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February 16, 2008 | 6:04 pm

Welcome to the Jewlyweds blog. Having navigated through Tales of a Jewish Bride-to-Be, there is a whole new world that needs a map, a compass and a bottle of Arrowhead. Luckily, this time I get to chart a new path with my husband.
As we start this journey, I have to confess something:
I was wrong. So very wrong. I thought after the wedding was over, my husband and I would have plenty of time to just relax and enjoy without having to meet with vendors or pick out things for our registries or deal with an ever-growing guest list.
What an idiot I was. Before I was engaged, my life was jam-packed with events and meetings and family and errands and travel. Why in the world would I think that after my insane life became a part of my husbandâs insane life that it all would be any easier?
I blame pop culture. With the exception of “Father of the Bride II,“ you donât get sequels to wedding movies. Iâd like to see âWhile You Were Sleeping 2: All the Stuff I Did While You Were Still in Bedâ; âMy Big Fat Greek Wedding 2â: The Family Comes for Dinner â Againâ; or âWhen Harry Met Sally 2: Life on the Side.â
This weekend we have family in town; the weekend after we are free â as far as I know, for the moment, I think. The week after, my husband is off to bring technology to the Heartland. Then the following weekend we have a conference. Not to mention Purim and Pesach-related activities. I think things will start to slow down after that â but as I noted above, Iâve been wrong before. Iâd love to know if other newlyweds feel the same.
Forget about a wedded bliss weekend â weâre looking for five minutes where we donât have to be somewhere or do something. If you can send us five minutes of your time, we’re starting up a collection.
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Parshat Vayigash (Genesis 44:18-47:27): It was brief. Jacob, head of the House of Israel, met with Pharaoh, King of Egypt
What else explains the collective amnesia on display?
Dear Jewlywed,
Eventually things will slow down. You will eventually exchange everything on your regestry, your photographer will give you your photographs and DVDs, and you will settel into a comfortable routine. Until then, try to take those five minutes a day just to sit and converse with your hubby. Before you know it the five will turn into ten and more.
Busy before….double it now…. as there are two of you…plus the families (yours and his) and the friends and….
Just wait till you have kids!!!
SHOSHIE! I’M SO GLAD TO HAVE YOU BACK. I MISSED TALES OF A JEWISH BRIDE-TO-BE SOOOOO MUCH. OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG. HONESTLY. GREATEST DISCOVERY EVER. AHHHH.
I agree both with Hana and with Anonymous. Time for yourself will be a luxury for you especially when you have kids. But eventually, when you get to learn to manage, you’ll find time for yourself.