August 23, 2010
Finding Lube in the Kitchen
Even when I’m so turned on I’m begging for it, I’m still practically parched between my legs so sex can be uncomfortable. The thought of putting some synthetic product like KY jelly in my body makes me cringe. I try to stick to organics but really want sex to be more fun/comfortable/lubricated. Is there anything I can do naturally to give my sex life more glide?
Dry As a Riverbed in the Grand Canyon
Woohoo, there are many solutions to your problem! For one, start by drinking up. One way to replenish natural lube is to drink your 8 cups of water daily, if not twice that and/or lots of herbal tea. Maybe cut things like coffee, diet coke, etc out of your diet. These diaretics can squelch your liquid supply.
Also try taking a spoonful of oil in the morning. Literally ingesting oil, ie, a spoon of soybean, canola, olive or soybean oil can help. That, and ladies remember your kegels. Flexing the muscles and walls of the vagina can help produce more sexual fluid.
Next, check in with a doctor to be sure there isn’t anything fishy going on below. If you haven’t gone through menopause, then you should be pumping lube pretty easily. Also, one more preliminary trick: have your partner put a finger inside of you to draw out your fluids. Sometimes when you secrete during sex it doesn’t reach the outer lips, bring it forward. For those still working towards their first orgasm: this increases the pleasure involved in clitoral stimulation tenfold.
As for natural lube from outside sources, there are many options. Beware of a few things from the get go. (Click here for more on food in bed.)
1) NEVER USE OIL BASED LUBE WITH A CONDOM
Natural Lube Options
Safe With a Latex Condom:
Yes Organic Natural Lubricant
Safe (But NOT Safe w/ a Latex Condom)
Beware, if applicable: there is no spermicide in natural lubricant.
Also, a note on the lubes we used…
According to Emma Pezzack in “How to Green Up Your Sex Life: Organic Personal Lubricant,”
“Most [standard lubricant] ingredients are various forms of petrochemicals such as propylene glycol (often used in car batteries as anti-freeze), synthetic preservatives (such as the family of parabens, which have been found in cancerous breast tissue and are known endocrine disruptors encouraging an over-abundance of estrogen), glycerine (which not only is drying over time causing skin to potentially become even more absorbent to harmful ingredients, but it’s also a sugar, therefore can feed candida, or thrush, bacteria), and sodium hydroxide (which is very harsh and irritating to skin).”
This means that potentially, the lube some of you use is ironically slowly killing your sexual organs. (Or something like that…)
Go organic, egg whites could be fun!