March 27, 2013 | 11:30 am

Loving kindness

Posted by Dr. Limor Blockman

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"Desire fulfilled is a tree of life” (Proverbs 13:12)


What entitles the glorious inscription 'act of kindness' in a romantic, couplehood setting?

Caring for one another's well being and healthy mindset is a crucial component in a long term relationship. Working hard to maintain a certain social class or level of prosperity is not enough, a couple must nourish each other's souls and 'Joie De Vivre', failing to attend to it might result in a slow, but consistent deterioration of the very structural core of a relationship.

Proverbs 31 puts kindness in the center of the quote below:

'She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and the law of kindness is on her tongue.
She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her:
Many daughters have done valiantly, but thou excellest them all'(Proverbs 31;26-9)

Utilize these efficient tips for an ongoing maintenance of your valued relationship and infinite love:

• Simple acts of kindness can completely enhance your relationship. Give her a foot massage after a long day, rub her back or bring her fresh coffee, while she's working on the computer. Being kind means, making everyday life, better and more comfortable.
• No pressure: If she's not excited about a certain sexual gesture, wait for a better opportunity, and avoid persuasion. Hey, she might come around with an even better offer!
• Strong people apologize: Made a mistake? Said something hurtful? Telling your loved one that you are sorry, could be a struggle, even when you're wrong. Don't delay, solve it immediately & be sincere.
• Notice beautiful changes in your lover's appearance or behavior? Don't keep it to yourself, speak your mind. Positive feedbacks adheres your love and relationship; keep it fresh!
• Engaging in an important conversation? No one is a mind reader; be coherent and assertive, not intimidating or silent. The key to good intimacy, is communication; don’t forget to have an insatiable "make up sex session" shortly after!

 

All tips were derived from “365 DAILY TIPS FOR OUTRAGEOUS SEX & INTIMACY” by Dr.Limor Blockman©


Dr.Limor is a renowned Clinical Sex Counselor, Educator, Columnist, Speaker and Author. 
Dr. Limor holds a PhD in Human Sexuality, a Master’s in Public Health & Community Medicine & a Bachelor’s in Psychology & Behavioral Sciences.
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March 5, 2013 | 1:27 pm

Passionate Lovers

Posted by Dr. Limor Blockman

Who might be the happiest couple you encounter? Would that be that one indulgent in the most material comforts? Maybe the one fortunately blessed with many offsprings? The truth of the matter, they can all be crowned as a 'happy couple', as long as both parties remember the importance of passion and novelty, in a long term relationship. The 'Song of Songs' kindly emphasizes the true consuming, enchanting quest of love, of passion and the consummation of it.

'Scarce had I passed from them, when I found him whom my soul loveth: I held him, and would not let him go, until I had brought him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her that conceived me: 'I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles, and by the hinds of the field, that ye awaken not, nor stir up love, until it please' (Song of Songs 3;4 )

Utilize these tips in favor of a thriving, nourishing relationship that will keep your heart joyous and your 'body of marriage ' gratified!

• Practice different ways of stimulation: varying your touch from gentle to intense. Play with different angles of caressing, change it from up-and-down to circles. Practicing these changes will both indulge your lover and will gratify you with important information regarding her "TURN ONs"… sexy!
• Plan a getaway: even a short leave can refresh and upgrade your love life, not to mention your sexual interest.  The key is to satisfy her needs even if it means gentlemanly compromising yours….
• Don’t keep your hands to yourself: touching & caressing is a wonderful thing! Don’t restrict it to your private, intimate environment but rather fondle and embrace anytime or anywhere. Hold hands while watching your favorite show, caress his nape while his driving, or rub your thigh against his during breakfast. The only way is up!
• Lead the way: Take matters into your hands with the role of a Fierce Diva! Assertive women are ranked very high in the "men's biggest fantasies" scale. Don’t initiate this routine too often; he might get too comfortable & lazy…
• She might seem confident, but chances are she’s somewhat insecure in your presence... even advanced modern women need to know that they’re respected and appreciated. Compliment her constantly, while on your own or in the presence of others, she'll want to keep you forever…

 

All tips were derived from “365 DAILY TIPS FOR OUTRAGEOUS SEX & INTIMACY” by Dr.Limor Blockman©


Dr. Limor is a renowned Clinical Sex Counselor, Educator, Columnist, Speaker and Author. 
Dr. Limor holds a PhD in Human Sexuality, a Master’s in Public Health & Community Medicine & a Bachelor’s in Psychology & Behavioral Sciences.


365 Daily Tips For Outrageous Sex & Intimacy/ 365 Daily Tips for Outrageous Sex & Intimacy-Kindle edition


http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/the-sex-doctors-prescription/id422272800?mt=8

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