do a reality check or get off the cheap drugs you are on. That man loves her. From some of the other comments made, you also might want to check your resourses before you spue your uneducated information! Just a thought!

Comment by Holly on 7/16/10 at 12:06 pm

ilana,
my bad, didn’t get all the input on your ex…
missed that one…
sorry, i misread and misunderstood the ‘jason moved out’ comment. i never ever wanted to hurt you or thought you ever wanted to hurt anyone yourself by saying you took ‘pleasure in a rumor’.
i was just kind of trying to be flip by saying ‘don’t get pissed at me’...tongue in cheek…trying to make a joke—-that kind of got lost in the fact that i didn’t know all the facts about your marrage.
sweetie, love ya too much to be mean to ya…
i’m just sayin’...
(o.m.g.)
keep up the good work, good thoughts and good faith

Comment by zero milligrams (o.m.g.) on 7/16/10 at 12:15 pm

I disagree with your comments about the latest episode of BGM but I still enjoy your blogs. What bothers me is that you are repeating a rumor that someone posted on one of your other blogs. You have to take some of those comments with a grain of salt. There is a woman on Twitter that has started all kinds of outrageous rumors about Bethenny that have been proven to be untrue. One of the rumors that this individual started was that Bethenny pulled the plug on her father. There several other rumors but if I listed them, it would take up the rest of my day.  You have to be careful about believing rumors that start on the internet.  Also, regarding the emails that you received about Bethenny’s childhood, the only people who know what really happened are Bethenny, her mother and her stepfather. Bethenny’s stepfather backed up Bethenny’s claims but Bethenny’s mother denies them. Even though Bethenny’s mother denies Bethenny’s claims, she does admit that there was some “family discord”. We will never know what really happened but I wouldn’t take the word of people who anonymously email you. The people who are sending you these emails may not know Bethenny, they could be making up their stories.

Comment by Keep It Real on 7/16/10 at 12:20 pm

Bethenny says that she wants to help other women improve their lives but her Mother apparently has some issues and she’s completely unwilling to help her? Bethenny is in therapy, why doesn’t she get into therapy with her Mom and work through their issues? She claims Jill has issues but she unwilling to help her improve her life, she’s unwilling to stay in the relationship and work through those issues together? She wants to help improve the lives of TOTAL strangers but these women who were actually in her life she walks away from? I’ve read her book and listened to some of her speeches and I think she does have some insight to give and a unique perspective but then I see her treating people unfairly like this and it just disappoints me.

Comment by JH on 7/16/10 at 1:13 pm

WHO ARE YOU KELLY OR JILL? LU ANN MAYBE?

Comment by joann on 7/16/10 at 1:25 pm

Hi Ilana, Wow, I guess some people did not heed your warning early in the blog that they would not like what you wrote. Then their feathers were all ruffled because you said unflattering things about Bethenny. I fell asleep during last night’s show. I did not find it to be that interesting. It was just a little too much of her crying and whining and then Jason telling her she is wonderful. I can only take so much of that. I agree with you, the two of them naked in their “private” pool was over the top and more of, “I’m fat and ugly”, followed by “no you are beautiful”. Now maybe if all of the water had come out of the pool when she jumped in, that would have been funny. I guess I need more to keep me interested. So let me catch the ending of the show this weekend and see if it was any better. I just don’t understand why everyone gets so angry and makes such nasty remarks. You can be critical without being nasty, which I think you achieve for the most part. And while I think spreading the rumor about Jason leaving home could be criticized, the truth is the truth, and your repeating the rumor doesn’t really matter because it won’t change a thing.

Comment by PRYAN on 7/16/10 at 1:25 pm

Jeez, I totally 100% agree with everything you said. She is totally unlikeable, unwatchable (lucky me only saw 20 min of it last night) and I’m so freaking sick and tired of everyone who sees a negative Bethenny comment posting that the person is either Jill or one of Jill’s friends. I live in Washington D.C., don’t know Jill, don’t know B, but cannot stand her. She hides behind the “I tell it like it is” b.s., which she uses as an excuse to be mean to people. She’s stabbed every one of those housewives in the back on her climb to the “top” and for some reason, Ramona and Alex forgave her. I wouldn’t have if I were them. Looks like Jill got sick of her crap, and Luann figured her out and decided to stay away. Then she gets her own show?

Anyone hear that? It’s Bravo scraping the bottom of the barrel. Watch next week when the only two people with her in the Delivery Room are her husband who sort of has to be there and her paid assistant. Where are her friends?

When someone has problems with all their family and has basically no friends to speak of, the problem usually isn’t all those other people. It’s the person in question.

And for anyone who thinks “most” people like her…there’s a whole message board that started as an offshoot when Bravo and TWOP closed the message boards and the Bethenny hate is widespread. And no, None of us are Jill Zarin or any incarnation thereof.

Good post Ilana, really spot on.

Comment by Me in Washington DC on 7/16/10 at 1:32 pm

Jealous much? Of course You are a Sarah Palin Fan. I looked up a pic of you onling and its not cute. Also the only reason anyone is reading this blog is it comes up as one of the first news stories regarding Bethenny so get over your jealous self!

Comment by keva on 7/16/10 at 1:37 pm

Bethenny Frankel is happy, and I am happy for her, Jason, and Bryn. She is sharing her happiness with the public. Some of us enjoy seeing happiness. A wonderful relief from the toxicity of RHoNYC, Zarin and her trained Sasquatch, and the Gulf oil spill. I wish that you could just enjoy watching a person being happy.

You are entitled to your opinion, but on one thing, you are just plain wrong. There is nothing garish about Bethenny Frankel. She has great taste in clothes, weddings, and men. Once in a while, she makes a mistake (that “shirt” she wore to her shower; thinking Jill Zarin was a friend) but generally she has great taste.

Comment by Joan on 7/16/10 at 1:55 pm

SO WHAT IF BETHENNY WAS NUDE ON HER HONEYMOON..THERE WAS NOBOBY THERE BUT JASON.BETHENNY IS HER OWN PERSON AND MANY PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND HER BECAUSE THEY DO NOT HAVE THE NERVE THAT SHE HAS. SHE’S THE KIND OF GIRLFRIEND MOST WOMEN WOULD LOVE TO HAVE. SHE TELLS IT THE WAY IT IS .SHE’S HONEST INCREDIBLY INDEPENDENT AND IF DON’T PLAY HER DIRTY SHE’LL BE THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED HER. FOR SOMEONE WHO’S BEEN THROUGH WHAT SHE’S BEEN THROUGH SHE’ GROWN TO BECOME A VERY LEVEL HEADED WOMAN.OH SO A FEW HORMONES GOT IN THE WAY BIG DEAL. ANYONE WHO CRITICIZES HER MUST BE A FAN OF JILL’S AND KELLY. THAT’S OVER THE EDGE CRAZY.-

Comment by emm on 7/16/10 at 2:06 pm

Ilana, you keep it up sweets. I think you hae every right to say what you really think. People take the housewives far too seriously when they bash people merely for criticizing their particular faves.

Real housewives, real psychological issues?

Comment by angelofdevs on 7/16/10 at 2:11 pm

AND OH TO ALL THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE OUT THERE..IF YOU THINK THE SHOW IS SO BAD AND YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY..KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND CHANGE THE CHANEL..IF THE SHOW WERE NOT A HIT.  ....WHY IS THERE OVER 2 MILLION PEOPLE WATCHING?

Comment by EMM on 7/16/10 at 2:14 pm

You know what?? Perhaps you take life too seriously?? Lighten up…she is hilarious, carefree and a fighter to the end…find something to do with your time rather than bashing on someones life you are clearly jealous of…good for Bethanny she has worked her ass off and she has accomplished a lot…give her a break…she is happy for once in her life…

Comment by Dtime on 7/16/10 at 2:43 pm

Wow lots of people hating on you for this!  I especially love the people who tell you not to watch BUT still manage to read and comment on what you wrote…I guess that makes sense in Kelly-land…

Anyway I like Bethenny to a point but I have not watched her show very often, as I said earlier, her very strong personality is magnified here with the mild cast around her…the parts I have seen of this episode, I chalk up in part to hormones, I KNOW now what a raving lunatic I was when I have been pregnant, even more so when there were other pressures on me while I was pregnant…she has taken on several very stressful situations at once, and whether it is a joyful situation or not, the stress is still there…and yes she chose to start a show, and have the baby and get married all at the same time, but like many women, she seems to buy into the “superwoman” myth, thinking she can handle it all…

that said, you certainly can think, say and write what you want, and so can I…so as soon as I actuall watch this episode, I will be back to “yell” at…just kidding:-)

Comment by tracy on 7/16/10 at 2:48 pm

While I get all your comments and can see your point of view, a hell of a lot of people are lovin’ her and it. They think she’s entirely authentic, the one authentic interesting voice on NYC Housewwives. They’ve chosen her alone as the “personality” to parlay into another reality TV series. I’m a NYC girl, transplanted to LALALand, and I think she’s the real deal! Love her, love it!

Comment by rickela on 7/16/10 at 3:10 pm

ilana,

I never said you couldn’t write anything you didn’t want to. It’s your blog, do as you wish. What I didn’t like is the comments about Jason Hoppy moving out on Bethenny. Thats how rumors get started. I know your not a reporter but you should have at least checked your sources before you say something like that. Rumors can be very hurtful.
As for the people that said they knew her from high school. They didn’t live with her. They can say whatever they want but like I said they didn’t live with her so they have no idea what they’re talking about.

I like have lots of respect for you and your views. I try to be fair in my opinions but I am far from perfect. I am not always going to agree with your opinion but you are entitled to yours just as I am.
But what you said about Jason H. was not an opinion it was a malicious rumor from who???
I’m just saying be responsible for what you say and check your sources.
Thanks

Comment by @twilighttwitti on 7/16/10 at 3:28 pm

@ Holly - Why so mean spirited?

@ zero - It’s all good

@ Keep It Real - I hear what you;re saying and I removed the comment from my reader.  Thanks for explaining your view without being nasty.

@ JH - Agreed

@ Joann - Really?  That is getting old already.

@ Pryan - Agreed.  I took the comment out of my blog.

@ Me -  We are the minority!  Thanks for speaking up.

@ Keva - I’m #1 on searched for a reason.  Thanks for the plug.

@ Joan - Thanks for sharing.

@ emm - Why are you yelling?

@ rickela - not everyone watched because they love her.

@ Twilight - I didn’t start the rumor.  The comment was posted as were all the others.  You can see who wrote it and ask him how he knows.  At any rate, it’s been removed from my blog.

@ ang - No worries.  I’m tough.

@ emm - STOP YELLING!

@ DTime - Really?  I’m the one who it taking life too seriously?  Look at the comments.  People are intense.

@ Tracy - Come back to yell!

Thanks everyone.  It’s Friday night, take time off from your bitch fest and enjoy the weekend.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 3:46 pm

LLANA..WHEN I GET UPSET I YELL..AND YOU KNOW WHAT…. YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR OPINION..BUY LIKE SOMEONE JUST SAID GET YOU FACTS STRAIGHT. YOUR BEGINNING TO SOUND LIKE PEREZ HILTON. NOBODY TALKS BAD ABOUT MY BETHENNY..

Comment by EMM on 7/16/10 at 4:04 pm

Ilana,

LOL, I’m angry? If I am, what the heck are you? You have NO CLUE what you are talking about.

You cannot hide behind the heresay you post by simply saying that others sent it to you. If you cannot verify those rumors, you should not post them. Period. Just because you didn’t start the rumor doesn’t mean you are not responsible for spreading it.

It seems like YOU are the one who wants to live under a different set of rules, not Bethenny. You’re posting about leaving your husband because he was abusive, but in the next breath condemn Bethenny for saying her parents were abusive? I’m sure there are people who know you who will say you’re lying.

And Bethenny did NOT call out Jill for sending her daughter to fat camp: It was JILL who did that on the show, the first season. She (Jill) was the one who made an issue out of sending her daughter to fat camp, to lose weight. It all came out of Jill’s mouth. At the recent reunion she said it wasn’t, but it’s all on tape in season 1. And in that season Jill also made an issue out of Ally & Bobby disliking each other.

Comment by icefan13 on 7/16/10 at 4:05 pm

if you dont like her , dont watch the effin show. Its plain and simplee . if thats what she wants to do , let her . what ever the hell you say wont make a damn difference to the world , so save yourself some time and do something that is productive .

Comment by lexi on 7/16/10 at 5:01 pm

First of all Bethanney recognizes how the cameras change you..if she wanted to feel free to plung into a pool and show her buttocks..why do you care..have forgotten the fur campaign she did? Since she was on Martha Stewarts version of apprentice she has worked hard to earn a living and do what she does best and it seems she does her research well enough to sell books. You don’t have to be 100% right but you do have to have an audience to sell books.

You are bugging..why can’t a women get what the baby needs without her husband..have you also forgotten that Jason travels alot..he is a sales rep. and he also know that his wife is a control freak, if he can handle it and calm her at times, I don’t know why you are bashing her.

I have had friends who were very green in having a baby and never got books..they went to classes and maybe lucky to have family and friends to aid them with their newborn. You are such a nip picker! There is alot that many women go through and like many Jewish people..don’t we cry our sorrows about things that just struck us hard? I know many will say that Jewish people are always crying..whatever. Bethanney has and continue to rise above the lifestyle that her mother raised her in..the numerous husbands..the drugs, the alcohol abuse to name a few, and she states how her mother is just a mean person. It’s hard to be a child of a mean person at times you’re bitter and weak havoc against the world and other times you just run away and make a peaceful life for yourself. I like that Bethanney has seek guidance from a therapists over the years..she can’t be too selfish and self absorbed and still seek council.

It does take some 5 to 10 yrs to get over childhood trauma and if Bethanney screeches..then you need to carry ear plugs because you’re of no good to her anyway..(Hence if she needed medical attention..you sound like you would ignore her…just saying).

We are all here in this universe to gain alot of knowledge and growth with ourselves and amongst others..if you don’t like Bethanney, that is your right but don’t blog crap unless you have lived in someone else’s shoes…I’m sure you can’t walk in high heels anyway and are your own worst enemy..Just saying.

Comment by Cat on 7/16/10 at 5:01 pm

If you find the show so horrible then why watch it? Just ignore it.  It’s what I am going to do with Season 4 of Real Housewives of NYC if Kelly and Jill are on the show.

Comment by Not that Crazy on 7/16/10 at 5:10 pm

You sound like you probably need to be on some type of anxiety medication.  If you don’t like the show or Bethenny as much as you say you don’t, please stop watching.  Problem solved!!!

Comment by Jan on 7/16/10 at 5:39 pm

FYI - all the people that post to these blogs praising bethenney, is either bethenney herself, her fat disgusting publicist friend Laurie Levine or wannabe tool Jason. NO ONE and I REPEAT NO ONE IS JEALOUS OF Bethenney. GIVE US ONE REASON just ONE? I want to know. THey post to these blogs saying it’s Kelly who is jealous of Bethenney. That is the most laughable thing in the entire world. Bethenney you are a pig and I wish you would get the hell off my favorite show NYC Housewives. IF anyone should have a show it’s RAMONA!

Comment by Truth be told on 7/16/10 at 5:47 pm

You are so right. B & J have nothing to talk about.

The only thing real about BFrankel is her ugly, hateful,crude and LYING behavior. It just never stops.No excuses in the world can cover her relentlessly ugly behavior.

What a mess of freaked out fans your blog brings to the surface! But of all the crap spewed here, to me the most annoying has been zero.  I wanna scream everytime I see “why so mean, kitty kat” or “o.m.g.” & “i’m just sayin…” 
whatta a crock. WHO is that person? And how do you stay so patient?

Comment by Leslie on 7/16/10 at 5:53 pm

Thanks ilana for removing the comment it was the right thing to do. @bethenny’s facebook page said today that she was cuddling with Jason, so all is good there, no problems with the happy Hoppy couple.
Can’t wait for the next blog, xoxo

Comment by @twilighttwitti on 7/16/10 at 7:44 pm

@ Lexi - You can take your advice to me, apply it to yourself and my blog.  I am going to write whatever I want, and you can simply choose to not read it.  Thanks

@ Cat - I have no idea what you are talking about with your Kelly style rant.  Satchels of gold sweetie.

@ Truth - Ramona is good but I think Sonja is brilliant.  As or who is on here writing all the pro-Bethenny speeches….. Hi Bethenny!

@ Jan - if my blog is so upsetting, just stop reading.  problem solved.

@ Leslie - Zero is a loyal reader, who takes the time to write and share her opinion, which are all allowed to do.  As for the people who come out of the shadows to attack me, it’s all good.  Even crazy people should be allowed to speak their minds don’t you think?

@ Twilight - You are welcome.  I appreciate you writing.

@ Not That Crazy - Like any good train wreck, I can’t turn away.

Thanks everyone.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/16/10 at 8:22 pm

So I wonder why all these people think you need to check or double check sources??  Do they think you are a journalist??  I thought that this was your viewpoint and opinion (call me crazy) and entertainment…well that is what it is to me and whether I agree or not, I am really enjoying reading what you write here! Keep up the good work:-)

Comment by tracy on 7/16/10 at 8:42 pm

So who’s forcing you to watch Bethenny on this or any other show?  If you think she’s so obnoxious and false, then simply change the channel.  Frankly, I’d rather put up with Bethenny’s sometimes thoughtless but always quick wit than read more of your passive agressive whining.

Comment by Patricia on 7/16/10 at 9:09 pm

Respectfully disagree with your POV on Ms. Frankel. I personally like Bethenny because she’s a proactive young lady who’s built a brand around her skills and self, and isn’t a divorcee living from a settlement or working vanity projects. Unlike the spiteful, drama-filled RHoNY, BGM is the fun, kooky ride of someone who’s gone on to acquire love, marriage, and success and is basking in a joyful glow. Why knock that?

Comment by Lexistential on 7/16/10 at 10:27 pm

Girrl, just wanna say, my kid saved my life, too and more(feel like you two are friends in need, but not found - thanks and who knows where this goes

Comment by shari on 7/16/10 at 10:46 pm

If I had an ugly deformed face like Betheney, I would be yelling at my mom too. Gosh, that’s one fugly looking dude. And most her fans sound alike. Are they the same person with multiple names?

Comment by GE on 7/16/10 at 11:13 pm

Ilana, you have a better tolerance level than I do, because all these Bethenny followers are officially brain-washed. Ilana speaks the truth about Bethenny, and sometimes, the truth hurts. Don’t get it twisted people…Bethenny doesn’t give a RATS ASS about any of you. She plays the victim card, in order to gain sympathy, sell books, DVD’s, and alcohol. I can’t believe how many of you actually fall for it, too. This woman has some holes in her “stories”, and one being that her Mom never showed any interest in the baby, yet, a few weeks ago, she said her Mom called while she in the hospital. Lying little #$%@.

As far as her “Bethenny Getting Married?”...I caught a re-run and watched the first 20 minutes of it. HOW DISTURBING!!! This Jezebel is so fame hungry that she’ll do anything to stay relevant. Running around naked (which is repulsive), peeing in buckets, taking pregnancy tests on camera…IT’S DISGUSTING, and nothing humorous, nor entertaining about it. Bethenny isn’t any more “real” than the rest of us, and nobody should have to prove that they are by being a bitch and pissing in ice buckets.

Ilana, you probably should have left the part about Jason “moving out”, because it’s going to happen one day, anyway.

Comment by Lovely Lady In Texas on 7/17/10 at 2:01 am

Here we go again with Lynn Hudson (of I hate Jill Zarin notoriety) and her flying monkeys.

Ilana,

These shut ins have nothing to do all day long but refresh their page and research, examine, comment on all things Housewives 24/7. I’d say they are scary, but they are just a pathetic mob that troll from site to site spreading their “brand” of Hate.

They actually suggest to one another that they gang up on anyone who does not agree with them. Post their vitriol and hate filled comments on the blogs of others then scamper back to Lynn Hudson (wicked witch of the west) and repost what they had just posted on another’s blog so others can high five them and they can be annointed by Lynn Hudson herself.

I do not believe I have to comment much more on this Loony Parade of Losers as their comments here speak for themselves.

The one thing I find amazing is that at times, when posters have in the past written truthful things about this organized, bullying, mob mentality of a deranged blogger and her “fans” (as she likes to refer to them), Hudson gets all sensitive all of a sudden and commands that her flying monkeys leave their mental and emotional caves and swoop down on other bloggers…NOTICE…calling them JEWS…within the age old Pogram and/or NAZI context of “Dirty Jew, Backstabbing Jew, Underhanded Jew”.

These freaks of nature are so intelligent, that they forget Bethenny Frankel herself is a Jew.

Thank you Ilana for keeping it real. Just know that the few who have commented here are a brain washed, brain dead bunch cretins who travel in a pack. Uncivilized pack to say the least.

You be well dear.

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 4:12 am

Thank you “Lovely lady in Texas”. Finally an independent thinking individual.

The abusive posters on this particular blog all adored Ilana just a few weeks and months ago. They adore anyone who agrees with them. If you dare to blog or post an opinion not in direct alignment with their own, well, you see what happens.

Couldn’t help myself. After posting on this blog, I logged onto the dark, hate spewing blog of Lynn Hudson. Lo and behold, what do I find?...All the flying monkeys after posting the race hate, race baiting remarks here, did in fact fly back into their little cave and report and get kudos and brava’s for their ignorant attacks.

These people are so sick that they make lists of sponsors and write them to let them know they will boycott anything with Zarin on.

This pack of animals is delusional that they truly believe they alone will sway all public opinion.

They demand freedom of speech while depriving it to others.

Their very real Hate of one individual has swayed them into supporting what they perceive to be the victim of this person. Never examining the fact that Jill Zarin and her misbegotten ways have made Frankel a star and set the stage for a successful debuting of her own show.

Frankel can do no wrong in their eyes.

They view the footage of the honeymoon (giggle) and the switch back to NYC as a sign that Frankel actually kept some things private.

Not that the last show went from honeymoon (lol) back to NYC to baby room shopping, to gyn visit to naked (AGAIN!) portraiture to therapist visit because while Frankel insists on being filmed urinating wherever and whenever, in other words at all times; editing proved that there just was not enough interesting material not to move it along so quickly.

EGADS! Can that mean that unless Frankel is shreiking, she just is not all that fascinating?

Thank you Ilana for a refreshing take on the phenom. Please keep on blogging.

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 4:56 am

OtayPanky - when did you change your name to RadicalStar?

Comment by Jeri on 7/17/10 at 5:02 am

Jeri:

Ilana is Jill

RadicalStar is otaypanky.

Jeri is a flying monkey fool of an ignoramous. Go back and suckle off Lynn Hudson.

Byeeeeee

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 5:14 am

Dear Lord you people have a lot of time on your hands.
I am not Jill and I have no idea who Lynn Hudson is, although she has posted here.
Take all this drama somewhere else and play your childish games on another blog.
Bethenny is out of control and all the lies will catch up with her eventually.
I won’t say I told you so, because I don’t care.
It’s just a blog people. 
Get a grip.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/17/10 at 5:28 am

Oh Ilana.

Just to prove my point. Lynn Hudson has just posted an entire new blog Knocking You.

The crazy fat broad from Chicago does not think nor understand why someone would write about a show they do not like.

It escapes this cheaply bleached brainiac that one must actually view something before a considered personal opinion can be formed.

This Sicko writes a blog about Jill Zarin and the nutty pack goes after all who do not agree, yet they troll the internet for anything and everything Jill Zarin. Same rules as layed down by this cult (to judercut civil liberties) do not apply to anyone else..Like I said…CRAAAAZZZY!

Another favorite thing of theirs is to thrust identities upon anyone who disagrees with them ie…you must be Jill or a friend of jill’s.

These freakzoids would be dangerous if they were not so patently ridiculoulsy lonely, isolated creatures.

I will not insult you by posting a link to the depravity that is Lynn Hudson and her motley crew on your site.

I’m sure you know of her. She is best friends with the Van Kempen’s…Just ask her!

Like I said…NUTZ!!!!

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 5:30 am

Well Ilana, you hit a home run. 

All the folks with no life came out.  Is it a full moon and I’m unaware?  Just for information, no one has to watch the show and no one has to comment or screech on the blog…

Now, I personally hate the fact that BF has an unusual intolerance for people who are curvy and dislike her snarky remarks.  She is rude and unkind. 

The other argument I see playing out is ‘she had a bad childhood’ Boo-Hoo, a lot of did and it doesn’t allow us at our age to blame that part of our life for our actions.  Own them and be different than your parents, it is a simple equation that may require help to execute but stop being the victim at 38 or older….

Now I do have to get on with my life today…
LC

Comment by LC on 7/17/10 at 5:34 am

Ilana.

An entire blog scandalizing you has just been posted. I did not call you Jill Zarin.

My remarks were to @jeri.

This is a ploy used by obsessed people to undermine their opinions.

They remove your very own identity and assault your character by proclaiming you are someone else who has personal gain at stake in the posting of their opinions.

These are just terror tactics used by a very biased and race hating group.

Oh well, this is America after all.

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 5:38 am

Why do you harbor so much hate? This woman is successful, beautiful, and trying her hardest to be the best person she can be. She is obviously scarred by her past, and suffering from major anxiety as a result. Who are you to judge and condemn? We all have our struggles, hers just happens to be televised.

You can’t change her or bring her down, so you might as well turn off the TV and live your life. Your negativity is disturbing, and I hope you realize that writing nasty blogs is not only detrimental to the people to you are writing about, but also yourself.

Release your anger, live and let live, and find a new hobby.

Comment by Rachel on 7/17/10 at 5:44 am

my my, never knew i mattered to a hill of beans…
what the hell did i do to make someone so nasty towords ‘ME’ ?
i thought this love/hate fest was for bethenny!!
i’m just kind of afraid to ‘think’ what i’m sayin’...
(ZERO MILLIGRAMS)

Comment by zero milligrams (o.m.g.) on 7/17/10 at 6:19 am

Bethenny’s mother has not said anything.  That was not an interview in the Enquirer it was a rumor.  Bernadette Parisella, which is her current name has not said anything for or against Bethenny. The only statement John Parisella her step-father for over 15 years said was that Bernadette or if you like Bonnie had a tendency towards bulimia and drank heavily.  He didn’t admit to Bonnie abusing Bethenny physically or emotionally.  It is not in there.

Bonnie was an alcoholic and that is admitted by everyone. Apparently now she is dry.  Bonnie had a poor self-image and had weight problems that is admitted as well. How this all translates into abuse is a mystery that Bethenny cannot even fill in the gaps.

Bethenny lied about the money issues. Bonnie married John when Bethenny was 5 and they always had money and Bobby Frankel did pay child support.  Bobby and John both paid for Bethenny’s first wedding to Peter Sussman at the 4 Seasons in LA.

There is a video that was circulated back in season one that showed Bobby bringing Bethenny down the aisle at her first wedding. Bethenny constantly says she had not contact with him.

On Bobby Frankel’s memorial FB page there is a photo when Bobby won the Belmont in 2003 and Bethenny was smiling with him as he received the award.  It was only Bethenny and Bobby. She said she had no contact and that was the last big award he ever received.

Bethenny does not say it like it is.  Bethenny says it like she wants you to hear it. 

She wants you to connect with her as an audience.  It didn’t work out the first time because abrashive was not working. Now, abrashive with a story and a one of the people does work.

That her childhood wasn’t idealic that is likely true, but going to night clubs at 14 was not her mother’s fault it was Bethenny going there. FYI, that is why she was shipped to Pine Crest in Florida.

Comment by Sarah on 7/17/10 at 7:12 am

“All the folks with no life came out.  Is it a full moon and I’m unaware?  Just for information, no one has to watch the show and no one has to comment or screech on the blog…”

Well, right: No one has to comment or screech on the blog… including the blogger and the people who agree with her point of view.  I came across this blog by accident when I was searching google news for something else. I don’t follow this blog, nor do I troll the internet looking for people who don’t like Bethenny so I can yell at them. I am a fan of RHONY, and I also like Alex and Simon. But that doesn’t make me a part of any bizarre fandom clique, nor had I ever heard of Lynn Hudson before I started getting responses to my post here, nor do I mindlessly like or dislike anyone to the exclusion of all reason.  But the fact that I got a beat-down here for expressing a dissenting opinion doesn’t seem to me any different from the behavior you ascribe to this Lynn Hudson person and the people who apparently follow her around giving beat-downs to people who disagree with them.  No, I really don’t understand why someone would devote a blog to talking about things or people they don’t like. If you don’t like a TV show or the person around who that TV show is centered, why would you keep watching it?  Just to then write a blog talking about what a big waste of time it is?  How is that not an even bigger waste of time?  But if you’re going to write a blog and invite public opinion, I think you should at least be tolerant of opinions that differ from your own.  Frankly, if someone doesn’t agree with your thinking on a matter, screeching at them, insulting them, calling them names,and accusing them of some nefarious purpose isn’t going to change their minds. In fact, it’ll probably just send them off thinking you’re a bit nuts.

Comment by Patricia on 7/17/10 at 7:17 am

what’s mortifying is people like you who waste their time hating someone they dont even know and writing a 10 page blog about how they can’t stand someone. You’re just feeding in to the main goal of reality television, which is to get a reaction and get people talking. So congratulations, you’ve actually helped contribute towards Bethenny’s career. Seriously, get a life.

Comment by JaJa on 7/17/10 at 8:25 am

Patricia,
Cool you quoted me while looking for a life beyond searching the net, but I don’t write the blog, just commented.
I didn’t call names or any of the things you ascribe to me.

Yeah, maybe you should check little things like that before you call someone out on things while searching the net.

Comment by LC on 7/17/10 at 9:59 am

You guys should realize that the only reason this blogger is trashing Bethenny is to get more hits on her blog. The more she trashes Bethenny, the more her fans will come to this blog to defend her.

Pretty smart but a bit pathetic.

Comment by LR on 7/17/10 at 10:05 am

“Patricia,
Cool you quoted me while looking for a life beyond searching the net, but I don’t write the blog, just commented.
I didn’t call names or any of the things you ascribe to me.

Yeah, maybe you should check little things like that before you call someone out on things while searching the net.”

I’m sorry you assumed that my comments were directed at you, personally. I thought it was obvious that I was responding to several different posts I read, as well as addressing the overall tone of the board and the blogger. I used a quote from one of your posts as a jumping off point as it seemed to illustrate the contradictory and even hypocritical nature of the heated comments I was seeing. I have a life, thanks. If you want people to take you seriously, your best bet is not to presume you know anything about their personal life and insult them based on those presumptions. A well reasoned argument will always win out over mindless vitriole.

Comment by Patricia on 7/17/10 at 10:12 am

@ Radical - Send me the ink when you can.  I’m curious.

@ LC - Enjoy your day!

@ Patricia -  Where exactly did you get a beat down?  All comments are welcome here, and it’s nice that you stopped by.  Your comment however, makes no sense and I’m not sure what you are referring to.  I welcome the clarification.

@ JaJa - I’m not hating on anyone, that’s you.

@ LC - no clue what she’s talking about.

Thanks everyone.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/17/10 at 10:14 am

@JaJa Bethenny is a bloggers dream! Don’t you get it? She’s a train-wreck, and you bet it’s going to be talked about, written about, and typed about. The light at the end of the tunnel for Bethenny, IS that of an oncoming Train.

@ RadicalStar THANK YOU SO MUCH, RadicalStar! I will be damned if I hold back about my opinions on Bethenny. Also, all of you Brain-washed Bethenny Fans are getting really desperate and clinging to that same old tired, “It’s Jill, or It’s Kelly”, if you see an anti-Bethenny comment. IT’S OLD! CUT THE CRAP!!! Realize that everybody is not loving Bethenny. We see through her bullcrap. One day, you will too.

...and who the hell is “Lynn Hudson”? Somebody post me a link to her website.

Anyway, give it a rest with the “jealousy” argument, because other than money, there is nothing else appealing about Bethenny. Why do you think Jason is there in the first place? She has no parents, no family, an ugly face, a weird shaped body (I think she secretly has an eating disorder), that jawline is horrendous, has the most shrilling voice I have ever heard, must urinate in buckets to stay relevant, she’s a “cook”, not a “chef”, uses her baby as a prop to further her “skinny” career, and she’s been bitter most of her life. WHY ON EARTH WOULD WE BE “JEALOUS” OF THAT?

Comment by Lovely Lady In Texas on 7/17/10 at 10:17 am

@ LR - I’m not trashing Bethenny.  I’m simply sharing my opinion, and for some reason it has hit a nerve with a small group of crazy people.  Perhaps I will actually trash her for real, and then not post any comments.  That will make the crazy crazier which would be more entertaining than the mean spirited, trash that you all insist on posting on my blog. 

Thanks for reading.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/17/10 at 10:19 am

Patricia,

When you only quote one answer that was pretty mild, the author is going to tend to figure that the response was meant for them. 

College Writing 101 - address your audience….  you addressed me…

And what part of my responses was hypocritical?  None, I owned my responses that people were acting out just a bit…

And as a grown-up of ‘rough parenting’ I’m still responsible for my behavior not my parents.  BF should be also, as all of are…  You can’t let your family run your life forever and excuse yourself for not taking the responsibility for learning new behaviors….

I don’t see any part of this that was hypocritical? By the way since I am confused by your comment I’ll post the definition of:

hypocrite - a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives via Princeton.

Nope, doesn’t apply to me… but have a great day…

Comment by LC on 7/17/10 at 10:28 am

Llana, you nailed it. this girl is a pita, a caricature of a person, remember the “Whiners” on saturday night live.? she never says anything &  never shuts up.
if I wanted to be entertained by self centerness and guilt, I would go visit my mother.

Comment by Judy Katz on 7/17/10 at 11:31 am

Ilana,

These annoying, pathetic little cave dwellers will go after anyone who doesn’t love who they love and hate whomever they are hating for the moment. It could be Kelly…Teresa…but it is always Jill Zarin who they consider Super Jew…So they hate Jews too!

Love you’re a tough lady who can handle this deranged group…

Good Luck…don’t let these internet trolls get you down and thank you for posting a refreshing honest opinion.

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 11:55 am

Whoa I cant believe people actually talk so horrible about people!! I really like watching Bethenny’s show I think shes funny and real. And the whole comment about her freaking out over animal poop and comparing it to her baby?! ummmm I would rather clean my child’s poop over animal poop anyday!!  It wasnt even her animal jackass it was some wild reptile. She was in the middle of writing a book, planning a wedding, being 7 months pregnant and still working!! Who the hell wouldnt be a little stressed? And her mother probably isnt talking about her because she feels like an ass for the things her daughter had to go through as a child! I like her and her husband, I hope they have a great life together!

Comment by Megan on 7/17/10 at 12:29 pm

TO GE..
WE’RE ALL TALKING ABOUT THE SHOW, AND HOW SOME PEOPLE THINK THIS ONE’S A LIAR AND THAT ONE’S TWO FACED. IN GENERALITIES ONLY… WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SAY THAT BETHENNY IS UGLY?? YOUR COMMENTS WERE NOT VERY NICE. LIKE I SAID BEFORE.. IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY… ZIP IT.

Comment by emm on 7/17/10 at 1:15 pm

You seem to be pretty obsessed with Bethenny’s world or why write a blog?  If you are so mortified, then change the channel:)

Comment by EyeRoll on 7/17/10 at 1:42 pm

“@ LR - I’m not trashing Bethenny.  I’m simply sharing my opinion, and for some reason it has hit a nerve with a small group of crazy people.  Perhaps I will actually trash her for real, and then not post any comments.  That will make the crazy crazier which would be more entertaining than the mean spirited, trash that you all insist on posting on my blog.”

Ilana,
By ‘you all’ do you mean to include ME in the trash posting? After all, I’m simply sharing my opinion, and for some reason it hit a nerve with you.

Comment by LR on 7/17/10 at 2:07 pm

@ LR - Not at all.  Sorry if you took offense.  I’m fascinated by all the comments and when referring to the “crazy” people, it was directed to those who have resorted to name calling, attacking each other, and suggesting that my opinion is attributed to me being Jewish.  It’s all rather sad I think.  I wonder what Bethenny would think about all the comments.  They are much more brutal than anything I wrote in my blog.

Have a good weekend.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/17/10 at 2:37 pm

“Patricia - Where exactly did you get a beat down? All comments are welcome
here, and it’s nice that you stopped by. Your comment however, makes no
sense and I’m not sure what you are referring to. I welcome the
clarification.”

It’s hard to believe you’re serious with this. Go back and read some of the comments, including your own: “I’m simply sharing my opinion, and for some reason it has hit a nerve with a small group of crazy people.”  Not everyone who disagrees with you opinions is crazy, nor are the people who disagree with your method of expressing that opinion. After all, it’s one thing to say that you don’t think Bethenny is being genuine, or that you think she is mean or whiny or has any of a number of bad character traits that may or may not be true to whatever extent. But how do you justify saying stuff like, “She has no parents, no family, an ugly face, a weird shaped body (I think she secretly has an eating disorder), that jawline is horrendous, has the most shrilling voice I have ever heard”?  It’s one thing to ridicule or condemn the things people can control, but quite another matter when you start making fun of them for physical characteristics or other things beyond their control, especially the fact that they didn’t have a happy and loving home life growing up. You think saying stuff like that makes BETHENNY look bad?  I don’t know how many puppies and orphans Bethenny would have to kick to make her seem meaner than you do after making comments like that. I get that this is your blog, and I get that you’re entitled to say here whatever you like, though I’m very sorry it’s being done under the sponsorship of the Jewish Journal.  But that doesn’t mean that everyone will agree or like it, or even waste their time reading your blog more than once.  If I wanted to hang around with someone who thinks it’s cute to call other girls names and make fun of their looks or their body or their clothes or their families, I’d go back to 8th grade.  No thanks.

Comment by Patricia on 7/17/10 at 3:23 pm

Who are the crazy people who insist on posting in all caps. Anger management issues anyone?

No fan of anyone. I do appreciate an honest refreshing recap of a show I have viewed.

Did google lynn hudson. Read a few of her blogs with comments. These peeps are so sad.

They wish each other good night and good morning.

They fight over the last bottle of a pre mixed drink.

They think up drinking games.

They swarm together to write hate mail and post home addresses.

There are three kinds of posters on “fat, bleached blonde, drunken, ignore my family because when I am not writing and patrolling my website and not twittering hudson” they are crazy, crazier and craziest.

You all have documentation right here, right now on this blog.

Hi Fat Lynn…how was it robbing the cradle with your husband.

What do your kids do while you do nothing but obsess over your blog and it’s contents.

Feel sorry for you children and your school aged husband.

What number husband is that poor pathetic soul?

Oh, and sober up…

You and your drunken crazy posters.

I am amongst you.

Always have been.

You are such a pathetic group.

Comment by I am amongst you all RIGHT NOW! on 7/17/10 at 3:43 pm

Hi Ilana,

I agree with your assessment & IMO, “Boo! to Beth.”  I’ve been surprised that in your past blogs, you went back and forth about Beth on BGM. I guess you just have more patience than I because I started smellin’ stink on her a while back.  I think she’s pulled a Bernie-Maddoff-type-ponzi scheme on her audience starting back w/ her RHONY days – not with money per say, but with her original claim of ‘substance’ that she’s a uniquely hard working, self-made gal.  I’ve worked with her type & no doubt she’s had many, many opportunities and connections due to her father’s success. Those became stepping stones that gave her advantage and privilege so she should OWN IT, not be hypocritical and insinuate she’s somehow better and more deserving because she didn’t marry into money. Her type uses plenty of people to get what they want … taking money and business expertise … then just moving on to the next once those wells are dry. Like I said, I smell stink.

Good luck, there are def some bitter folks swooping in.

Comment by Madison Reese on 7/17/10 at 4:48 pm

Well, I never posted my take on the last episode. I just addressed where all the “hate comments” were coming from.

Any man who does not pay a penny towards his own wedding and takes a freebee honeymoon as long as his pregnant wife can be photographed naked in a pool, on a bed and wherever else she wants is a bottom feeder.

All the “hate” posters who have husbands who would allow that…Speak up now!

Jason is not looking so good in this light..is he?

If his parents from PA are not totally humiliated by what was available on national television, they are nothing but bottom feeding scavengers also.

What Man allows this?

Jason Hoppy does. The “perfect” husband…..give me a break.

Comment by RadicalStar on 7/17/10 at 5:15 pm

I worry that Jason has crossed over to the other side.  He seems to enjoy the trappings of celebrity, like the entry-level BMW convertible and cheap honeymoon suite.  He’s too easily impressed.

The skinny-dipping sequence was nothing but bad porn…gross.  Do you think she regrets the implants? 

I worry about Cookie being around the baby—that dog is really unstable.

Comment by Missy on 7/17/10 at 5:37 pm

Madison,

I have gone back and forth on Bethenny.  In my earlier blogs I really dug her and thought she was a breath of fresh air.  We actually have a lot in common and I respected her.  Things started to turn not because she became someone different, but because she was saying stuff about Jill and the other women that she was doing herself.  She said Jill would not do anything without the cameras on, but look at her now.  She rode the tailcoats of the housewives to fame and fortune and then became all the things she said she hated.  She seems to have forgotten that she was not a housewife when this started.  She was just a girl with a dream.  I find it hard to respect her now when she is such a hypocrite. 

As for the comments, WOW.  People are really mean spirited and full of hate.  That’s s shame.  I write about a lot of things and the housewives are such a small part of what this blog is, that to have this be what people focus on is funny and sad at the same time.

The most disheartening thing, is that if Bethenny were to see the comments I cannot image show would be proud of how her fans are behaving.  That said, if she has read it, and is not saying anything, then that speaks volumes about who she is as a person.

Either way, who cares?

Have a good weekend.

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/17/10 at 5:46 pm

Wow, Ilana, apparently you do not have a life. All you do is talk trash about people…and people you don’t even know. You must be a very lonely person.  If you don’t like the show, don’t watch it. I should have taken your warnng and not read this, I won’t make the same mistake twice. Now I hope YOUR 15 min. is up!

Comment by Nancy on 7/17/10 at 6:12 pm

I used to like your blog. But you are starting to sound a little bitter. If you hate the show so much, maybe you shouldn’t watch it? No?

You are certainly entitled to your opinion. But I watch the same show you watch, and I am having trouble understanding HOW you came to that opinion. The bitter tone you blogs have taken makes me wonder if you aren’t having personal problems at home.

Comment by Penny on 7/17/10 at 6:18 pm

I agree for the most part with the blog. Bethenny’s life has become boring & the only way to spice it up is with nudity - pregnant nudity at that. All her histrionics about the wedding were so many crocodile tears. She’s living the high life while most of us are scraping by. If you recall past history, Jason had a cow when she did the PETA shoot & was naked in front of a camera crew. When they were sitting in her apartment, he conspicuously pulled her robe tighter around her torso, if God forbid, it gaped. Now, EVERYBODY’S naked, B is even pissing in a bucket. All that’s left is for us to see them pooping or actually having sex. I’m sure there’s going to be LOTS of video of her nursing, and reams of tit jokes. This is all rather tiresome because most of her problems have been experienced by a few zillion women & they all managed to pull thru. Wish you luck Beth, but you’ve gotten very boring.

Comment by ausscyn on 7/17/10 at 6:34 pm

Poster(s), or rather Betheney(s) herself, love to think people are jealous of her. Here Betheney, please let us know what we are jealous of. Your not being able to afford furniture up to age of 37, or your getting into RHoNY by Jill, or ur not even making through Xrated B movies, even though you showed everything, or jealous of your father’s connection to get to get into reality shows, which with your repulsive personality turned people off and woudln’t make it, or jealous with your big jaw line, or your goatie fugly looking eyes, or your short neck, or maybe jealous of your fake boobs that look like they are poping into your mouth. Or perhaps we are jealous of your being nothing and a nobody. Or jealous of A book, that really you made nothing much out of; Bravo did most the promoting and earned most the money. A drink that’s not even served or heard of in NY let other cities, or maybe jealous of your hobby that no matter what you say or he pretends to be; is first class GAY, and wouldn’t spend a cent on you. Or maybe we are jealous of your having so much time going around internet with multipe usernames attacking people (so many of them) who dislike you. Or perhaps jealous of your lack of intelligent that you were nothing until you got into a reality tv through Jill, (which still made you a nobody, except a spiteful bitch who will attack anybody) even her own dead father to get some sympathy. So, Betheney, which one of your disgusting personalities are people jealous of you of?

Comment by GE on 7/17/10 at 8:53 pm

Bethy, don’t listen to these people, they are jelous of your beautiful big deformed fat jawline with google eyes. And all these people who are hating on you are either Jill, kelly, your Dad, your Mom.

Comment by Tammy Sue on 7/17/10 at 8:57 pm

Ilana, you’ve lost your wit and sensitivity and sound like an annoyer whiner you accuse Bethenny of being.  Could you not find one nice thing to say about the last 2 episodes?  I find her show sweet, funny, and touching. I love how she and Jason get along.  He stands up for himself when necessary, and nurtures her when she needs it in the sweetest way.  It’s clear to me that they complement each other and love each other. I’ve been rooting for Bethenny since day one, and I’m thrilled for her family.  No mention of Jason’s mother?  She’s adorable and sweet and adores Bethenny as does her husband. I’m sorry you can’t be happy for them all.

Comment by Lilybop on 7/17/10 at 9:05 pm

GE—ooops…I meant Jill

Why are you still envious of Bethenny. Let it go. She has her own successful show with a beautiful husband and new baby. It’s really sad that you have to behave like a child and resort to name calling because you were raised by wolves. Please stop being so jealous.  Its not very becoming and really shows you’re JILLOUSY

Comment by Viewer on 7/17/10 at 9:14 pm

Ilana,
I enjoy reading your blog, even when I disagree with you, because you are pretty fair. You’ve pretty much slammed all of the Housewives equally. I tend to like Bethenny, but she ain’t no angel and would probably be the first to say that if asked. I’ve seen plenty of cringeworthy moments from her, but she tends to own it when she screws up, which is pretty rare in the Real Housewives world.
That said, I’m glad you removed the comment based on all of the hearsay. There is an amazing amount of crap dished on these boards on all sides. While I’m sure that there are those who are saying that she is lying about her childhood, I do think there is a lot of truth in what she is saying based on a profile of Bobby Frankel that one of the racing journals published after he died that talked a lot about him and touched some on Bethenny’s childhood. (I’d look up the actual link, but not motivated enough honestly.) In short, he was a brilliant trainer who related a lot better to horses than people. What was interesting about the article was how it detailed the Bobby Frankel/John Parisella relationship. Apparently they were good friends who became bitter rivals and one aspect of the rivalry was John’s marriage to Bonnie/Bernadette and raising Bethenny. It made reference to how B. would be trotted out in the ring every time Parisella won and it was viewed as a slap to Frankel. Horse racing is a pretty high-rolling world, especially in the 70s, so I can’t imagine what it would be like growing up in that world. (One of them trained horses for Telly Savales and other starts.) It sounds like the parents would have made a more interesting show than any of this stuff on the Housewives or BGM. I also remember a reference Jeana Keough for RHOC mentioning on one of her blogs or somewhere that she knew Bethenny’s dad from her Playmate years, which would give some credence to the claim that Bobby’s world wasn’t the most wholesome either. I tend to buy this article because it has nothing to do with Bethenny or her publicist or anything else and it doesn’t exactly paint a picture of a happy home life as a child. Epic rivalries, alcohol and drugs don’t exactly scream stability. Is this relevant to Bethenny’s story? I do think so.
On the other hand, the naked scenes are getting old and she is, again by her own admission, flogging this for all it is worth to create her “brand” so to speak. I often wince at the stuff she says and does on camera, roll my eyes at times at the over the top look how perfect we are scenes (because nobody is that perfect) and think maybe they should all dial it back a bit. But I feel this way about all reality shows and at least I feel like Bethenny is more honest than most of the reality types about the whole reality show game and self-promotion and her personality flaws. She’s playing the game and makes no secrets or apologies about it. I believe that this is what makes her different from Jill especially.
The hateful nature of the comments on both sides are appalling. I don’t think Bethenny sees a lot of this because she has so much else going on right now, but can’t imagine that anyone who is a brand-conscious as she is would like to see this stuff posted on her behalf, so to speak.
And the person who blamed your dislike of Bethenny on being Jewish? Well, posting that on a site called the Jewish Journal site is beyond awful, but given the fact that I’m pretty sure that one of Bethenny’s parents is/was Jewish makes them a moron as well. Loser.
Thanks for expressing your opinion, Ilana. May not agree but speak your mind.

Comment by Really? on 7/17/10 at 9:48 pm

What the hell is with all the hate, blog responders????  If you disagree, do it respectfully.  If you’re so insulted, start a blog about how awesome you think Bethenny is and back off.  Honestly.  It’s an OPINION.  An OBSERVATION.  What is stomach-turning is the anti-semitism coming from some posters.  It is completely uncalled for and you are either a classified moron, brain damaged, or the world’s biggest @asshole for going to the JEWISH JOURNAL website and posting that garbage.  As for Ilana having no life, that please me to no end. No life means more time for coffee with people who love her, or taking care of her awesome son - who was raised by an equally awesome, smart, hardworking woman. Maybe hiking, or attending services and/or Shabbas with friends, or working on our non-blog related business,etc.  We should all be so pathetic as to have such a boring and useless existence.  I disclose that I am biased when it comes to the blogger, but please people.  Drop the hate and keep the faith.

Comment by Jennifer on 7/18/10 at 1:52 am

Thanks for reading everyone.  To all the haters, good luck with that.  To all the people who were kind, it is appreciated.  To the Jews who wrote to say anti-Semitism is not a big deal and so commonplace I should get used to it, shame on you.  To those who clearly hate Jews, you make me stronger.

Next week baby Bryn will be born and you can bet I’ll be watching, and I will write about it.  Why?  Because I can.

Keep The Faith

Ilana

Comment by Ilana Angel on 7/18/10 at 6:49 am

Thanks for your point-of-view. Like you, I want to like Bethanny, but it’s hard. I will admit I have not watched alot of her show, but the pieces I did was not entertaining. Rather it was painful, because I kept yelling at the TV…this girl is rude or self-absorbed.

Comment by Viewer on 7/18/10 at 3:08 pm

I agree, Betthany is a very selfish and obnoxious woman. Initially I liked her on the 1st season of Housewives, but as time went on—and the way she constantly attacked Kelly, I cannot stand her. She is loud mouthed,crass and a perpetual whiner. I don’t know what Jason sees in her—and she IS rude to him and at times to his parents. She is not a nice person and she should not be on TV anymore.

Comment by Joanna on 7/19/10 at 2:03 pm

Finally, its nice to see someone that feels the same way I do. I really hope her 15 minutes of fame end soon. The final straw for me was how she is bad mouthing the real housewives when she was just as much involved in all of the fighting and drama as the other girls. Plus, that show is the entire reason that she is doing so well now. Its sad. She’s trying to portray this “down to earth, real girl” persona that I can see right through. All she cares about is money, money, and more money. I bought her first book and found absolutely nothing useful out of it. Its advice anyone with a high school education should know. I hope she leaves the housewives show and it backfires on her and she slowly fades away into oblivion.

Comment by Angie on 7/19/10 at 4:16 pm

GE…YOUR TOOO TOOO MUCH…......
YOU TALK ABOUT EVERYONE WHO CAN’T STAND BETHENNY..HONEY THEY.. INCLUDUNG YOU,ARE NOT THE MAJORITY.MORE VIEWERS LIKE HER THAN HATE HER. AND WHY DON’T YOU SPEAK IN THE FIRST PERSON FROM NOW ON AND STOP INCLUDING YOUR SO CALLED ENTOURAGE. WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOUR OPINIONS.. DO THEY INCLUDE ANYTHING POSITIVE?? YOUR DESCRIPTION OF BETHENNY’S FACE WAS JUST TERRIBLE. WHAT ARE YOU 10??

Comment by emm on 7/20/10 at 9:49 am

ANGIE..
YOUR AS CRITICAL AND MEAN AS THE OTHERS. APPARENTLY YOU JUST LIVE JILL THE TWO FACED BACKSTABBING PHONY. JILL STATED THAT SHE HAS CHANGED..SHE DIDN’T CHANGE. SHE’S JUST KISSING BUTT UNTIL SHE GETS HER OWN WAY AGAIN.LIKE WHEN SHE SAID TO BETHENNY..AND OH I’D LIKE TO SEE YOUR NEW BABY.HYPOCRITE..  MAYBE BETHENNY’S LIFE GROWING UP WASN’T THE GREATEST, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?? SHE’S CONTENT RIGHT NOW.SHE’S AT PEACE WITH HER NEW LIFE AND FAMILY. LEAVE HER ALONE WILL YA??

Comment by EMM on 7/20/10 at 10:02 am

@EMM Seriously, EMM, it’s only a matter of time before the “MAJORITY” of the Bravo viewers start to “hate” Bethenny. She’s a train wreck, and definitely destined to self-destruct. Just look at her…How can she NOT? Everybody, including EMM, don’t think for one millisecond that Bethenny would ever defend any of you the way you all are defending her. Bethenny is ALL about Bethenny, and nobody else. She’s not even a good friend to Alex, so she most definitely doesn’t give a crap about you anonymous people. She used her, because she had nobody else to hang out with. What a WITCH!!!!!!!

Comment by Lovely Lady In Texas on 7/20/10 at 4:42 pm

Interesting blog and comments. I don’t usually read it - just Googled Bethenny (because at this moment I’m bored out of my mind) and this was one of the items.

Wow, Ilana, you really brought on the wrath of the diehard Bethenny Heads. I get everything you’re saying. I guess the difference for me is that I watch her purely for entertainment, knowing that the viewing public hardly gets anything real from reality TV. It’s no secret that it’s all an illusion motivated by whatever the star and producers think will boost ratings. Situations are staged, the subjects are prepped about how to bring in more viewers.

It’s her TV persona that appeals to me. I like the sharp wit, and her trash talk. It’s funny. And almost all reality TV stars go too far, show too much. On the other hand, another charismatic reality show star, the infamous Kate Gosselin, annoys the crap out of me. It’s like nails on a chalkboard for me to listen to that hot mess. But, of course, there are diehard Kate fans who think people like me are jealous, caddy bitches. And I definitely don’t think you’re a jealous caddy woman at all for taking aim at Bethenny - it’s part of your job. I totally respect your opinion as a social critic. People get so crazy over such trivial issues - my God it’s just a TV show.

You’re probably right about a lot of it. But when I watch her show, I temporarily buy the illusion. Because I find her entertaining. I can’t stand most cable shows. I only watch one on any regular basis. BGM is fun to watch during the summer doldrums. If she were on the same night as Breaking Bad, I’d skip her show in a heartbeat.

Comment by Carolina on 7/21/10 at 9:40 am

I have to say, I used to be a huge Bethenny fan - I still am really, I love her books and recipes - but the original Bethenny, from the first seasons of RHONYC was far beter. More authentic and just real. I was shocked and appauled to read an article this morning detailing Bethenny’s BLAST about Bravo potentially giving Bristol Palin a reality show - she replied that she didn’t “know what they are or who they are” so it wouldn’t make a good show.

Uh-oh Bethenny. NO ONE knew who you were or what you were when you first hopped onto RHONYC - you had a small business and weren’t even a housewife, BUT we still embraced you. We’re getting a wee bit high on our horse now, aren’t we?

I hope she takes it down a few notches so that we can start loving her again, right now her head is getting a bit too big for my tv and my liking.

Comment by TALGAL on 7/22/10 at 8:04 am

Joanna,
You are totally on point! “I agree, Betthany is a very selfish and obnoxious woman. Initially I liked her on the 1st season of Housewives, but as time went on—and the way she constantly attacked Kelly, I cannot stand her. She is loud mouthed,crass and a perpetual whiner. I don’t know what Jason sees in her—and she IS rude to him and at times to his parents. She is not a nice person and she should not be on TV anymore.”

Anyone that has nice things to say about Bethenney is obviously her fat fug publicist or Bethenney herself.
What Joanna said is reality!!!

Comment by Truth be told on 7/22/10 at 8:13 pm

Who cares about Bethenney Frankel? I am not any of the other housewives and I hate her.

Comment by crotchqueen on 7/22/10 at 9:33 pm

With all of Bethenney’s sophistication can’t she see that Jason is Gay?

Comment by dee on 7/23/10 at 9:38 am

I think there are a large amount of Bettheny “supporters” because they do not see beyond the obvious. Yes, Bettheny is witty, funny and smart and appears to be an honest gal who is a straight shooter just because she swears and is often vulgar. But the fact of the matter is that after seeing more of her on the show her personality starts to become exceedingly annoying and mean-spirited especially against Kelly. She seems out to really get this girl and plays up on the fact Kelly is not smart and has everyone thinking she is crazy.

But, back to my point, most people just see what they want and defend Bettheny’s behavior as refreshing. There is very little refreshing about her—she is a loud mouthed women who gets annoying pretty quickly. But, most Americans love people annoying people, not people of substance.

Comment by LuLu on 7/23/10 at 7:10 pm

Bethanny grew up extremely rich! Trust me, both her father and step father were MULTI MILLIONAIRES. How many of us could say that? she had a good uprbringing, i knew her family growing up. Her problem? She is one ungrateful spoiled little brat.

Comment by Anka on 7/24/10 at 10:30 am

Bethenny’s father was Jewish, and her mother converted to Judaism. I say this since people seemed to be wondering…

Comment by Dave on 7/24/10 at 12:36 pm

I tried watching this show because I heard this woman was funny.  She is a little bit funny, but she seems so desperate to be famous. Watching train wreck tv can be compelling, but I felt bad for her baby, to be thrust into this from her first day of life.  Right after her mother urinates in a bucket on TV.  What a sad life to bring a child into.

Comment by The Buzz on 7/26/10 at 2:53 pm

You express yourself well I.Angel I enjoyed your thoughts on the show and the personality behind it. I personally have not watched it as the commercials were enough. I get it. I once read a quote by the ex husband of a well known actress which said in essence, that if she could package and sell her own feces she would. She was very successful, a good business woman, but that was her personality. B. Frankel Hoppy struck me much the same. She will be successful, however I am not in line to buy her product. Again, well said. I look forward to reading more of your work.

Comment by Capiche on 7/29/10 at 6:41 pm

Okay you watched BGM, did not like, don’t watch it again, end of story!
Personally I love Bethenny, she lets us know she is a REAL person, who does things we do in our own life, calls a spade a spade, no phony girl at all, her ratings say it all. Bethenny you know your popular when you cause all this attention, otherwise no one would write in, enjoy your show so much~

Comment by Kat on 7/30/10 at 3:31 am

What is amazing is how B’s fans love how she “keeps it real” and says the $hittiest things to people, but are not able to take criticism of her.  It makes me think they really aren’t fans, but paid employees. 
The way B acts around that little Max is just pathetic.  Does she have to have EVERY man desire her?  Isn’t she content with her husband’s constant affirmations?  Or is that all for the show too?  People call it matri-phony, and I do believe that the relationship isn’t anywhere as deep and meaningful as they would want people to believe.  She doesn’t seem to want to share anything with her husband.

Comment by Catherine in Tulsa on 8/06/10 at 7:41 am

I love Bethenny , I think she’s a hoot! I can’t believe that so many of you out there get so seriously freaked out about a woman you do not nor will never know on a personal level. This is reality TV show people , meant to entertain, if you are not entertained by it don’t friggin watch it! Let us who enjoy the show for what it is a show about a young successful woman who has started a new life with the man she loves and now her new baby. I wish her and her family every happiness.

Comment by Cinnibear on 8/06/10 at 6:38 pm

“Satchel of Gold”, Batman, “Bethenny has knives for a tongue”. 

Right On Ilana!

Comment by TheTruthHurts on 8/16/10 at 8:25 pm

Dear Ms. “Angel”... Who the he** to u think u are for trashing Bethenny !!!!!!!!! U had NO RIGHT to even created this website!! U know it yourself as you said in your own words “If you don’t like her, then you shouldn’t read this”. WELL… I DID & I think it was VERY trashy !!! Karma is a bit** so what comes around goes around & I WISH u get it back 10 times over. I am doing my research on you and anything I come up with, YOU will get the SAME website about u !! Keep looking, any day now. Its not a threat… Its a promise

Comment by michele on 8/18/10 at 11:31 am

I was just informed by the webmaster of this site that my comment above was offensive and felt like it was presented as a “threat” or offensive and I needed to clarify this. well… He or She is right. I should clarify that i did not in any way “threat” Ms. Angel and that my “promise” to expose her was wrong. I am sorry and I can assure you that I will no longer post any comments in regards to Ms. Angels blogs nor expose myself to her work again.

Comment by michele on 8/18/10 at 1:58 pm

Betheny began to wear on me during the second season.  I was so displeased by the Betheny/Jill fued that I stop watching early in the 3rd season.  I watched part 1 of the reunion and did not go further.  I hope that Jill has moved on and no longer seeks any type of relationship with Bethney.  It’s not worth it.  Betheny like Kate Gossling is trying to build a career off of a reality show.  I don’t think either has talent and hope they both go away soon.

Comment by Cheryl on 8/18/10 at 4:14 pm

If I didn’t know better I would think this was written by Kelly.  But we all know Kelly can’t form a coherent thought so it must be someone else.  Jill, is that you?

Comment by Macie on 8/19/10 at 2:35 pm

FINALLY someone wrote what I have been feeling for soooooooooooooooooo long.  Bethenny is so consumed with Bethenny, theres no room for anyone else.  Her jokes, which came off a little funny in the NY Housewives, have become crass, undignified and just plain rude.  I cant stand her; especially watching her eat.  Shes always eating or drinking something.  THIS SHOW IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BORING ....... 

Plus ............  you can tell that Jason isnt into everythin shes doing.  He tries to keep his emotions in check when she does or says something abnormal, but you can see the intensity in his eyes.  I think he knows what we have known all along; that Bethenny is certifiably nuts.  And no im not attached to the show in any way ..........  Im just a normal person who calls out dysfuncion when I see it.

PS   WHAT about the show of her drinking beer while breast feeding.  I think child services should get involved for child abuse.  Seriously, the lady doesnt know how off center she is.

Comment by Terry on 8/21/10 at 11:51 am

Iliana ...........  YOU’RE SPOT ON.  I feel very bad for Jill who saw Bethenny for what she really is.  She just wasnt prepared to be taken on by a barracuda like Bethenny, but I think that will be her own un-doing.  I really cant see a man staying with someone like her.

Comment by Suzanne on 8/21/10 at 12:08 pm

I get the same vibe from Bethenny as I do from Danielle Staub, from New Jersey Housewives.  Scary.  Bethenny thinks she is being smart and witty, but her comments are increasingly getting nastier and more crass.  I think the only reason some people softened towards her was because Jason comes across as really nice, clean cut and from a good family.  Remember the old adage, you’re only as good as the man you’re with.  I think people saw her in a different light when she met Jason and decided to settle down.  However, there have been some things about her that I have seen that you have to admit are quite disturbing, to say the least.

Comment by Stuart on 8/21/10 at 12:22 pm

Come on! No one is prepared for first time parenthood. Why all the hate?

Comment by Lisa on 8/21/10 at 5:38 pm

Why is it that when someone bashes Bethenny, people start blogging that it must be Kelly,Luan or Jill.  Do they really believe that all of America likes this woman?  Some people are so naive.

Comment by Michelle on 8/22/10 at 1:34 am

I came across this the other day, and I think B hits every characteristic of the disease.  Especially in light of her actions towards Max.  This is just a summary:

Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking, including an excessive need for approval and inappropriate seductiveness, usually beginning in early adulthood. These individuals are lively, dramatic, enthusiastic, and flirtatious.

They may be inappropriately sexually provocative, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and be easily influenced by others. Associated features may include egocentrism, self-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, feelings that are easily hurt, and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs.

Comment by Catherine in Tulsa on 8/22/10 at 8:04 am

You warned us- I shouldn’t have read.

Comment by Laura on 8/22/10 at 6:22 pm

Very good Catherine.  I agree.  Now, Catherine, you must disclose your social security #, and indulge us with all your private information to assure everyone youre not luan, kelly or jill.  lol
Thats how silly this has gotten.

Some of the more intelligent ones have Bethenny’s # and are simply calling her out.

Comment by terry on 8/23/10 at 2:53 pm

Ran across this tonite. I find the blog very offensive. I think Bethany is very real. The fact that you find her nudity a problem is your personal problem. She obviously has no problem with it. As someone who has been caught out having to go, when you really have to urinate, you don’t care who is watching. Much less being pregnant, no close bathroom, stuck in a wedding dress. It was hilarious. She has issues. WHo doesn’t. The fact that she was willing to show us some of her sessions, shows that she is committed to being as mentally healthy as possible for herself and for her relationships with those she loves. I think its very brave. Anyway, that’s just my 2 cents.
Peace

Comment by Donna on 8/23/10 at 8:29 pm

to Donna>  what we are saying is that we don’t find her real at all.  We find her entire life to be scripted to whatever she thinks would make good TV.  And because it is all so obviously for the camera, it isn’t even funny.  But even with the fakeness, if she just kept her mouth shut and didn’t trash everyone, then you could just see her as pathetic and feel sorry for her.
But anyone who’s been in therapy and really wants to get the work done, can see she isn’t there for that reason.  She does have serious issues, and it’s a shame she hasn’t got her act together before she subjects an innocent child to it.

Comment by Catherine in Tulsa on 8/25/10 at 6:47 am

I like you Betheny, but please! your language is terrible! Let me tell you as a mother, dont let your child grow up listening to that horrible language. I have teenagers and we cant watch your show because i am embarrased about your language and some of your topics! BE A LADY and we will respect you again!

Comment by joy on 8/26/10 at 10:33 am

Bethany, i liked you on houswives, i dont think you were so vulgar! What happened, you are a lady why do have to use such terrible language and have dirty topics, families are watching you, and it looks like you dont respect your family, at least have respect for everyone watching if you want to get anywhere with this show! I feel sorry for Jason, to be embarrassed by a foul mouthed woman! Poor little Bryn, her innocent years have to hear such rubish from her mother! We loved you Bethany, be yourself not some drunken sailor!

Comment by joy on 8/26/10 at 10:37 am

Bethenny has been entertaining to watch, have to say that!!! However, Jason’s parent’s seem genuinly sweet/caring and are probably having a hard time digesting this reality TV lifestyle and her verbage, Jason is a big boy and personally who would not love Bravo paying for your wedding, honeymoon and all the other perks, plus he is in love w/Bethenny that is plain to see, her quick one liners and foul remarks, well she never hid this from Jason, now did she?  Has any woman caused such a ruckus whether it positive or negative, I don’t think so.

Comment by Kat on 9/01/10 at 5:48 am

Reality shows are a waste of time.  They are fake people making fools out of themselves for money.  How sad our society has gotten so broken that women
have to live their lives through psycho women trying to make their lives over
the top when really they aren’t.  Read a good book “the purpose driven life” or
actually get involved in your own life., it’s probably far more interesting . Life is too short to waste it on watching
garbage,  Garbage in garage out.

Comment by Cheryl on 9/06/10 at 9:00 am

See the problem is that there are loads of women in this country who need someone to guide them, tell them what to like, wear, say, etc. these are the same unfortunates who made Oprah a billionaire. That’s why these shows work and the networks know it. Problem is these people can’t realize they’re being duped. So when you insult Bethenny you are bursting these peoples’ bubbles. They need to like Bethenny so she can continue to guide their lives. Many people are just as ascerbic and insulting so they don’t see a problem. Look, my story would make her’s sound like a fairy tale as would many others’. This woman knows exactly what she is doing and when she fades away there will be another, you can count on it.

Comment by rudiment26 on 10/06/10 at 9:43 am

Ms. Ilana Angel: Whether I agree with you or not, I enjoyed reading your post. However, I can say a couple of things about how Bethenny behaves regarding the past she claims to have experienced since I (like many others) spent my precious childhood NOT knowing what it feels like to really BE a child. As an adult, I enjoy married life to a wonderful man who tries to fill my heart with that love I missed as a little girl, but no one can ever completely replace such a loss. I feel for Bethenny IF what she says is true about her childhood! BUT, I have more than a few doubts about the veracity of at least the degree of what she claims. As a mental health registered nurse, I witness shattered lives on a regular basis, many which are the result of such lost childhood and missing love connections with the people who help to shape us into who we are to become.

Here’s the problem I seem to have with Bethenny’s ramblings: For the most part, these are things that adults who come from such backgrounds would much rather keep quiet, forever hoping they will change . . . and that there will be a “happy ending” for them after all. These are the kinds of things we would quickly put behind us even at the slightest glimmer of hope.  We miss most what we’ve never had and are usually very cautious about sharing those most painful and deep-seeded injuries to our soul.

Bethenny seems to crave attention and wants others to be quick to forgive her, but she also appears hardened and slow to do the same.

Comment by agape on 1/03/11 at 4:20 pm

I’m late in commenting but THANK YOU for this article which tells it like it is…Bethenny is VILE. I’m glad others see her for what she is, so many seem to worship her and I can’t imagine why!

Comment by Gina on 2/27/11 at 9:21 pm

bethenny frankel is a mental case i am not a doctor but i think she needs medication lots of it i have never seen a more judgemental narcissist egotistical rude!!!!!! camera hog in my life i still can’t believe she has a kid thank god for her husband he seems to be ok I I I I ME ME ME ME VERY SELFISH she pays for a shrink and tries to tell him what to do i hope shegets help please

Comment by james on 3/17/11 at 12:22 pm

Wow, this blog is crazy, I love Bethenny b/c she is so honest, Jason fell in love with her for who she is and I love the way he loves her. Being complimented every second of every day while your pregnant isn’t all it’s cracked up to be b/c you know how awful or uncomfortable you look and feel, and you know the person is just trying to make you feel better. Is Bethenny a bitch? yes, but I love that about her, you don’t get to where she is by being a push over, you get things done and let your feelings out b/c you get what you want/need. If you don’t like her so much don’t watch her….duh!

Comment by Sandra Pena on 3/18/11 at 6:39 am

This woman is a crack head poseur who is not qualified to be dispensing advice on diet and nutrition to American consumers. She is engaged in a barren hustle, co-opting the ideas of others for her own personal profit. The woman is a fraud.

Comment by Christopher London on 3/19/11 at 12:22 am

another nobody making $ off reality show. You won’t remember her after a couple years - she’ll slither back into her hole in the ground. Its funny with all the make up and designer clothes she’s still very ugly. That voice is so annoying.Her claim to fame is being on a housewives flavor of the month.  must say there are so many beautiful housewives in NYC and they pick thes bunch of trolls. What a put down for what NYC is known for - one was uglier and more annoying then the next.

Comment by Ira on 3/23/11 at 3:55 am

Jill, is that you?  Bethenny makes no bones about trying to be a success in life and taking the venues needed to succeed.  She has tried and failed.  This is working for her…so you go with it.  She at least is “working it.”  Jilly baby just seems to scream BAWBY to get what she wants.

Comment by Bethenny Fan on 3/29/11 at 4:27 am

I tend to read between the lines as you have and sometimes see what others don’t or refuse to see.  Although I fins some of the things she says very funny…I too question the alternate reality she may he seems to only like people around her that see it her way or give in to her having her own so as to abort another temper tantrum or mental breakdown.  Nothing about my childhood was perfect and I mean nothing, but for crying out loud..I did have to grow up and take responsibility for myself and my actions.  When does this happen for her???  At 60…and no offense to her counselor, but as long as your willing to keep showing up for appointments AND PAYING, they’ll keep listening and agreeing.  I’ve seene her behavior first hand…she uses people to get what she wants and as soon as you disagree with her or cross her, she disposes of you like yesterdays trash. Mark my words…maybe not this year, but eventually you will see the real Bethany in full-color if you haven’t already!

Comment by Shari on 4/26/11 at 2:25 pm

The coctail is the worst I have ever tasted, and Betheny’s ugly face makes me not want to ever drink a margarita ever again!  I wish she would just go away, I am sick of watching her and her therapist work out her childhood.  Jason deserves better, can’t you see she’s a nut case and has NO family values, low class.

Comment by Sis on 5/14/11 at 10:13 pm

I still hate Bethenny.  I can’t believe this woman is famous.  For what?  She has no actual talent.  Sheesh, at least the other “Real Housewives” do.  All she is good at is insulting people, and bitching and moaning, and in general acting completely VILE.  Can’t stand her!

Comment by Still hate Bethenny on 8/23/11 at 7:37 pm

Why is it that everytime we call Betheny out on her behavior we have to be a Jill fan? Look at this post. https://ihatebethennyfrankel.wordpress.com/2011/08/28/hypocritbethennyfrankel/

Comment by Just Me on 8/27/11 at 5:59 pm

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