September 21, 2006
Amy Klein’s bibliographical guide for the perplexed
Thirteen books that might help
"Don't aim at success -- the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the byproduct of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: You have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run -- in the long run, I say! -- success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it." -- "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl (Pocket Books, 1984)
"When we open ourselves to our creativity, we open ourselves to the creator's creativity within us and our lives; We are, ourselves, creations. And we, in turn, our meant to continue creativity by being creative ourselves; creativity is God's gift to us. Using our creativity is our gift back to God." -- "The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity" by Julia Cameron (Tarcher, 2002)
"Knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life. We were made to have meaning. This is why people try dubious methods, like astrology or psychics to discover it.... When life has meaning, you can bear almost anything; without it, nothing is bearable." -- "The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For?" (Rick Warren, Zondervan 2002)
"Tradition teaches us that the soul lies midway between understanding and unconsciousness, and that its instrument is neither the mind nor the body, but imagination. I understand therapy as nothing more than bringing imagination to areas that are devoid of it, which then must express themselves by becoming symptiomatic." -- "Care of the Soul: A guide for cultivating depth and sacredness in everyday life" by Thomas A. Moore (HarperCollins, 2002).
"Many of us go through the rituals of survival with a deeper sense of something greater, or even something smaller. We may crave spiritual insight, or perhaps we yearn for simple pleasures, such as the time to close our eyes and take in the smells of a flower garden, feel the sun shining warmly on our faces, or to relish the comfort of a cozy oversized robe and good novel.... Indulge yourself by prioritizing self-nourishment -- everyone benefits when you feel good." -- "The Book of Small Pleasures: 32 Inspiring Ways to Feed Your Body, Soul and Spirit" by Matthew McKay, Catherine Sutker, Kristin Beck (Barnes & Noble, 2001)
"God gave us a world that would inevitably break our hearts, and compensated for that by planting in our souls the gift of resilience.... If we could not temporarily put out of our minds some of the painful moments of our past, how would we find the courage to go on? ... But if we would not remember, would we still be us? Those painful moments are such a large part of making us who we are...." -- "Overcoming Life's Disappointments" by Harold S. Kushner (Knopf, 2006)
"It is a fact that everybody wants happiness and does not want suffering; there is no argument about this. But there is disagreement about how to achieve happiness and how to overcome problems. There are many types of happiness and many ways to achieve them, and there are also many types of sufferings and ways to overcome them. As Buddhists, however, we aim not merely for temporary relief and temporary benefit but for long-term results. Buddhists are concerned not only for this life but for life after life, on and on. We count not weeks or months or even years, but lives and eons." -- "The Meaning of Life" by The Dalai Lama (Wisdom Publications, 1992)
"Human beings best qualify themselves for the world to come through a combination of studying Torah and good deeds.... Thus even the belief in the world to come is, in Judaism, a motivator to study Torah and to perform good deeds in this world." -- "To Do the Right and the Good: A Jewish Approach to Modern Social Ethics" by Elliot N. Dorff (The Jewish Publication Society of Philadelphia,
2002) "We've forgotten that as mere mortals we are meant to search as much as to find. After all, each of us has had only a few decades of what has been a 14-billion-year evolution. We are finite creatures. How could we possibly have access to what is infinite: some all-encompassing Truth about the world or even our True selves? The fact is, there is no issue, large or small, that we can understand fully. When we think we've found the final truth, we're a little less alive, a little less awake, and the world itself is diminished." -- "Yearnings: Embracing the Sacred Messiness of Life" by Rabbi Irwin Kula with Linda Lowenthal (Hyperion, 2006)
"Judaism has survived 4,000 years, including 2,000 years without a homeland, without the Temple in Jerusalem, without any common geographical location, without support from the outside. Judaism and Jews survived because of the Torah. No matter where they lived, no matter what historical horrors or joys they experienced, the heart of their faith was carried and communicated through the way, the path and the teachings of the Torah."