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February 28, 2011 | 3:09 pm RSS

Checklist for a Faithful Mormon Wife

Posted by Mark Paredes

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“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24
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Wife-hunting is not easy for anyone, but it’s even harder for religious Jews and Mormons. In addition to finding a woman who’s cute and laughs at our jokes, we also have to find out whether – and to what extent—she observes the Sabbath and keep the dietary laws (Word of Wisdom for Mormons). Alas, there’s no spiritual compatibility checklist, so all we can do is create our own – and pray.

I’ve been asking (and answering) lots of questions recently in the process of getting to know a certain LDS young woman, and it’s wonderful to see that we’re both looking for the same qualities in a mate. I met Florina in Bucharest, Romania last fall during a speaking tour of Europe to promote LDS-Jewish relations. She came up to me afterwards to compliment me on my Romanian, I complimented her on her beauty, and we took a few pictures. I had to leave for Moldova the next day and didn’t have time to spend with her, but I thought of Florina often in the weeks and months that followed. It turns out that I somehow made a lasting impression on her as well (proof that miracles still happen), and we recently reconnected on Skype. If things continue to go as well as they have, I may be visiting Romania again later this year.

What does a religious Mormon look for in a prospective wife? Here is the mental checklist I reviewed during my first few conversations with Florina:

1) Missionary service. It’s not expected of women, but I’ve always thought of it as an added plus. In Florina’s case, she gets major bonus points. She converted to the LDS Church seven years ago at age 23, past the age (21) when most women leave on their missions. Nevertheless, she served a 6-week “mini” mission in Arad, Romania, then spent 18 months as a full-time missionary in Russia. As a result, she is trilingual (Romanian, English, Russian).


2) Callings. We have a lay ministry, and every member is called to serve in the church. The specific calling is not important, but the person’s willingness to accept one is. In Florina’s case, she teaches the weekly Family Home Evening (FHE) lesson to other singles living in Bucharest. [There is no Jewish equivalent to FHE; in this case it would be similar to a weekly social gathering of Hillel students]. She and I now plan to conduct weekly FHEs via Skype every Monday just for the two of us.


3) Love of children and family. Florina currently teaches science classes at an international school in Bucharest and loves children. One of her first serious questions for me was whether I wanted to have a family. She wants five kids, and I want at least two. Based on my observation of married friends, this means we’ll have five kids if we do get married.


4) Her criteria for a husband. Florina is looking for someone who is kind, loves the church, honors his priesthood by keeping God’s commandments, accepts callings to serve in the church, and is enthusiastic about starting a family. [I think she also mentioned something about liking tall, dark, handsome men, but I’ll have to check on that]. I don’t know how well I measure up, but her list sure gives me something to strive for. It also shows that she is a serious person who is looking for a serious person to settle down with.


Whether you’re a Jewish guy looking for a committed Jewish girl in one of several movements, or a Mormon guy looking for a faithful Mormon girl in one church, you have to ask (and answer) more questions than the average guy during the courtship process. I have no problem with this. After all, if you’re looking for someone willing to commit to be your wife for eternity, you should count your blessings that her list isn’t a mile long. My fingers are crossed.

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My podcast interview on LDS-Jewish relations is available on the LDS Church’s official radio station: http://feeds.lds.org/WhyIBelieve

Today the Mormon Times published an article by Trent Toone featuring two bloggers on LDS-Jewish relations

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

Thousand Oaks Stake Director of Public Affairs Larry Bagby and I will be making a presentation on LDS beliefs at Adat Elohim on March 16 @ 7:30 p.m.

I will be speaking at the San Antonio (TX) West Stake’s Education Weekend on April 15 and 16

 


Mark Paredes has worked in Los Angeles for the Consulate General of Israel, American Jewish Congress and ZOA. You can contact Mark at deverareligione@yahoo.com and follow him on Twitter @jewsandmormons.

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February 24, 2011 | 1:35 pm

Mormons and Jews Celebrate the Sabbath Across America and Canada—March 4, 2011

Posted by Mark Paredes

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“And he commanded them that they should observe the sabbath day, and keep it holy, and also every day they should give thanks to the Lord their God.” – Mosiah 18:23 [Book of Mormon]

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Many thanks to fellow LDS-Jewish blogger Christa Woodall for reminding me of the upcoming Shabbat Across America, the annual promotion of Sabbath observance sponsored by the National Jewish Outreach Program (NJOP). On Friday, March 4, tens of thousands of Jews will usher in the Sabbath together with worship, food, and friendship in synagogues and homes throughout the country. I have written before about the importance of the Sabbath day in both the Jewish and Mormon traditions, and can’t think of a better opportunity to promote friendship between our peoples.

To my Jewish readers: please invite an LDS friend or family to accompany you to Sabbath services and to dinner if possible. This is a wonderful opportunity to show them how meaningful Jewish traditions are to you and your family. If you have children, your Mormon friends will have an opportunity to experience a very spiritual moment when you bless them at the table.

To my Mormon readers: if you don’t have a Jewish friend to accompany to services, consult the NJOP’s website to see which area congregations are participating in the program. If you would like to experience a Sabbath dinner, call the synagogue. Often there are families that volunteer to host out-of-town visitors for Sabbath meals, and they may have room for you.  Be sure to arrive in time to see the children blessed. You may want to reciprocate by inviting your Jewish friend to a Monday evening Family Home Evening. 


If you participate in the program next week, please let me know how it went. I’d be glad to publish some of the responses. Shabbat shalom.

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My podcast interview on LDS-Jewish relations is available on the LDS Church’s official radio station: http://feeds.lds.org/WhyIBelieve

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

Thousand Oaks Stake Director of Public Affairs Larry Bagby and I will be making a presentation on LDS beliefs at Adat Elohim on March 16 @ 7:30 p.m.

I will be speaking at the San Antonio (TX) West Stake’s Education Weekend on April 15 and 16. 

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February 20, 2011 | 11:30 pm

How to Make Liberal Judaism Relevant? Ask a Mormon

Posted by Mark Paredes

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“And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice.” – 1 Kings 19:9-12
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While perusing the findings of the 2011 Yearbook of American and Canadian Churches published by the National Council of Churches (NCC), I couldn’t help but notice that all of the denominations that were listed as “growing”  – Latter-day Saints, Catholics, Seventh-day Adventists, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Pentecostals – were not members of the ecumenical NCC. However, almost all of those with declining membership figures were mainline Protestant members of the NCC, including Presbyterians, Methodists, and Episcopalians. Coincidentally, I also happened to read an article in the Forward newspaper that documented the decline of the Reform and Conservative movements in Judaism (i.e., the Jewish equivalents of liberal Protestants), which are “struggling for relevance and funding.” As a member of one of the fastest-growing faiths who wishes to see more Jews become active in their communities, I humbly offer several suggestions for making liberal Judaism more relevant and meaningful to people who are voting with their feet to abandon organized Judaism.

Not long ago I ran into one of the most well-known figures in the LA Jewish community, a man who is probably on a first-name basis with every major community leader and rabbi. I told him that I had visited many synagogues, but had yet to find one with a spiritual service. Where, I asked, could I find a rabbi who brought the spirit of God into the worship service? “When you find one, please let me know,” he replied, adding that he had been on a similar quest for many years. 

I am occasionally asked what the essence of Mormonism is. I always answer that it is the “still small voice” that came to Elijah on the mountain. While Mormons appreciate articulate, learned speakers, the most popular speakers and teachers in the LDS community are those who are able to touch people spiritually while informing them. Everything that we do in our worship is designed to invite the spirit of God to accompany us. Spirituality is certainly not foreign to Judaism: I have been touched on several occasions while witnessing the blessing of children at the Sabbath table, and am moved by events like the Moses-Aaron Cooperative for autistic Jewish teens. However, I have not yet been to a synagogue where I can expect to have my spirit touched on a regular basis. Elijah’s still small voice is unique and inimitable, and has the power to inspire people and to change their lives in a way that only God can. If synagogue members were able to be spiritually inspired on a weekly basis by their services, they would flock to them. Lectures, symposia, and social events are wonderful, but they cannot take the place of true spirituality in worship. 

Here a word must be said about preaching (usually liberal) politics from the pulpit in the “prophetic tradition.” When LDS prophets speak, millions of people hear what they have to say. Almost all of their talks deal with how to become closer to God and to others, and they do not preach politics from the pulpit (though they do preach morality). Result: our church continues to grow throughout the world. By way of contrast, I have never been inspired by hearing politics preached from the bimah. Political rabbis do not believe that they are prophets, yet they claim to be speaking in the tradition of Moses, Isaiah and Ezekiel. Result: the movements whose rabbis do this are shrinking. Could the substitution of politics for spirituality be turning a lot of people off? 

The lay-run LDS Church expects its members to contribute time, money, and effort to their congregations. Active Mormons pay tithing and are called to serve in various volunteer capacities, some of which require substantial time commitments. Most devout Mormon men (and an increasing number of women) spend two years giving service around the world. Synagogue members, on the other hand, are not usually expected to give more than a membership check (though there are often many opportunities to volunteer). Congregations need to make a greater effort to draw upon the considerable talents of their members in a way that makes them feel both needed and wanted as Jews. One way to do this is to ask every member who joins to commit an appropriate level of time and means to build the synagogue community. Simply writing a check should not be enough.

Finally, I continue to believe that Jews should actively seek converts. There’s no need for them to put on tags and knock on doors, but they should try to show non-Jews why they should be Jewish. In order for Jews to do this, they would have to study their faith and learn to teach it to others [Reform Chabad, anyone?].  I’ve heard many arguments against Jewish proselytizing, but they all fail to answer this question: if being Jewish is so great, then why shouldn’t others become Jewish? I believe that the world would be a better place with more Jews in it, and I’m sure that many people would be receptive to overtures by committed and knowledgeable Jews. After all, a recent poll showed that Jews are the most popular religious group in the country. I’m betting that if Jews saw their leaders advocating for conversion to Judaism in the public square, more of them would want to support their community.

Of course, one could also suggest that liberal Jews become more Orthodox, at least in the sense of adopting a more clearly defined set of beliefs (another characteristic of LDS Christianity) and greater expectations of their members. In my experience, Orthodox rabbis are also less likely to preach politics from the pulpit. Result: the Orthodox movement is growing, not shrinking. Whatever practices they may choose to adopt, it is my hope that the liberal movements will learn from others’ success, find a way to stay relevant, and perhaps pick up some converts in the process.         
       
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My podcast interview on LDS-Jewish relations is available on the LDS Church’s official radio station: http://feeds.lds.org/WhyIBelieve

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

Thousand Oaks Stake Director of Public Affairs Larry Bagby and I will be making a presentation on LDS beliefs at Adat Elohim on March 16 @ 7:30 p.m.

I will be speaking at the San Antonio (TX) West Stake’s Education Weekend on April 15 and 16. 

Regular readers will note that comments from anti-Mormon bigots have been deleted from this site. I figure that if they have something to say to Jews, they can get their own blog.

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February 17, 2011 | 2:56 pm

On This We Can Agree: 3 Rabbis, an Apostle, and a Prime Minister on Tolerance

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“Derech Eretz Kadma L’Torah” [Good character comes before Torah] – Orthodox Rabbi Elazar Muskin

“I am here to contend for religious freedom.” – Elder Dallin H. Oaks


“It is therefore our job at this moment to reach out ... to show that respect and equality between people of all faiths and none, is a purpose shared. This change can be managed over time and with care, but come it must.” – Former British PM Tony Blair

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Tolerance for diverse religious and political views was the theme of presentations made this month by several rabbis, an LDS apostle, and a former prime minister. This is clearly a topic that preoccupies serious thinkers in many faith communities, many of whom are using their prophetic voice to encourage more civility and decency in the public square. While the presentations did not address identical topics, it was heartening to see Jewish, Mormon and Catholic leaders speak out on an issue that transcends theological and political boundaries.

This week the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles hosted a timely interdenominational panel discussion on how to hold civil conversations on Israel-related topics. Three prominent rabbis shared their views on respect, civility and decency, and moderator Frank Luntz encouraged audience participation throughout the event. When asked whether there was ever an excuse for rude and intolerant behavior towards speakers with whom one may disagree, Orthodox Rabbi Elazar Muskin was quick to quote the sages’ statement on civility and good manners (“Derech Eretz Kadma L’Torah”). He added that the Hebrew word for “obey” means “to observe,” and said that the most important thing a Jew can do is to listen (“shma”). Reform Rabbi Laura Geller read from Yehuda Amichai’s poem “The Place Where We Are Right,” and Conservative Rabbi Ed Feinstein noted his refusal to bring politics to the pulpit, explaining that legitimate debate should involve dialogues, not monologues from the bimah. 

The Chapman University School of Law’s auditorium was the decorous setting for LDS Apostle Dallin H. Oaks’ latest speech on religious liberty, a topic that has interested the former Utah Supreme Court justice and University of Chicago law professor for over two decades. Elder Oaks quoted leaders from diverse faith traditions to make his case that “religious teachings and religious organizations are valuable and important to our free society and therefore deserving of special legal protection.” After acknowledging the inherent tension in a free society between legitimate government regulatory responsibilities and the free exercise of religion, Elder Oaks made the case for granting special guarantees – a “preferred status”—to religion. He also made a distinction between the freedom to worship and the free exercise of religion: while no one is currently barred from entering a house of worship in the United States, it is equally important that no one be denied the right to express his religious views in the public square (or in some cases from his own pulpit).

In a keynote speech at the Tecnológico de Monterrey University in Mexico earlier this week, former British Prime Minister Tony Blair called for religious awareness and tolerance in Europe and the Middle East. In 2008 the Catholic statesman founded The Tony Blair Faith Foundation, whose mission statement could easily be supported by the rabbis and Elder Oaks: “to promote respect, friendship and understanding between the major religious faiths, and to make the case for faith itself as relevant, and a force for good in the world.” Declaring “Everywhere you look today religion matters,” Mr. Blair emphasized the need for governments and societies to engage in dialogue and meaningful social and cultural exchange with people of other faiths and cultures, especially with Muslims in Europe and the Middle East. The foundation is partnering with the university’s Faith and Globalization Initiative, which seeks to understand how faith motivates people and analyze the impact of religion on the modern world.


I attended both the panel discussion and Elder Oaks’ speech, and noted the presence of prominent thinkers and donors at both events. Clearly the current state of civil discourse in our society leaves much to be desired, and it is heartening to see this topic addressed by an increasing number of faith leaders. When we show intolerance of others’ political or religious beliefs, we show a lack of good character and civility. On this we should all agree. 

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I will be speaking at the San Antonio (TX) West Stake’s Education Weekend on April 15 and 16.   

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

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February 14, 2011 | 2:08 am

Mormon Q&A for Upcoming Presidential Election, part II

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e ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.” – 1 Peter 3:15
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With two Mormons preparing to launch presidential campaigns and an irreverent Book of Mormon musical set to hit Broadway next month, interest in the LDS Church is bound to increase in the near future. I firmly believe that Latter-day Saints need to define our beliefs before others with hostile agendas attempt to do so. This is the second in a series of blog posts that represent my efforts to clarify what Mormons really believe. It is not important that others agree with these beliefs; this is not a proselytizing blog, and for me clarity trumps agreement. I know that Jews prize truthfulness and candor, and it is in that spirit that I have prepared the following answers. The responses are not meant to be comprehensive, and can’t take the place of conversations with well-informed LDS friends. Rather, they are concise, doctrinally accurate answers that can easily be shared with people seeking more information about Mormons’ beliefs. All of the questions have been sent to me in the last few months.

Q: Do Mormons believe that they’re Jews?

A: No, but they do believe that they’re modern-day Israelites. Genesis records that the Torah and the Law of Moses were given anciently to the entire House of Israel at Sinai; 10 of the 12 Israelite tribes were later lost to history. For us there are two gatherings of Israelites going on in these latter days: 1) the physical gathering of millions of Jews to Israel (and, I would argue, the United States), which was made possible by the dedication of the Land of Israel for the gathering of the Jewish people by LDS Apostle Orson Hyde on the Mount of Olives in 1841; 2) the spiritual gathering of the rest of the Israelite tribes, beginning with Ephraim, the birthright tribe (we agree with the prophet Jeremiah that Ephraim became the birthright tribe in Israel following firstborn son Reuben’s sexual transgression - Jer. 31:9). Today the church calls men to be patriarchs, whose sole duty is to give members blessings declaring the Israelite tribe in which they will receive their spiritual inheritance. This tribal designation may or may not represent a member’s literal bloodline, just as Jewish converts can be adopted into the “tribe.” Not surprisingly, most church members, at least in North America, have been identified as Ephraimites, members of the tribe that initiated the latter-day spiritual gathering of Israel.

To recap, previously-scattered Israelites are being gathered once again in the latter days. Mormons believe that they are modern-day Israelites who are bringing to pass the spiritual gathering of Israel beginning with Ephraim, the birthright Israelite tribe. Jews are being physically gathered to Israel and, in my view, to the United States as well. Here it must be noted that some Mormons are identified by patriarchs as members of the tribe of Judah, and may choose to identify themselves as “Jews.” In my opinion, this creates confusion and should be avoided. Contemporary Jews do not accept Jesus Christ as the Savior and do not believe in modern temples, prophets, or priesthood, which are all basic LDS beliefs. However, the debate over whether a believing Christian can identify herself as a Jew is not one I care to join.

Q: Do Mormons believe that Jews will go to hell for not believing in Jesus?

A: Nope. Truth be told, we don’t even believe in the traditional concept of hell as a place of endless torment. In our theology, almost everyone will be rewarded to some degree in the afterlife. While we do believe that in order to live again in God’s presence it is necessary to accept the Gospel of Jesus Christ, death is not the finish line for us. Most people who have lived on earth have not had a chance to accept the gospel, and we believe that they will have a chance to do so in the next life. We also believe that every child of God will be rewarded for the good that he has done while on earth. Finally, we believe that the judgment of souls is God’s prerogative, not ours. Everyone on earth, including Jews and Mormons, will have a chance to accept or reject God’s truth at some point before the Final Judgment, which will be administered by God. It is my firm belief that all lovers of truth, regardless of religious affiliation in this life, will have little to fear in the next. Mormons are interested in teaching our truths to the world. We are not interested in judging it.

Q: Do Mormons wear sacred undergarments?

A: Yes. Adult Mormons who visit an LDS temple for the first time in order to make sacred covenants with God are given a temple “garment” and instructed to wear it day and night for the rest of their lives. [Replacement garments are available, and most members have many pairs]. The garment represents the covenants made in the temple, serves as a symbol of modest dress and living, and provides spiritual and physical protection to the wearer. Comparisons are often made to the Jewish tallit katan with tzitzit, which can be worn by Orthodox Jews over or under their clothes to remind them of God’s commandments. Mormons also are reminded of the garments worn by Aaron and the Israelite priests (Exodus chapter 28).     

Due to the sacred nature of garments, discretion should be used when attempting to discuss them with an LDS friend.

Q: Do Mormons believe that they can become gods and goddesses in the afterlife?

A: Yes, B’Ezrat Hashem (with God’s help). For me, “exaltation” is the most beautiful and elegant teaching of our theology, and I wish that more people were aware of it. The Mormon ideal is for a man and woman to marry in an LDS temple, where they are “sealed” together forever by the power of the priesthood. If they live righteously, through God’s grace they will be allowed to live in His presence in the next life and continue to learn and progress until they create an eternal spirit family and worlds of their own (which we believe is one of the promises that was made to Abraham). I can’t express it better than the church’s authoritative “Gospel Doctrine” Sunday School manual: “Exaltation is eternal life, the kind of life God lives. He lives in great glory. He is perfect. He possesses all knowledge and all wisdom. He is the Father of spirit children. He is a creator. We can become like our Heavenly Father. This is exaltation…Exaltation is the greatest gift that Heavenly Father can give His children.” Of course, becoming like God does not mean that we can ever take His place, any more than a son replaces his father when he has his own children.       

Mormons believe in working hard in this life and the next: for those who ultimately make the cut for exaltation, many eons of learning undoubtedly await. On a personal note, I am inspired more by thoughts of eternal progression than by dreams of eternal rest. Thanks to a remarkable spiritual experience in Petra, Jordan, I do know without any doubt that we live after we die. When my soul continues its journey in the next life, I want to continue to live with my family members and to learn, to work, to create, and to love forever. I am neither a harpist nor a singer, and have no desire to be either one in the eternities. The LDS belief in exaltation is a tremendously inspiring one for many members, including me, even though in all honesty we cannot begin to comprehend it.

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I will be speaking at the San Antonio (TX) West Stake’s Education Weekend on April 15 and 16.     

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

 

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February 10, 2011 | 11:11 pm

Mormon Q&A for the Upcoming Presidential Election

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“Don’t Mormons believe that Jesus and the devil are brothers?” – Southern Baptist preacher (and presidential candidate) Mike Huckabee, 2007
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It looks increasingly likely that there will be two serious Mormon candidates (Mitt Romney and former Utah governor Jon Huntsman, Jr.) running for president this year. One hopes that they will do a better job handling the religion issue than Mitt did in 2008. If past campaigns with LDS candidates are any guide, we can expect to see theological cheap shots like Mike Huckabee’s being taken by other campaigns, political pundits, and journalists.  It is unlikely that substantive answers to questions about Mormonism will be provided by either campaign, so in the interest of providing accurate information to my Jewish readers, I’ve attempted to answer questions about LDS theology posed by public figures and followers of my blog. As Jews know from painful experience, if a religious group doesn’t define its own beliefs, other people with different agendas are more than happy to do so.

Q: So was Huckabee right? Do Mormons believe that Jesus and Satan are brothers?

A: His disingenuous question was akin to saying “Don’t Jews believe in mutilating 8-day-old boys?” The answer is yes, but an explanation is necessary. We believe that every human being lived in heaven with our Heavenly Parents before coming to earth. Mormons believe that we are all literally spirit brothers and sisters. The most noble of God’s children was Jesus, while the blackest sheep was Satan, who defied God (his Father) and was cast down from heaven with his followers, forfeiting the chance to come to earth and gain a physical body. While Jesus and Satan share divine parents (along with the rest of us), they are working toward opposite goals and have nothing to do with each other. In other words, we believe that Jesus and Satan are brothers just as we believe that Adolf Hitler and Elie Wiesel are brothers since they are both children of God.
     
Q: Are Mormons Christians? If so, why do some other Christians have trouble accepting their version of Christianity?

A: By any fair definition, Mormons are Christians. They accept Jesus Christ as their Savior, and their church (official name: Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) bears His name. Some Christians believe that anyone who does not accept the Trinity (a three-in-one god, or one-in-three god if you prefer) cannot be a Christian. Like Jews, Mormons reject the Trinity, which was officially affirmed by the same council that initiated state-sponsored anti-Semitism. Other Christians have a problem with our belief in non-biblical scriptures. Mormons believe that God continues to reveal truths to prophets, and lose as much sleep over Evangelicals’ rejection of the Book of Mormon as Jews do over the refusal of Baptists to accept the Talmud.     

Q: Bill Maher and Lawrence O’Donnell have stated that Mormons believe that blacks do not have souls. Is this true?

A: With all due respect to a noted atheist pundit and a “practical European Socialist” TV writer, they are as wrong as can be. There is absolutely no truth to this statement. Mormons believe that all people on earth are children of God with souls and divine potential. What Maher and O’Donnell may have intended to refer to is the denial of the LDS priesthood to black males from 1849 to 1978. While black members gave sermons, offered prayers, sang in choirs, and taught Sunday School, black men were not ordained to the priesthood. The reason for this has not been revealed, though many theories abound. Given my biracial ethnicity, I felt the need to pray, fast, and ponder over this issue before leaving on my LDS mission. Without an answer from God, I felt that I could not represent my church to others. Suffice it to say that I went on my mission. A public forum is not the place to discuss what my answer was, but biblical examples like the ancient Israelite restriction of the priesthood to the direct male descendants of Aaron, or Jesus and His apostles’ refusal to take the gospel to the Gentiles until after His death (indeed, we have no scriptural record of a divine appearance to non-Israelites), show that God’s love for all His children is not the only factor in play here. Two other reasons why contemporary Mormons don’t worry too much about the past priesthood denial: 1) the church is growing exponentially in Africa, Brazil and the Caribbean; 2) we don’t believe that God will hold people responsible for privileges that were denied them in this life.   

Q: Do Mormons still practice polygamy?

A: No. For Mormons, polygamy is only acceptable when God authorizes it through prophets. The default arrangement is one man with one woman, as appears to have been the case from Adam until Abraham. We believe that God authorized Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and David to take additional wives (Mormons believe that Hagar was married to Abraham – D&C 132:34). By the first century CE, the default arrangement was once again in force: bishops had to be the husband of one wife (1 Timothy 3:2). As far as we know, the next time that polygamy was authorized was in the 19th century, when LDS Church leaders took multiple wives. In 1890, Church President Wilford Woodruff declared in his “Manifesto” that polygamy was no longer authorized. [A second Manifesto was issued in 1904 in response to the refusal of some church members to comply with the church’s new policy]. Since that time, Mormons who enter into polygamous relationships are excommunicated. Today any “Mormons” who practice polygamy are either on the cast of “Big Love” or members of fundamentalist churches that have no relation to us. As a frustrated bachelor, I am personally grateful that I am only asked to find one wife, not several.

Q: What is The Book of Mormon?

A: It is a book of ancient scripture written for modern times. At the beginning of the book, a prophet named Lehi leaves Jerusalem with his family during the reign of Zedekiah (600 BCE). He is a member of the tribe of Manasseh, and his group is eventually led to the Americas, where his descendants divide themselves into two civilizations. The more righteous of the two groups observed the Law of Moses, read from Isaiah, and built temples. The highlight of the book is the appearance by Jesus in the Americas after His resurrection. The book was translated from gold plates by Joseph Smith, the first prophet in modern times, and Mormons accept it as scripture.

Q: Why can’t non-Mormons enter temples?

A: Mormons worship in chapels on Sundays, and everyone is welcome to attend our services. However, temples are places where Mormons go to make sacred covenants with God. Only people who have made and kept certain covenants with God (including baptism into the LDS Church) are permitted to enter temples. The Abrahamic Covenant is the center of our temple worship, and the ordinances performed there seal families together for eternity. I feel closer to Jews when I am in an LDS temple than in any other place, including the Western Wall in Jerusalem.

I will likely be posting similar Q&A posts in the coming months, so please feel free to write me with your questions.

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I will be speaking in San Antonio, TX on April 15 and 16.       

Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine, CA on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

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February 7, 2011 | 2:10 am

Glenn Beck vs 400 Rabbis

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A few years ago I was on the phone with a Jewish activist from Florida who was well-known for being a Democrat and a feminist. I was interested to hear what she had learned from decades of service in the Jewish community, so I asked her what she considered to be the most important Jewish issue of our time – and why. Without a moment’s hesitation, she replied, “Abortion rights. The freedom to choose is what Judaism is all about.” I thought that she had not understood my question, so I repeated it with an added emphasis on the word “Jewish.” She in turn repeated her answer more forcefully, leaving no doubt that she considered abortion to be a more important Jewish issue than the security of Israel, Jewish education, intermarriage, theological delegitimization of Israel and Judaism, increasing anti-Semitism in Europe and Latin America, etc. Whatever one’s views on abortion, her argument is almost impossible to defend. Her liberal views on moral issues had clearly distorted her understanding of the priorities of modern world Jewry, and I soon discovered that she was considered by many of her peers to be more of a political activist than a Jewish one.

I was reminded of this conversation while reading a recent ad placed in the Wall Street Journal and Forward newspapers by the progressive group Jewish Funds for Justice (JFSJ), which has been gunning for conservative TV and radio pundit Glenn Beck for a long time. Last July JFSJ had over 250 Christian and Jewish leaders sign an ad slamming Beck for his comparison of comments made by the group’s president to the warped logic used by Nazis to establish death camps. Shortly thereafter, JFSJ’s president and two other rabbis met with top Fox News executives to voice their displeasure with Beck’s on-air references to Nazis and the Holocaust. In January the group attempted to deliver a petition signed by 10,000 people demanding that Fox terminate Beck.  The most recent ad shows the signatures of 400 rabbis affixed to a petition demanding that Beck be sanctioned for the inappropriate use of the Holocaust and references to Nazis to demonize his opponents, including Jewish Holocaust survivor George Soros. JFSJ’s homepage is dominated by a banner article entitled “Why Glenn Beck is Special” written by Mik Moore, the group’s “chief strategy officer.” At first glance, it looks like a liberal group obsessed with a conservative pundit has enlisted rabbis in yet another attempt to silence him.

Although the ad begins with the invocation “Dear Mr. Murdoch, We are rabbis of diverse political views,” the 20 or so signatories with whom I am acquainted are all rabbis who are affiliated with progressive causes. I suspect that some of the rabbis were motivated to sign as much by Beck’s politics as by his ill-considered statements. I wanted to hear from a signatory whose motives were pure, so I contacted Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson of the American Jewish University in Los Angeles. His answer was, as always, insightful and on target: “I was intending to sign a statement against abusing the Holocaust to condemn people with whose politics we differ. Left, center, and right, the abuse of Holocaust language cheapens the memory of the six million and makes real conversation (let alone learning from each other) impossible. What is clear is that people on the left like the petition because they dislike Beck, and people on the right condemned the petition because they support him. No one to date has responded to the core issue of abuse of the Shoah for political purposes. For that reason, I would not sign such a petition if asked today - it gets filtered through partisan political concerns rather than broad religious/ethical values. You are free to quote me on that.”

Since I write a religion blog, not a political one, my concern is not only whether Beck’s comments merit condemnation but also whether they are an appropriate target for the collective wrath of 400 rabbis. I have already condemned Beck’s irresponsible attacks on Soros’s Jewishness and actions during WWII, and agree with JFSJ and the rabbis that they are reprehensible. However, for the life of me I cannot understand why the signatories would invoke the considerable moral authority of the rabbinate on this issue, considering the source. Moreover, the text of the ad inexplicably (and carelessly) cites statements by Jewish leaders (e.g., Abe Foxman, Deborah Lipstadt) who in fact were less than enthusiastic about the ad. Mr. Foxman, a Holocaust survivor, expressed my sentiments exactly: “While we have said many times that Nazi comparisons are offensive and inappropriate when used for political attacks, in my view it is wrongheaded to single out only Fox News on this issue, when both liberals and conservatives, Democrats and Republicans, can share equal guilt in making trivializing comparisons to the Holocaust. Furthermore, the open letter signed by hundreds of rabbis is a trivialization in itself… at a time when Holocaust denial is rampant in much of the Arab world, where anti-Semitism remains a serious concern, and where the Iranian leader has openly declared his desire to ‘wipe Israel off the map,’ surely there are greater enemies and threats to the Jewish people than the pro-Israel stalwarts Rupert Murdoch, Roger Ailes and Glenn Beck.”

Both the respect I hold for the rabbinate and my desire to see the abuse of Holocaust imagery addressed in a more appropriate forum lead me to oppose the latest ad.

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Rabbi Lori Schneide and I will make a joint presentation on the role of Israel and the Abrahamic Covenant in our respective faiths on Wednesday, February 9 @ 7:30 p.m. @ USC Hillel (3300 S. Hoover Street, Los Angeles)

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Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

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February 4, 2011 | 10:23 am

Conversion: From Ex-Mormon to Jew, Part II

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God is like an icon which never changes, yet everyone who looks at it sees a different face.—midrash Pesikta de-Rav Kahana
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Most prospective converts to another faith are seeking answers to questions that their religious traditions either do not address or for which their answers do not ring true. This is certainly true for people who study LDS Christianity, and it is also true for converts to most faiths. When I called a former-Mormon-turned-Jew last week to discuss what had attracted her to her new faith, I expected her to discuss a few points of theology with a little Jewish culture thrown in as well. However, I was surprised to learn that what had attracted her to Judaism was in fact the religion’s lack of official, unequivocal answers to many of life’s questions, which she called a “refreshing” approach to faith.

Rae is a well-known young Jewish leader in Orange County, California, and attends a Reform synagogue in Newport Beach. She was born and raised in the LDS faith and got married at age 18 in one of our temples, where couples are “sealed” for eternity, not just until death. Unfortunately, the marriage only lasted 18 months, and not long after her divorce she asked the church to remove her name from its records (i.e., she excommunicated herself). Rae did this because she felt that she had tried to please others through her religious observance and had not done enough spiritual introspection to know whether she really wanted to cast her lot with the LDS Church. During the next few years her relationship with her parents became somewhat strained, and Rae became unsure of her ability to make good decisions. She was not sure that she believed in God. In short, “I was not in a good place.” She decided to make a bargain with God that if He would provide her with the life experiences she needed, she would become the person she was supposed to be.

One day she was standing in the kitchen of her Jewish grandmother, who had never expressed any desire to have Rae convert to her faith, when the thought came into her mind that she could not only be proud of her Jewish heritage, but she could also be Jewish. Until then, Rae had only been exposed to Jewish culture on a superficial level, but she eventually signed up for a Judaism course at the University of Judaism (now the American Jewish University) and underwent a conversion ceremony with immersion in the university’s mikvah. She said she had never seen her grandmother so happy.

Rae is enormously proud of her adopted faith’s ability to produce thinkers, along with its ability to evolve with the times through constant questioning and new textual interpretations. She sees beauty in Judaism’s willingness to live with uncertainty and doubt. Like most Jews, Rae views halakhic pluralism – the equal validity of different interpretations of Jewish law – as a strength. Such a concept, of course, is very foreign to her former faith, which does not claim to have all of the answers, but does claim to have some answers (e.g., the divinity of Jesus Christ) that can’t be challenged because they were divinely revealed to prophets both ancient and modern.   
   
While I sincerely wish that the LDS Church had been able to meet Rae’s spiritual needs, I am always happy to hear that people are productive, committed members of their new faith. Rae firmly believes that her Jewish neshama (soul) has found its home, and she loves to share the joys of being Jewish with others. Readers of this blog know that I think Judaism should become a proselytizing faith once again; people like Rae would certainly make fine missionaries. Not only does she love her new faith, but she respects her old one. Several times she stated that religion should “fulfill your spirituality,” and she has no objection to LDS Christianity doing that for others. These statements show that she has internalized what I consider to be one of Judaism’s signature attributes: religious tolerance. Yasher koach, Rae.               

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Rabbi Lori Schneide and I will be making a presentation on the role of Israel and the Abrahamic Covenant in our faiths on Wednesday, February 9 @ 7:30 p.m. @ USC Hillel (3300 S. Hoover)

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Rabbi Arnold Rachlis, Dr. Armand Mauss, and Brett Holbrooke will conduct an LDS-Jewish dialogue at University Synagogue in Irvine on Friday, March 11 @ 8:00 p.m.

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February 1, 2011 | 12:49 am

Conversion: From Ex-Mormon to Jew, Part I

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And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God. – Ruth 1:16

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While conversion to another faith is a rather sensitive topic for Jews, it is rarely a topic of conversation in Mormon circles. Although both communities are roughly the same size both in the United States (6 million) and worldwide (14 million), Jews have endured centuries of persecution, pogroms and anti-Semitism, and continue to be targeted for conversion by well-funded Evangelical groups like Jews for Jesus. Organizations like Jews for Judaism seek to counter these proselytizing efforts with varying degrees of success.

Mormons, on the other hand, are usually very tolerant of missionaries from other faiths, since we send out more than 50,000 of our own to dozens of countries every year. In addition, religious instruction for members born in the faith begins at age three and includes special scripture study classes for high-school and college students. Most LDS parents believe in administering the conversion inoculation found in Proverbs: Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

That said, there obviously are Mormons who convert to other faiths (though at a rate considerably below average). Last month I received a thoughtful e-mail from Ethan, an “ex-Mormon” who is considering conversion to Judaism. His letter inspired me to launch a search for Mormons who have become Jews. While I was unable to find a case where an active, temple-going Mormon had decided to become Jewish, I was contacted by two people who, like Ethan, were ex-Mormons when they began the conversion process. I’d like to share their stories with you in the next two posts.

Johnny is a gay ex-Mormon who once served as a missionary in Rome, Italy. Prior to his Jewish conversion, he had not attended religious services of any kind for six years. He started accompanying his Jewish partner to synagogue services, though he had no idea that Judaism accepted converts. What initially attracted him to Judaism? A Friday night sermon: “That first night, the rabbi spoke about the genocide that was taking place at that time in Rwanda. He said that as Jews, we couldn’t just sit back and say, “Tsk, tsk, isn’t that terrible?” We had an absolute obligation to do whatever we could to stop the slaughter … I remember thinking, ‘I would never have heard this sermon in a Mormon church.’ I decided to join an Intro to Judaism class just to see what it was all about.” Johnny went on to express his appreciation for the inquisitive Jewish mind: “I found I liked the fact that Jews were allowed to question. People debated over the meaning of scripture and what we should do with the information.” He also feels that his “contributions” to Jewish life are appreciated by his new coreligionists.

As with many conversions, there is a downside for Johnny: “I don’t feel I belong, the way I used to feel I belonged in Mormonism. I don’t know that this particular need will ever be filled again by any group… I find Jews in general much less open to meeting new people in their congregation.” Though Johnny clearly feels that he has been treated poorly by Mormon homophobes, he is also able to offer some words of praise for their faith: “How do I view Mormonism now? Well, part of me will always believe in Mormonism…It’s impossible to fully rid yourself of things learned in those formative years. Also, part of me rather likes some of the Mormon doctrines. I would like to believe in eternal progression toward perfection. I’d like to believe there will be peace and happiness, if not in a Millennium, at least in ‘heaven.’ Jews have a hundred different beliefs about the afterlife, and none of them seems any more comforting than Mormon beliefs. I don’t actually know what to expect after death, but I trust that God (who I do believe in) is kind and benevolent, and that’s all I need to know for now.”

I appreciate Johnny’s candor and fairness. While I regret that he is no longer part of my church, I’m happy that he now feels that he is part of a community that values his ideas and his service. I share his belief in a kind and benevolent God, and pray for Johnny to find the sense of spiritual belonging that has thus far eluded him.

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Hillel Rabbi Lori Schneide and I will be making a joint presentation on the role of Israel in our respective faiths at USC on February 9.   

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