Jewish Journal

Search our Archives!

Email to a Friend

Should I Give Up And Move Home?

URL: http://www.jewishjournal.com/ask_your_yenta/item/should_i_give_up_and_move_home_20101106

Dear Yenta,

Several months ago I made a big, gutsy cross-country move, leaving a college that simply felt wrong. I don’t regret this decision; if nothing else it’s made me feel brave, accomplished, and that almost anything is possible. However, now I find myself unemployed, a “college drop-out” (with intentions to transfer when I attain state residency next year), and almost entirely without community. Though aware that I am unsatisfied, I’m unsure of where to turn from here. My family urges me to come home, but I’m reluctant to admit defeat. Should I stick it out and follow my original plan until things fall into place? Or is it time for retreat? Perhaps there is some middle ground?

Recipient email:
Your email:
What's this word?